I turned 30 last year. I’m an Indian girl. I used to find the idea of marriage and long term relationships gross in my 20s. I kept turning down a lot of men and had casual flings with many. Also, was dishonest with a few.
In my 20s, I got so much attention from men, specially my Indian male friends. Since I turned 30, I’ve been getting hardly any attention from men. Most of my friends got married and the other men, even on dating apps, seem hardly interested in trying on me.
I am finding it really hard to deal with not being wanted anymore. How do I overcome this and get men to chase me again?
If you are a man and take good care of yourself you can date women in their 20s well into your 40s. New women are being born every year. Why deal with all of that pressure, as a man? Men do not chase women in their 30s, they settle for them. They chase after women in their 20s. Sounds like your problem is you thought you’d be 20 forever!