Advice on alimony termination conditions
Long story short: getting divorced after 12 years of marriage in CA. That means the court cannot set an end date for the alimony and I am the payer. In short I am screwed as the soon to be ex-wife already made it clear she will not seek for better employment. Court date is in 2 weeks.
In CA by default there are two terminating conditions: death of either party and remarriage of the supported party (very unlikely).
I am looking for reasonable ideas that can be used as additional conditions to terminate my alimony payments to the opposite party such as:
- cohabitation of any kind
- making enough money to become self supportive
Any ideas/experience in this?