She moved to a new city and is meeting new people. She is an engineer so most of her friend circle is males. She often goes with them to the beach, to parties etc and although I hate to admit it, it makes me insecure especially because she is so far now. Is it normal to feel insecure? At the same time I donโt want to tell her to spend her weekends alone without friends
Spoof your GPS stream to her location Keep left swiping until you encounter her profile
Chad thundercock over in sales has already piped her, its too late.
Oh yea itโs over
That is why I dont join msft. The people there are toxic just like you.
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Do you have plans to move to her new city eventually? How far is it?
Itโs totally normal to feel insecure. I was in that situation too one day. If you trust her, everything will be ok. If not, try to check up on her every now and then. You can see if something is going on.
Nothing good would come out of trying to control her but if you really worry and don't fully trust her then check on her. Usually people give subtle hints if they are upto something. Long distance is super high maintenence but if she is worth it then do the maintenance and prepare for the worst emotionally. Also, visit in person at least once every three months. That's an absolute necessity.
Man up, the fu*** medieval times are long gone.
This answer will tell you everything you need to know: Do you trust her?
What does this even mean? You have no idea....
Honeywell guy honey coating a critical discussion that ruined the relationships of most humans.
Is it normal to feel insecure? ==> It's natural, given you most likely care about your relationship and worry you'll lose her. To tell her to spend weekends alone ==> this is the first thing that comes to mind, but don't go for the naive approach. Offer solutions on how you can spend time together, don't just prohibit things without replacing them with a better alternative.
If you guys like watching movies and TV shows, you can spend time together on rabb.it (there are some other similar websites as well). You can schedule GOT dates ๐ Regular phone/video sex - very important! Surprise visits! Meet her friends as well. Trust her and also your gut! ๐ โโ๏ธ
+1 Cook together, play, create opportunities for both of you to laugh and enjoy "your time". Perhaps let her know, you feel this way, so she knows you care, but don't over do it. Trust is always the key for both sides, and it means a lot to know someone fully trusts you.
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Where did she move because this doesnโt sound like the Bay Area
LA? Tel Aviv?
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