A story of dating a guy from google

ServiceNow fGrq30
May 24 170 Comments

Dated a guy from google a few month ago, thought he is a decent guy. We went out for like 5 dates and had a good time together and did a lot of fun things. Getting intimate for a few times but no sex. Then last month, he was preparing for a conference, I didn’t talk to him and he didn’t talk to me either. After like 4 weeks, I texted him and he replied and causally asked what’s going on blahblahhh. I casually replied, then he just didn’t reply anymore. Occasionally, I would sent him pics over snap. Now I found out he blocked me on snap. Tryin to figure out what’s going on with him and where is his head at. I don’t understand why guys are doing things like this. PM me if u want to know more details and work for google 😉

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TOP 170 Comments
  • Microsoft idknbd
    He's just not that into you
    May 24 0
  • Facebook d00ng3r
    11/10 troll. Also some real sad motherfuckers on here.
    May 24 2
  • Google / Eng SexyVirgin
    If you need someone else from Google, here's one.
    Seriously I have nothing to do for the Memorial Day.

    I am so bored that I am working now.
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Sry, I have plans but happy to make more friends
      May 24
    • Amazon / Eng
      simmadown

      Amazon Eng

      BIO
      Hiring in nyc for exciting high visibility project. PM me for deets, esp FAANG people.
      simmadownmore
      And the desperate request comes from @SexyVirgin 😂
      May 24
    • Amazon undertaker
      His alias is an oxymoron
      May 25
    • Cruise Automation / Eng ⛸️
      @undertaker - nah, i've met some sexy virgins before, but they aren't the ones who spend their free time working :P

      @SexyVirgin - stop working in your free time and get a life.
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      You might have met them in highschool
      May 25
  • New arhR58
    He's not a player, he just codes a lot.
    May 24 2
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Hahahaaaa 🤣🤣🤣
      May 24
    • New arhR58
      Randomly blocking people is likely what a an immature person does instead of just tell you that doesn't like you that much and doesn't want to keep going out. 👋 You're better of finding someone who knows how to communicate, fuck that guy.

      Or maybe just smash quicker next time? 😄
      May 24
  • Microsoft
    BoomSauce

    Microsoft

    BIO
    Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
    BoomSaucemore
    5 dates and NO SEX?? That explains a lot
    May 25 6
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      How many dates would u have sex? One? Lol 😂
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      I can go on for infinite dates with no sex. Cause sex comes after marriage. *Left for church*
      May 25
    • Microsoft
      BoomSauce

      Microsoft

      BIO
      Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
      BoomSaucemore
      LOL@undertaker

      After 2 or 3 dates it’s either happening or it’s not.
      May 25
    • Cruise Automation / Eng ⛸️
      Personally I appreciate a good slow relationship but maybe that's just me
      May 25
    • Microsoft
      BoomSauce

      Microsoft

      BIO
      Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
      BoomSaucemore
      To each their own.

      I just know that in today’s world of Tinder, Bumble, etc it’s easy to get your needs satisfied. Immediate gratification. Dating the traditional way is not very common anymore from what I see.

      Personally I don’t have the time for drama and old school courtship. Get in, get off, and get out. They do the same so it’s not a one way street
      May 25
    • Cruise Automation / Eng ⛸️
      Yeah if you're looking for hookups that makes sense. I personally don't do that - I go for relationships.
      May 28
  • New / Eng
    ☑️

    New Eng

    PRE
    NVIDIA, Adobe
    ☑️more
    Can I be your rebound? I'm an intern though
    May 24 12
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Ain’t guys make the first move?
      May 24
    • Amazon undertaker
      If this is not a first move then what is?
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      DM me 😉
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Are you asking me or desrcibing the first move?
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Both
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      I would have if you were girl but you are a troll
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I AM A GIRL 🧝🏻‍♀️
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Is it an old lady emoji?
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Nah... it’s Daenerys
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      You know that being Daenerys is not cool anymore after s8e5
      May 25
  • Amazon LAxL08
    Hit me up instead 😉
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Maybe 😉
      May 24
    • Amazon LAxL08
      I’ll be waiting ❤️
      May 24
    • Uber Uberer
      Score!
      May 24
    • Microsoft
      BoomSauce

      Microsoft

      BIO
      Dropping knowledge and turds in equal measure
      BoomSaucemore
      Careful what you wish for
      May 25
    • Qualcomm / Eng dynasty001
      Smooth brooo
      May 25
  • Uber / Eng rqDs70
    He find someone else during that month, when you texted him, his new gf asked him who you were, he said the truth, she got upset, he had to block you in front of her to keep her calm.
    Don't worry he will end up breaking up soon and will contact you after...
    May 24 13
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      My advice, move on... Whatever the reason, you or not, it's unlikely you have a future in the short term... Don't waste your time. There are plenty of guys around
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Thanks for the advice. It’s definitely possible, the last message he sent out doesn’t sounds like him though.
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      FYI, you can edit your message... No need to delete to fix a typo... Now we have our messages out of sync...
      Of course I could delete mine to put it back as an answer to yours 😂
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Well, u caught me 🤨
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      Yes unfortunately for you, I have nothing better on my Friday evening than refreshing blind every 10s...
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Oh that’s sad. I had some plans, but not feelin like goin.
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      I had plan, went out with my wife, ordered some wine, unfortunately I had to drive so she drank too much to finish the bottle and now she is sleeping 😑
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Awwwww, that’s so nice of u. Are u sure u r not tryin to make me jealous of you two?
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      Haha nah, why would I try to make you jealous? I know I'm working at Uber but we're not all mean 🤔
      Besides I was giving you hope telling you the story of my path
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I think u r probably right, seems like his ex came back and forced him to block me on snap. 😂
      May 26
  • Cisco startover
    He is playing around.. probably other options available for him.. if you liked him , why didn’t you have sex with him? I mean some woman wait for a few months... but with guys’ attention span nowadays ... I am not saying you had to have sex if you didn’t want it, just that any relationship needs to progress., when it is not people are losing interest..
    May 25 10
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Good point, but guys will think this girl is too easy 😀
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      +1 to op... Hence do it only after marriage... probably after having first child. 😂
      May 25
    • Cisco startover
      After one month?🤔i am not sure that’s true in this culture:) though if guy truly likes a girl he will wait much longer:) but looks if he is doubting, he will keep swiping right 🤣
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      R u this type of who always swipe right lol 😂
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Keep swiping right marks you as bot in tinder algo and you won't get any matches..learned it hard way
      May 25
    • Cisco startover
      I was talking figuratively regarding swipe rights :)) since I need to explain : swipe right=keeping options open😂😂 and I am a woman btw😉
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      @startover Are u straight?
      May 26
    • Cisco startover
      Absolutely 🤣
      May 26
    • Cisco startover
      Why did my post resemble something that guy would say?
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I guess cuz u said keep swipin right 😀
      May 26
  • Clover Health sinkinship
    Y'all both did stop talking for a month. I don't think it's you. I think he just pressed on.
    May 24 0
  • Intel {■■}
    I think he expecting service now but it took too long. :-)
    May 25 0
  • Nvidia engineer44
    It's not just guys. Girls do the same thing
    May 24 0
  • New / Data
    Binomials

    New Data

    PRE
    Amazon, Facebook, Google
    Binomialsmore
    Married
    May 24 0
  • Bloomberg ezJV08
    TC?
    May 25 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      secret 😉
      May 25
    • Bloomberg ezJV08
      That explains a lot. No wonder he dropped you
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      His lose then 🙂 FT SDE, PT model here 👯‍♀️
      May 25
    • ServiceNow Anon-12345
      Oh, hello.
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Hello
      May 25
  • Uber Uberer
    Well, that sounds immature on the guy's part. He should have let you know, atleast that would have cleared things up. Let him go, you deserve better 😉
    May 24 3
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Yea, he’s in mid twenties
      May 24
    • Uber Uberer
      I'm in my mid twenties as well. If you're not so constrained on "Google" requirement, I can treat you better 😁.
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      I keep my options open 😉
      May 24
  • Rubrik PartyStick
    Indian?
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Nahhhhh
      May 24
    • Ellie Mae Th0007
      Seriously !!!!!!
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Yea dahhhhhhhh
      May 25
    • Ellie Mae Th0007
      I meant it for @PartyStick haha
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Indians only ghost out if you talk about marriage which i don't see the case here
      May 25
  • New / Eng
    New B.O

    New Eng

    PRE
    Amazon, Zillow Group
    New B.Omore
    This is rather a very lengthy thread here.
    It's extremely strange to see that the obvious answer hasn't been posted.

    you didn't have sex with the guy after five times hanging out with the guy... so obviously he's going to try to stay away from you.

    I hope you don't feel bad but don't do this to the next guy you will meet if you like to stay on the forefront of his life.
    May 26 4
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      It was posted...
      And anyway how does it explain the blocking... If he wants to move on he should just say it
      May 27
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Agree, I would appreciate if he say it to me or at least me know so I could move forward with other options.
      May 27
    • Amazon HjNW76
      What are other options in hand op?
      Jun 11
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Plenty of options 🙃
      7d
  • Facebook / Eng ffbo
    He upgraded and deprecated your version.
    May 25 4
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      He could downgraded as well 😆
      May 26
    • Facebook / Eng ffbo
      Yes that's also possible 😊
      May 26
    • AnchorFree 🍪 cookie
      It's an upgrade for sure, because the previous version didn't work at all so whatever he upgraded to, was an upgrade lol
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      He is actually downgraded lol 😂
      May 26
  • Amazon / Eng DeepObsess
    Tell him you're pregnant with his baby
    May 25 3
    • Facebook jsLc57
      They didn't even have sex. Did you skip your sex education classes in school?
      May 25
    • Amazon / Eng DeepObsess
      Test his memory
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      DeepObsess thinks bj makes girl pregnant
      May 25
  • Apple Zoikajkdbc
    He likes men
    May 24 8
    • EA / Eng
      YJMJ04

      EA Eng

      PRE
      Oracle
      YJMJ04more
      Did you just assume the author’s gender? The author never mentioned their (singular) gender in their (singular) post
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      The author is SHE/HER
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      Well just the question: I don't understand why guy are doing like that is hinting for OP being a she... In Addition, to answer you need to make some assumption as you don't have all the details... Therefore the assumption that OP is a she was more likely (statistically speaking).
      May 24
    • EA / Eng
      YJMJ04

      EA Eng

      PRE
      Oracle
      YJMJ04more
      Being gay is not a choice, so is being straight. It would be very strange he would have sex with girls if he likes men
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      To OP: this was a good use of delete to put back the message where it belonged... YJMJ04 reply was first as a new thread 😉
      May 24
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      He just took ya advice 😀
      May 24
    • EA / Eng
      YJMJ04

      EA Eng

      PRE
      Oracle
      YJMJ04more
      To rqDs70 and Zoi, the guy the author described is more likely to be straight (statistically speaking)
      May 24
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      I would agree with that statement too... Hence my other suggestions a couple of posts above...
      May 24
  • New / Consultant
    LHBR

    New Consultant

    BIO
    Always looking how to do Business better.
    LHBRmore
    I’m sorry that happened to you. People seem to have become disposable. You don’t want a guy like that anyway! He saved you trouble.
    May 25 2
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Agree
      May 26
    • Amazon undertaker
      @LHBR: you are looking at one side of the picture, what if there was a problem with op rather than that guy?

      @op: you are agreeing because you saw what you want to read but not what you need to read.
      May 26
  • EA / Eng
    YJMJ04

    EA Eng

    PRE
    Oracle
    YJMJ04more
    Just playing around, fear of commitment, or found someone better?

    I met a guy, who spoiled me like a prince. I should have taken the chance and told him how I felt about him. But I took it for granted and waited and waited... now I paid the price.

    The lesson is... if it feels right, don’t wait! There are not that many good guys out there and someone who makes twice as much? That’s hella rare like a unicorn. If you found one, capture it before someone else does
    May 24 1
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Yeah, I waited for awhile to send out that message 😂
      May 24
  • New
    exMcKinsey

    New

    PRE
    Tesla Motors
    exMcKinseymore
    He got someone from Facebook
    May 24 1
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Possible lol 😂
      May 24
  • Ellie Mae Th0007
    LOL I cannot believe u guys ! A girl (possibly) indirectly says, available and you guys showcase how despo u all are :)
    May 25 0
  • Samsung
    ultramantaro

    Samsung

    BIO
    Stressed out but surviving
    ultramantaromore
    One would think servicenow + google will generate a pretty decent tc. Oh well
    May 24 0
  • AnchorFree overtimer
    How do you get intimate with no sex? O_o
    May 24 5
    • Uber / Eng rqDs70
      You hold hands? 😂
      May 24
    • Adobe OpenRoad19
      Blowjobs and going down
      May 25
    • AnchorFree 🍪 cookie
      Bj is sex
      May 26
    • Adobe OpenRoad19
      cookie, depends on who you ask. I, personally, feel it is; however, others feel sex is only penetration of a lower orifice (had to work around Blind’s obscenity rules). Just ask Bill Clinton. 😉
      May 26
    • Cadence qwer09
      Seriously OP either doesnt know what being intimate means or is from another country.

      Plus I think the guy dodged a bullet with the princess-attitude that OP has.
      Jun 3
  • Google Petersen
    There are other Google guys as well who are better 😉
    May 24 5
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Where?
      May 24
    • Google Petersen
      Well. What do I say? 😉
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Idk 🤷‍♀️
      May 25
    • Google Petersen
      I guess now I know why he stopped talking. You are missing the clues.
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      🤔impossible
      May 25
  • PayPal theniceguy
    Ok I’m drunk and I can listen your story. Feel free to PM me 😉😊
    May 25 4
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Should I trust a drunk human? lol 😂
      May 25
    • PayPal theniceguy
      Absolutely if the human is a nice guy 😊
      May 25
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Show me your nice side 😉
      May 26
    • PayPal theniceguy
      DM
      May 26
  • ServiceNow fGrq30
    OP
    I’m speechless for u 😶
    May 26 1
  • Netflix / Eng LoveDeathR
    Invite him over to Netflix and Chill
    May 24 1
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Send him an invite!
      May 24
  • Google / Eng Akephalos
    TC or DM
    May 24 1
  • Amazon / Eng frogman47
    You almost got me
    May 24 0
  • Ellie Mae Th0007
    @fGrq30: got a flooded inbox ?
    May 25 22
    • Amazon undertaker
      DMed...not a strategy...just working on skill to identify trolls :D
      May 25
    • Ellie Mae Th0007
      So do u conclude Troll or Hot ??
      May 25
    • Amazon undertaker
      Not received any DM yet. Hence troll
      May 25
    • Ellie Mae Th0007
      LOL
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Hahahaaaa, @undertaker strategy to get a gal’s digit is not workin lol 😂
      May 26
    • Amazon undertaker
      Don't need digits of gal with a d**k hanging between her legs
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      If u did not say this, I might have given u my digits already lol 😂
      May 26
    • Amazon undertaker
      Booooo... As i said i don't need your number...i am not in bay area so it's too much of an effort to keep talking remotely.... I just wanted to confirm if you really are a girl or a troll where as you made it about random strangers asking for your number on blind.
      Too much narcism....which makes me start believing that you are a girl 😆
      May 26
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Hahahaaaa, did I even mention I live in the Bay Area lol 😂
      May 26
    • Amazon undertaker
      I assumed since you are talking about google guy
      May 26
  • Target hvt654jji
    Omg you got dumped silly
    May 25 1
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      We all human, human get dumped all the time 😀
      May 25
  • Oracle iOFR21
    Do you know his Ldap id?
    May 24 1
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Why?
      May 24
  • Juniper scandeep
    Oh only for people at Google. Good luck then.
    May 24 1
    • ServiceNow fGrq30
      OP
      Nahhhhhhh...
      May 24
  • Cadence qwer09
    You have your answer right there with 5 dates and no sex. Whats he going to do if you withhold it. Where r you from? He cut his losses. How do you get intimate without doing the deed?
    Jun 3 0

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