Anyone with speed dating experience in New York City? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Softvision AOoB63
Aug 1 99 Comments

Anyone here from New York City ever tried any of the dating services? If yes then which one? How was your experience as a man/woman? Would you recommend it? Is it any better than online dating?

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  • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
    Speed dating = desperate.
    Aug 1 38
    • Amazon dhhs8737
      VmQQ44 - I pity your husband. You are so friggin annoying. Gross.
      Aug 2
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Jokes on you, my husband makes me look tame. He’d destroy your nonsense.
      Aug 2
    • BlackRock / Eng saywat
      @dhhs8737 - don’t bother ... @VmQQ44 is a dude pretending to a woman here so people don’t call him a misogynist after reading his misogynistic comment 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Aug 2
    • Akamai is a dude. At least he was in other threads.

      Gender change operation maybe? Or maybe he’s pre-op?
      Aug 4
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Nope never been a dude in this thread or any other thread, nor in real life 🤷🏽‍♀️
      Aug 4
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    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      I wish so too, it would be a hell of a lot better! If we had a choice between the two, the one with modem feminism would just be a bunch of femnazis and angry lesbians... and of course the beta males. Remove these groups and the world would be perfect.
      Aug 2
    • BlackRock / Eng saywat
      I so wish you’re wish came true so I wouldn’t have to live in a world with heteronormative misogynists like you 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Aug 2
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Heteronormative misogynists 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Any other made up crap you want to share with the class? It’s painfully obvious to everyone why you’re sad, alone, and desperate.
      Aug 2
    • BlackRock / Eng saywat
      Lol are those the one adjectives you know ... maybe learn some more from you hubby ?!
      Aug 2
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Not the only ones, just the most obvious ones that are applicable to all femnazis.
      Aug 2
  • Verizon Media sxSG85
    If you’re into reading books, The Strand has speed dating events.
    Aug 2 11
    • Softvision AOoB63
      OP
      LOL you wouldn’t be commenting here ( or anywhere ) if your carbon footprint was in fact zero 🤷🏻‍♀️ #liar
      Aug 4
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      Oomnj

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      It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
      Oomnjmore
      I buy back my carbon limit so yeah it’s adjuster Zero
      Aug 4
    • Softvision AOoB63
      OP
      LOL your carbon footprint isn’t an EOM P&L workbook 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Aug 4
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      Oomnj

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      It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
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      That’s not what my accountant says
      Aug 4
    • Softvision AOoB63
      OP
      You’ve found your match in your accountant then ! #Soulmates
      Aug 4
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    • Softvision AOoB63
      OP
      Thanks but no thanks cause I am not looking for general opinions … I’m looking for particular reviews/experiences with speed dating services in New York City !
      Aug 1
    • Softvision AOoB63
      OP
      Yeah ok !
      Aug 1
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    Oomnj

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    It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
    Oomnjmore
    Normal dating in nyc is speed dating by other places standards haha
    Aug 3 4
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      This is a good point.
      Aug 3
    • Softvision AOoB63
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      @Oomnj - you really need to buy a Dictionary preferably one from The Strand
      Aug 6
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      Oomnj

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      It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
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      All paper bookstores and books need to be banned to reduce our carbon footprint
      Aug 6
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      But but... where will all the angry lesbians meet to plan their overthrow of the patriarchy??
      Aug 6
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    Girthy

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    Never tried speed dating but the league and hinge are the best in NYC, at this point it's in the high 20s of ppl I know who are in serious relationships between the two. Bumble or tinder if you are just looking to smash.
    Aug 2 8
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Or because as soon as they discover you’re a sad, desperate femnazi, they swipe left.
      Aug 2
    • Slalom Consulting / IT
      Girthy

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      Get the location of the ppl you speak with in NYC, speaks leaps and bounds as to how serious they are ie if they live with 3 ppl in the EV it's just a smash vs 1 bd in battery park. Since it's a destination place for ppl to live and check it off their bucket list it's a huge hookup zone for all the first timers till they get old and have to move away.
      Aug 2
    • Intel SwanBob
      If you’re really serious about finding a long term partner, then use one of the paid online dating sites. Not tinder and the like. Paywall is in itself a filter in finding people who are serious.
      Aug 2
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      Girthy

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      ^💥
      Aug 2
    • Intel SwanBob
      Lol and here I thought tinder was free, guess not, came out after my dating time (married now). Nevertheless it does not have the reputation that other pay services do.
      Aug 2
  • Facebook qswAa
    As you can see, most people in the tech industry are either incels or terrible at dating.

    If it's a trendy kind of place and not full of older people, it might be good? I've used online dating in both NYC and Seattle and found plenty of success in both, so never found the need to try the speed dating route.
    Aug 1 3
    • Facebook qswAa
      Of course, as a woman, you're going to have to filter through lots of trash and creeps, but that's kind of an unfortunate reality of dating for women these days.
      Aug 1
    • Facebook JarJarBunk
      Are you a woman?
      Aug 1
    • Facebook qswAa
      No I'm a man, but everytime I meet up with a woman I meet through online dating we end up taking about all the horror stories they have to go through.
      Aug 1
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    Are you into war pigs?
    Aug 1 1
    • Softvision AOoB63
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      Nope not into heavy metal
      Aug 1
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    As a straight cis male, I’ve had the best luck (judging by quality of women; enjoyment of date) using Coffee Meets Bagel and Bumble.

    I dabbled in group dating services like Grouper, but found it better to go with a friend to a random Trivia night.

    Obviously, learning a healthy attitude and self-esteem also improved my results..
    Aug 5 3
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      First of all no self respecting woman is going to date you if you’re a guy and call yourself cis. Might as well say cissy, sissy, or beta cuck. Just sayin’. 🤷🏽‍♀️
      Aug 6
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      Sissy Pete led a PUA workshop in Denver...
      Aug 6
    • Softvision AOoB63
      OP
      @VmQQ44 - first of all a patriarch like you (whether male or female ) doesn’t know shit about what self-respecting women want or don’t want!!! So kindly shut the hell up and go make a 🥪 for your husband . Just saying 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Aug 6
  • PayPal theniceguy
    Hey babe 😉😉
    Aug 2 0