From my experience (woman here) and the experiences of friends who are also women, its a pretty neat place. Not toxic like tinder, and not crazy weird like ok cupid. Ladies typically screenshot and share the weird/douchey exchanges they receive and most seem to be from tinder/ grindr
Also "hey" is boring. I always try to ask something open ended or creative. Best response rate: ask how they'd respond to an interesting situation.
So far, zero unexpected dick pics. Life is good. 😎