Been online dating for two months, and I feel sad

Yelp
bitch.pls

Yelp

PRE
Facebook
bitch.plsmore
May 13 49 Comments

Got laid with 4 different girls, but found that they all have problems. One is an alcoholic, one just broke up with her gay boyfriend, one is too needy for sex and is to easy to get, and another comes from a lower class background and admires me in a creepy way.

Some girls i met were okay, but never made it with them past the first date.

Am I the problem? Or is it online dating? Or is everyone broken somehow like that?

comments

Want to comment? LOG IN or SIGN UP
TOP 49 Comments
  • Google __human__
    Everyone is broken. You just have to find people that are broken in ways you are cool with and great in ways that you care more about.
    May 130
  • Google goodfela
    What is wrong with the one with a gay ex bf?
    May 132
    • TripAdvisor owlwise
      Maybe OP thinks she'll make him sleep with him
      May 13
    • New AXL069
      I was the gay boyfriend ☹️
      May 13
  • New / Product
    falcon3

    NewProduct

    PRE
    Google
    BIO
    Startup enthusiast. Trying to make the world a better place! :)
    falcon3more
    This guy fucks!
    May 134
    • Microsoft / Otherabcde4
      He is white...
      May 13
    • Amazon
      Zulia

      Amazon

      PRE
      Google, Facebook, Amazon
      Zuliamore
      So?
      May 13
    • New / Eng
      10yoe250k

      NewEng

      PRE
      Google
      10yoe250kmore
      Microsoft is racist.
      7d
    • Snapchat pills
      Being white makes it much less impressive. Pretty easy to get laid in general if you are all things equal. Not racist, just true.
      7d
  • Amazon awssdm
    All of the above. Keep trying!
    May 131
    • Amazon qwertyup
      Yes, keep going. No reason to settle for something you don't want. You will find better.
      May 13
  • New vosk4
    “Never made it with them past the first date”. You’re describing this as though it’s a phone screen that you didn’t make it past. Stop looking at this as a process. Enjoy the experiences and don’t take it so seriously. Maybe something will happen, but instead consider the time you’re spending on your dating approach, how it fits within who you want to be, and how you’re growing from it.
    May 132
    • Ascension Health / Eng
      10xUrTC

      Ascension HealthEng

      PRE
      Facebook
      10xUrTCmore
      That is how you end up paying child support in your 30s. Much better to think logically about this stuff and don't get blinded by the p**y like you suggest.
      May 13
    • New vosk4
      You must have misinterpreted what I meant. I suggested growing from the experiences and learning from them. Part of that is realizing how you’re spending your time and possibly wasting it, which should lead to you being more selective with who you see and why you pursue them. Not sure how any of what I said would lead to poor decisions or unprotected sex etc. Blinded by p*ssy? Not sure how you could possibly have concluded that.
      May 13
  • Microsoft
    Tier 1

    Microsoft

    BIO
    #1 in Prestige
    Tier 1more
    Given the area you’re in, this sounds like a great success
    May 134
    • Flagged by the community.

    • Flagged by the community.

    • Flagged by the community.

    • No but they are better than a sheep.
      7d
  • Amazon cKiV54
    How do you even get dates in Bay area?
    May 132
    • Google bo o
      1) be good looking. 2) don't be ugly.
      May 13
    • 3) pay a trip to Thailand
      7d
  • Facebook IAmMarkZ
    I can take the too needy for sex girl
    May 130
  • Cisco nmFu33
    🤣 in two months you got laid with 4 different girls? And somehow judged and discarded them as quickly? and you had other first dates that didn't progress. Were you dating multiple girls at the same time?
    I think the problem is you.
    May 133
    • Amazon qwertyup
      That is 120 days
      May 13
    • Leanplum ballsacks
      Everyone parallelizes...
      May 13
    • Cisco nmFu33
      He must have been the too too sex needy guy, always eating out/alcoholic with multiple crazy, weird exes (maybe straight, gay, bi,etc who knows), creeping out few..
      That's what she said.

      He's projecting.. 😂
      May 13
  • Google / Engrelprime
    Everyone has problems. How do you think the women describe you? If the 'okay' ones won't go on a second date with you, then you're the problem. Maybe you should look for the value other people could add to your life.
    May 130
  • Google / Eng
    sqrt(-1)

    GoogleEng

    BIO
    Top Contributor or GTFO
    sqrt(-1)more
    Continue dating.
    Blog about it.
    Profit.
    May 130
  • Discover Financial Services qwerty-/:
    🍿
    May 130
  • Verizon G.Jetson
    Condom failure rate is about 15%, so math with decide for you eventually..
    7d1
  • Amazon / Engn0v
    Practice is fun, especially if getting laid.
    May 135
    • New VFcO68
      I would be worried of getting STD’s from the ones he described
      May 13
    • Amazon / Engn0v
      Use a condom, risk is tolerable.
      May 13
    • Plenty of STDs you can get even with a condom.
      7d
    • Amazon / Engn0v
      Yep, hence why I said tolerable. But with reasonable practices, condom and basic filtering, you are unlikely to get any disease which cannot be easily cured.
      7d
    • Sure, sorta. Any skin-to-skin contact can cause HPV which has no cure (except waiting a few years most of the time), and can even cause cancer.

      But yeah, I guess filtering. 🤷‍♂️
      7d
  • Amazon / Engn0v
    Condom failure rate is only 15% if you are an idiot.
    7d1
    • Verizon G.Jetson
      Even worse is that probably averages the idiots from the perfectionists.
      6d
  • Indeed jua7p0
    I've been online dating for two months and finally got a reply from someone yesterday. I feel sadder
    7d0
  • Intel / Engmr_pleb
    Dude, some people don't even get matches. You're blessed.
    7d0
  • New / Cust. Srv.
    SJja18

    NewCust. Srv.

    BIO
    Recent grad. Not sure of my career path but not afraid of a challenge. Economics major looking for something in the Tampa area
    SJja18more
    I say keep trying and don’t be so critical about the girls you meet
    May 130
  • Ascension Health / Eng
    10xUrTC

    Ascension HealthEng

    PRE
    Facebook
    10xUrTCmore
    Maybe you should think about changing careers.
    6d0
  • Google bo o
    you'll realize eventually noone is perfect and compromise is key.
    May 130
  • Nvidia uint
    Try offline dating?
    May 130
  • Google gliz
    Keep trying
    May 130
  • New AXL069
    Pictures or it didn’t happen
    May 130
  • New wlb?
    Humblebrag?
    May 130

Join verified employees in our anonymous social network!Download the app!

close