My boyfriend of the past year came over to apartment to sleep over as he frequently does. We cuddled for a bit and then decided to go to sleep. After lying in bed for probably an hour my boyfriend wakes me up and tells me that his stomach is feeling upset, and that he wants to go back to his apt to go eat some prunes and drink water and then fall asleep on his own. This made me very upset, I told him that we are couple, and that he can not just leave in middle of night. I suggested that I come with him, however he said that he wanted to browse internet for a bit before going to sleep, and he also did not want to get woken up at time I usually wake up, which is 8am. Even after I told him I would have trouble falling asleep on my own, he still decided to leave me :( What does this mean? Does he not really love me, and why is he not willing to compromise? I am very upset, is our relationship over?
No. He just needs some space. You are fine. Don’t overthink
What? He just wants to poop alone? Why are you overthinking.
I wouldn't mind if he pooped when he is together with me. I was willing to stay up while he browsed computer at his place, I am fine to compromise. He just said no, and just left me .... :(
He just wants to be alone for some time, that’s totally normal and human. Give him space, don’t be clingy like that. There are no rules that tell you “couples should always sleep together” or any such thing. Couples should do whatever is working for them and is making their life better not worse.
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I’m a type of person that sometimes just want or need to be alone. I might have something on my mind (completely unrelated to the girl) and I want to figure it out. Sometimes I just want to physically be alone. When girls don’t accept that and get pushy about it - I push them away even further. There is no compromise in this. “I want to be alone.”, “Ok, I’ll come with you”, “🙃”! When girls simply accept it “Ok, see you!”. I end up feeling so good that she respected my space and eventually I start feeling comfortable doing my thing with her around.
Exactly. This is just a communication issue. You're both at fault. Neither is expressing their true feelings. Does he just want some alone time? Do you really care where he poops or just want reassurance he won't leave you in the future?
What kind of situation have western women gotten themselves into. Guy just comes to stay overnight when it pleases, “cuddles” and leaves whenever he wants with no obligations. Girls , dating is for few months, engagement for few more, and then comes marriage. If he is not that serious, he is not worth cuddling
Yes it means that he really doesn’t love you and you’re going to die alone with 40 cats. Now go to sleep and when you wake up in the morning you’ll realize how ridiculous this is.
I don't know I am very upset ... should I even invite him over again in next week? What if his stomach becomes upset again ... will he leave me again? :(
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