A story of dating a guy from google

ServiceNow fGrq30
May 24 170 Comments

Dated a guy from google a few month ago, thought he is a decent guy. We went out for like 5 dates and had a good time together and did a lot of fun things. Getting intimate for a few times but no sex. Then last month, he was preparing for a conference, I didn’t talk to him and he didn’t talk to me either. After like 4 weeks, I texted him and he replied and causally asked what’s going on blahblahhh. I casually replied, then he just didn’t reply anymore. Occasionally, I would sent him pics over snap. Now I found out he blocked me on snap. Tryin to figure out what’s going on with him and where is his head at. I don’t understand why guys are doing things like this. PM me if u want to know more details and work for google 😉

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TOP 170 Comments
  • Microsoft idknbd
    He's just not that into you
    May 24 0
  • Facebook d00ng3r
    11/10 troll. Also some real sad motherfuckers on here.
    May 24 2
  • Google / Eng SexyVirgin
    If you need someone else from Google, here's one.
    Seriously I have nothing to do for the Memorial Day.

    I am so bored that I am working now.
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Sry, I have plans but happy to make more friends
      May 24
    • Amazon / Eng
      simmadown

      Amazon Eng

      BIO
      Hiring in nyc for exciting high visibility project. PM me for deets, esp FAANG people.
      simmadownmore
      And the desperate request comes from @SexyVirgin 😂
      May 24
    • Amazon undertaker
      His alias is an oxymoron
      May 25
    • Cruise Automation / Eng ⛸️
      @undertaker - nah, i've met some sexy virgins before, but they aren't the ones who spend their free time working :P

      @SexyVirgin - stop working in your free time and get a life.
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      You might have met them in highschool
      May 25
  • New arhR58
    He's not a player, he just codes a lot.
    May 24 2
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Hahahaaaa 🤣🤣🤣
      May 24
    • New arhR58
      Randomly blocking people is likely what a an immature person does instead of just tell you that doesn't like you that much and doesn't want to keep going out. 👋 You're better of finding someone who knows how to communicate, fuck that guy.

      Or maybe just smash quicker next time? 😄
      May 24
  • Microsoft
    BoomSauce

    Microsoft

    BIO
    Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
    BoomSaucemore
    5 dates and NO SEX?? That explains a lot
    May 24 6
    • Amazon undertaker
      I can go on for infinite dates with no sex. Cause sex comes after marriage. *Left for church*
      May 25
    • Microsoft
      BoomSauce

      Microsoft

      BIO
      Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
      BoomSaucemore
      LOL@undertaker

      After 2 or 3 dates it’s either happening or it’s not.
      May 25
    • Cruise Automation / Eng ⛸️
      Personally I appreciate a good slow relationship but maybe that's just me
      May 25
    • Microsoft
      BoomSauce

      Microsoft

      BIO
      Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
      BoomSaucemore
      To each their own.

      I just know that in today’s world of Tinder, Bumble, etc it’s easy to get your needs satisfied. Immediate gratification. Dating the traditional way is not very common anymore from what I see.

      Personally I don’t have the time for drama and old school courtship. Get in, get off, and get out. They do the same so it’s not a one way street
      May 25
    • Cruise Automation / Eng ⛸️
      Yeah if you're looking for hookups that makes sense. I personally don't do that - I go for relationships.
      May 28
  • New / Eng
    ☑️

    New Eng

    PRE
    NVIDIA, Adobe
    ☑️more
    Can I be your rebound? I'm an intern though
    May 24 12
    • Amazon undertaker
      I would have if you were girl but you are a troll
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I AM A GIRL 🧝🏻‍♀️
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Is it an old lady emoji?
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Nah... it’s Daenerys
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      You know that being Daenerys is not cool anymore after s8e5
      May 25
  • Amazon LAxL08
    Hit me up instead 😉
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Maybe 😉
      May 24
    • Amazon LAxL08
      I’ll be waiting ❤️
      May 24
    • Uber Uberer
      Score!
      May 24
    • Microsoft
      BoomSauce

      Microsoft

      BIO
      Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
      BoomSaucemore
      Careful what you wish for
      May 24
    • Qualcomm / Eng dynasty001
      Smooth brooo
      May 25
  • Uber / Eng rqDs70
    He find someone else during that month, when you texted him, his new gf asked him who you were, he said the truth, she got upset, he had to block you in front of her to keep her calm.
    Don't worry he will end up breaking up soon and will contact you after...
    May 24 13
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Oh that’s sad. I had some plans, but not feelin like goin.
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      I had plan, went out with my wife, ordered some wine, unfortunately I had to drive so she drank too much to finish the bottle and now she is sleeping 😑
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Awwwww, that’s so nice of u. Are u sure u r not tryin to make me jealous of you two?
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      Haha nah, why would I try to make you jealous? I know I'm working at Uber but we're not all mean 🤔
      Besides I was giving you hope telling you the story of my path
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I think u r probably right, seems like his ex came back and forced him to block me on snap. 😂
      May 26
  • Cisco startover
    He is playing around.. probably other options available for him.. if you liked him , why didn’t you have sex with him? I mean some woman wait for a few months... but with guys’ attention span nowadays ... I am not saying you had to have sex if you didn’t want it, just that any relationship needs to progress., when it is not people are losing interest..
    May 25 10
    • Cisco startover
      I was talking figuratively regarding swipe rights :)) since I need to explain : swipe right=keeping options open😂😂 and I am a woman btw😉
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      @startover Are u straight?
      May 26
    • Cisco startover
      Absolutely 🤣
      May 26
    • Cisco startover
      Why did my post resemble something that guy would say?
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I guess cuz u said keep swipin right 😀
      May 26
  • Clover Health sinkinship
    Y'all both did stop talking for a month. I don't think it's you. I think he just pressed on.
    May 24 0
  • Nvidia engineer44
    It's not just guys. Girls do the same thing
    May 24 0
  • Uber Uberer
    Well, that sounds immature on the guy's part. He should have let you know, atleast that would have cleared things up. Let him go, you deserve better 😉
    May 24 3
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Yea, he’s in mid twenties
      May 24
    • Uber Uberer
      I'm in my mid twenties as well. If you're not so constrained on "Google" requirement, I can treat you better 😁.
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I keep my options open 😉
      May 24
  • Intel {■■}
    I think he expecting service now but it took too long. :-)
    May 25 0
  • New / Data
    Binomials

    New Data

    PRE
    Amazon, Facebook, Google
    Binomialsmore
    Married
    May 24 0
  • Bloomberg ezJV08
    TC?
    May 25 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      secret 😉
      May 25
    • Bloomberg ezJV08
      That explains a lot. No wonder he dropped you
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      His lose then 🙂 FT SDE, PT model here 👯‍♀️
      May 25
    • ServiceNow Anon-12345
      Oh, hello.
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Hello
      May 25
  • Rubrik PartyStick
    Indian?
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Nahhhhh
      May 24
    • Ellie Mae Th0007
      Seriously !!!!!!
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Yea dahhhhhhhh
      May 25
    • Ellie Mae Th0007
      I meant it for @PartyStick haha
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Indians only ghost out if you talk about marriage which i don't see the case here
      May 25
  • New / Eng
    New B.O

    New Eng

    PRE
    Amazon, Zillow Group
    New B.Omore
    This is rather a very lengthy thread here.
    It's extremely strange to see that the obvious answer hasn't been posted.

    you didn't have sex with the guy after five times hanging out with the guy... so obviously he's going to try to stay away from you.

    I hope you don't feel bad but don't do this to the next guy you will meet if you like to stay on the forefront of his life.
    May 26 4
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      It was posted...
      And anyway how does it explain the blocking... If he wants to move on he should just say it
      May 27
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Agree, I would appreciate if he say it to me or at least me know so I could move forward with other options.
      May 27
    • Amazon HjNW76
      What are other options in hand op?
      Jun 11
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Plenty of options 🙃
      Jun 12
  • Facebook / Eng ffbo
    He upgraded and deprecated your version.
    May 25 4
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      He could downgraded as well 😆
      May 26
    • Facebook / Eng ffbo
      Yes that's also possible 😊
      May 26
    • AnchorFree / Eng 🍪 cookie
      It's an upgrade for sure, because the previous version didn't work at all so whatever he upgraded to, was an upgrade lol
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      He is actually downgraded lol 😂
      May 26
  • Amazon / Eng DeepObsess
    Tell him you're pregnant with his baby
    May 25 3
    • Facebook jsLc57
      They didn't even have sex. Did you skip your sex education classes in school?
      May 25
    • Amazon / Eng DeepObsess
      Test his memory
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      DeepObsess thinks bj makes girl pregnant
      May 25
  • Apple Zoikajkdbc
    He likes men
    May 24 8
    • EA / Eng
      YJMJ04

      EA Eng

      PRE
      Oracle
      YJMJ04more
      Being gay is not a choice, so is being straight. It would be very strange he would have sex with girls if he likes men
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      To OP: this was a good use of delete to put back the message where it belonged... YJMJ04 reply was first as a new thread 😉
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      He just took ya advice 😀
      May 24
    • EA / Eng
      YJMJ04

      EA Eng

      PRE
      Oracle
      YJMJ04more
      To rqDs70 and Zoi, the guy the author described is more likely to be straight (statistically speaking)
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      I would agree with that statement too... Hence my other suggestions a couple of posts above...
      May 24

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