Relationships

Breaking the love triangle

Amazon love∆
Jan 29

I like a girl in my team. She likes another guy in my team. Not sure if that guy likes her or not but they are good friends since they are from same country and have same culture.
Both are good friends with me too.
I want to break this triangle and want to make her mine.
Can someone please tell me how can I do the needful? I will revert back once the task is done.

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  • Amazon nfjt24
    Become an l5 manager and pip out the other guy
    Jan 296
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      That's a good idea but it is time consuming..by then they will end up as couple
      Jan 29
    • Amazon nfjt24
      I need to confess. I know you and I too like her
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Are you the guy i am talking about?
      Jan 29
    • Amazon nfjt24
      No. I know both of you guys. I shouldn't have helped the other guy when he caused sev 1s
      Jan 29
    • Qualcomm / Engdynasty001
      🍿
      Jan 29
    • Microsoft Sup007
      This is a quadrilateral
      Jan 29
  • eBay
    seat

    eBay

    BIO
    Why did you click on me 😡
    seatmore
    Threesome
    Jan 297
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      I like it with 2 girls not 2 boys
      Jan 29
    • eBay
      seat

      eBay

      BIO
      Why did you click on me 😡
      seatmore
      No wonder why she doesn’t like you
      Jan 29
    • McAfee JohnMcPee
      @OP: it’s not gay if it’s a three-way.

      https://youtu.be/Pi7gwX7rjOw
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      @JohnMcPee: One arrow 2 sparrow
      Jan 29
    • McAfee JohnMcPee
      What’s the use of 2 sparrow?
      When your pp’s too narrow
      Don’t cause them any sorrow
      The other guy? Bestie tomorrow!
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Are you rhyming or doing rap?
      Cause nothing is solving the problem, chap!
      Just go through the question and do recap.
      And provide a solution asap !!
      Jan 29
    • Microsoft DangerRngr
      You sound gay
      Jan 31
  • Google RockLobsta
    You need to switch teams.
    Jan 291
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      And then do the needful?
      Jan 29
  • Bank of America Quackers
    Do you spend platonic time with her outside of work? Try that to gauge interest, make intentions clear from there
    Jan 293
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      There is no "outside of work" in amazon
      Jan 29
    • Bank of America Quackers
      Catch a movie? Attend a local non-work related event?
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Yeah, we sometimes watch knet training videos together
      Jan 29
  • Amazon / Eng
    Ask her out. Prepare for a destroyed friendship triangle.
    Jan 290
  • Microsoft ЯR
    The needful in the given scenario is to actually realize there is no triangle.
    Jan 291
    • Google JohnMcPop2
      Bingo.

      It's more like a couple and a stalker.
      😂😂😂😂😂😂
      Jan 29
  • Google JohnMcPop2
    I think you'll be PIPed soon. You're wasting too much time.
    Jan 297
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      There is no impact of this on my work..why everyone has to assume that anyone who is in love is a failure in other things
      Jan 29
    • Google JohnMcPop2
      Posting on blind at 10am, while working at Amazon is a strong indicator.

      Take it from a guy who used to do PIP panel reviews.
      😂
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Amazon does not have time constraints
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      I work late in night and come office late
      Jan 29
    • Google JohnMcPop2
      You can't do this the more senior you grow.

      50% of your work is collaboration with other engineers after say 1 yoe, otherwise you are not growing.

      A nerd/genius coding in a corner at night is a myth.

      If all I see after 1 yoe is implementation work and config changes, I'll support your managers decision for PIP.
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      When i am in office..most of the time goes in collaboration only..hence i need lone time for coding which i get at home when no one is around to bug me.
      Jan 29
    • Google JohnMcPop2
      So let me recap, Indian guy (from your sentence structure) in love triangle with a Polish girl and a Polish dude.
      Lol Knet and chill.
      😂
      Jan 29
  • New / Eng
    Nazarene

    NewEng

    PRE
    Apple
    BIO
    A fool is wiser than a prophet.
    Nazarenemore
    Do the needful and realize that you’re actually attracted to the guy, not the girl.
    Jan 290
  • Salesforce imGw36
    It’s not a triangle until guy likes you.
    Jan 290
  • Microsoft YsTJ07
    Can we have a love rectangle? I want in
    Jan 291
    • Google NBwU26
      If there is a rectal-angle to this , I want in too.
      Jan 29
  • T-Mobile WozniAK
    R u serious??
    Jan 291
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Yes i am serious for her
      Jan 29
  • Google NBwU26
    Be extremely nice to her. That always works.
    Jan 293
    • Microsoft BcrX06
      LOL
      Jan 29
    • Google JohnMcPop2
      LMAO.

      Clearly a noob.
      Chicks dig assholes (their perception of alpha)
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      That always works....for getting friendzoned
      Jan 29
  • Apple OFOM41
    u Indian?
    Jan 291
    • Google JohnMcPop2
      Yup.
      Sentence structure.
      Blah blah blah.... "only".
      Jan 29
  • Microsoft BcrX06
    Dating direct co-workers? Is that ok?
    Jan 291
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Nothing is wrong in love
      Jan 29
  • T-Mobile WozniAK
    Just Le(e)t it out!
    Jan 291
  • Google x@5hh
    Ask them what their TC is, if your TC is higher then you win by default and she is yours.
    Jan 290
  • Google NBwU26
    Step #1 Don't be ugly
    Step #2 be good looking
    Jan 290
  • Amazon / Eng:!
    Same country? That matters
    Jan 296
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      Its easy for them to communicate since they are from non english speaking country
      Jan 29
    • Microsoft SunRsrsHyd
      You mean from India?
      Jan 29
    • Amazon love∆
      OP
      They are from Poland
      Jan 29
    • Microsoft SunRsrsHyd
      Ohh may be hard then 😭😭😭
      Jan 29
    • Amazon Hoobastank
      Number of Polish pornstars is extremely disproportional to other countries. I'd say let genes do the work for you.
      Jan 29
    • Microsoft YsTJ07
      Wot
      Jan 29
  • Microsoft stylerZ
    Leetcode hard..
    Jan 291
  • Microsoft Sup007
    Dude let me give you some real candid advice. You be yourself, live your life, don’t try too hard, don’t try to win her over, focus on your well being and happiness. The girl decides. If you force anything or try to make other guy look bad, it will backfire on you and will end up badly for you. It can make you miserable. Just focus on your life not about how to push or remove others. Let things progress naturally if they do. Always act with good intentions.
    Jan 290
  • Groupon okgoog
    It would be a triangle if he likes you the same way you like her. If you know what I mean ;)
    Jan 290
  • Microsoft ochgfs
    Jan 290
  • Juniper ㄴㅇㄴ
    First figure out why she likes the other guy.
    Jan 290
  • Microsoft BarFoo
    Get him fired.
    Jan 290

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