30+ yr old woman needs help

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Jul 7 52 Comments

If you meet a woman who cribs about unable to take decision about something, which she explains is life changing. You listen to her and in your opinion with the most logical way you would feel she is worried about something futile.

She is pretty, single, gives you enough attention, Feminist, lives with parents and does her job well.

Would you help her take that decision?

Just listen to her and agree with what she concludes after 1hr chat?

Tell her what you really feel?

Just leave?

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  • Facebook ⭕w⭕
    Women do not want you to solve their problems, they only want to be listened to: https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg
    Jul 7 6
    • Symantec
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      LoL
      Jul 7
    • Texas Children's Hospital / IT hOtS75
      Facts.
      Jul 7
    • Neurocrine LC is life
      😂 this is so true
      Jul 7
    • Amazon •OP
      I too have had such a pain...
      I understand...

      This has avoided so many arguments.
      Jul 7
    • Symantec
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      I can relate to that dude. It's hilarious
      Jul 7
  • Indeed / Data 1U8zvM
    Anything would have to be based on whatever her problem is, so no one can really provide useful input until you elaborate.

    Also, as a side note, saying she's "pretty, single, gives you enough attention, feminist, lives with parents" is intensely creepy. Why is any of that relevant to helping her?
    Jul 7 3
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      OP
      She walks around to grab attention and says she is been smothered by guys.
      Jul 7
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      Life changing decision: she is dating someone but it isn't serious relationship and is complaining that it is affecting her.
      Jul 7
    • Flowcast lulll
      Why the fuk are you wasting your time listening to some bich complain all the time?
      Jul 7
  • Cadence mp12
    What is the post about, it's so incoherently written. Is this in english, what is cribs?

    I assume OP is not in the US.
    Jul 7 14
    • Amazon •OP
      Now I am more confused with this explaination. Think this is straight trolling now.
      Jul 7
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      Who is getting trolled 😋
      Jul 7
    • Facebook ⭕w⭕
      Bruv, it's easier to understand what OP is saying if you read it in a British accent.
      Jul 7
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      Rotfl
      Jul 7
    • Amazon •OP
      Which british accent? there are a whole bunch of them.
      I'll have this guy read it in all, to see what makes sense.

      https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=riwKuKSbFDs&t=27
      Jul 7
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    What type of role do you have at your work?
    Jul 7 3
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      Janitorial
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    • LinkedIn nubody
      You must know your shit
      Jul 7
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      Exactly. So I put her back in her place. It doesn't end well. At work can't have such hostile environment but she keeps coming back. 😁
      Jul 7
  • Indeed / Data 1U8zvM
    Assuming you're at least kinda friends with her (I can't imagine why she'd share this with you if you weren't), then give your genuine advice, but acknowledge that her situation sucks and that you wish it wasn't that way.
    Jul 7 3
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      No I won't say i am a friend. I maintain distance as she isn't a hypocrite and selfish woman. She lacks empathy and has hurt many guys emotionally. I speak the truth and she never likes it. Pretty sure she gossips about everything I do.
      Jul 7
    • Microsoft / Eng m_username
      She sounds like a drama queen.
      Jul 7
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      Haha she is
      Jul 7
  • Uber snxidh
    Is she Indian girl? What's her total comp
    Jul 7 3
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      Wow!
      Jul 7
    • Uber snxidh
      She and you are both indian!!!!
      Jul 7
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      Lithuanian
      Jul 7
  • Google singl4ever
    Sounds like OP is into the lady. 😂
    Jul 7 2
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      LoL she is pretty but i can't date someone who has low esteem to still live with parents at 30+. She can't even take care of her own laundry. Not sure if she does chores at home to help parents. She is mostly a liability.
      Jul 7
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      Cool
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  • Oracle marriedM
    Sounds like you're not sure what you're doing in there!

    It sounds like the young lady wants to be heard, but has decided that she can keep doing better and unable to decide whether to settle down. Staying with parents is probably cramping her independence.

    Ask her about this once she's finished saying everything she has to say, unless you want to remain a passive observer.
    Jul 7 0
  • Amazon •OP
    OP, From the first two lines you can tell you like her. In the second paragraph you say she is pretty. This is the only reason you listened that long.

    You may already be friend zoned by then. 🤷 Be more clear if you are trying to date her, flirt and take her off talking about other dudes.
    Jul 7 4
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      No. I hear her only to let her finish and then tell her where she is wrong. A couple times she did not like my answers and passed a few personal remarks 😅

      I have this post to see how someone else feels with a limited info.
      Jul 7
    • Amazon •OP
      So are you also here just to listen an tell people how they are wrong?
      In that case, welcome to Blind.
      Jul 7
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      Just to listen how patient people are. If they think from their pants and attack the post or if they think deeper to probe for more information.
      Jul 7
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      Friend zoned 😆😁 maybe but i do not find her good enough. She doesn't take ownership of her personal problems.
      Jul 7
  • LinkedIn nubody
    Even feminist can learn. Show her the way
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      Really?
      Jul 7
  • Airbnb dlo
    OP, don’t be a simp.
    Jul 8 0
  • Amazon Tryin2Help
    She is flirting with you, be careful. No kidding, I have seen this is my sister team.
    Jul 7 0
  • Uber / Eng itsdara
    Tell her to go on Blind, tell her she can create polls to make people choose from only her choices
    Jul 7 0