Can I propose to my boyfriend?

Box hf76dj
Jan 30 64 Comments

I am a woman and I have been dated my bf for 2 years. I am fairly confident he would want to get married, but I kind of want to propose to him. However it looks like it is usually the guy who proposes. Has anyone experienced his girlfriend proposing to him or has proposed to his boyfriend? Thanks for your advice! TC: 420k

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  • Facebook / Eng 435
    Proposing is stupid, just talk to him if he wants to get married and have an adult conversation instead of these childish machinations.
    Jan 30 4
    • Microsoft / Eng
      MP3

      Microsoft Eng

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      Troll living under the I-5 overpass
      MP3more
      You deserve Blind: Most Common Sense Ever award.
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft gonfishin
      Agreed, just bring it up and talk about marriage and kids and life and houses and babies ❤️

      Maybe plant the hint with his friends?
      Jan 30
    • Bloomberg / Eng
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      Don’t forget to ask him what he’d do with a 420k TC
      Jan 30
    • New / Eng Rob1729
      but this is out of charts for blind
      Jan 31
  • Oracle / Legal
    not_larry

    Oracle Legal

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    not_larrymore
    What’s his TC?
    Jan 30 11
    • Salesforce Heimer
      @New this is why you should use your brain
      Jan 30
    • New MKXJ58
      🤦🏼‍♂️ lol
      Jan 30
    • Berkeley Lab look look
      Ask Elon for “his” TC
      Jan 30
    • Amazon q52fs
      New - MKXJ58, time to change names. This one has been 🔥
      Jan 31
    • Google Eating
      Omg fail x 2. MKX. Stop digging your own grave and just own up to being roasted :)
      Jan 31
  • Microsoft ShouldI🧐
    Tc 420?
    I’ll marry you
    Jan 30 5
    • Microsoft
      m🥛lk

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      m🥛lkmore
      I would settle for mistress/boytoy/whatever
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft gonfishin
      I’m an attractive white male. I’m also available for side action activities.
      Jan 30
    • LinkedIn tendies
      Playin the race card huh
      Jan 30
    • Berkeley Lab look look
      Elon Funding Confirmed
      Jan 30
    • New / Consultant tnor88
      🦝🦝🦝
      Feb 7
  • Wayfair dabadooee
    All these smarts and talent yet people still think marriage is a good idea. Strip out the romanticism, you’re just agreeing to bring the government into your relationship. A divorce lawyer rejoices after every proposal.
    Jan 30 2
    • Bank of America Ruy-Lopez
      Perfect 👍👏👏👏
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft / Eng
      MP3

      Microsoft Eng

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      Troll living under the I-5 overpass
      MP3more
      Well said!
      Jan 30
  • Google / Mgmt Lovedoo
    Just be like any other girl and pressure him to propose to you or you will let your friends/parents find someone else
    Jan 30 2
    • Amazon dROL65
      😂
      Jan 30
    • And that’s how folks , I met your mother .. lol
      Jan 30
  • Box hf76dj
    OP
    Thanks for your advice everyone! I think I am going to do it. I will let you know how it goes :)
    Jan 30 2
    • Cognizant APIPM
      Yay. All the best
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft naaam
      If he says no, we're always there. With that kind of TC, pick any one of us and we'll agree to marry 😐
      Jan 30
  • Microsoft Hyad70
    Troll
    Jan 30 0
  • Adobe j1ra
    You have been dated 2 years. Now please do the needful
    Jan 30 1
    • Cognizant APIPM
      And revert back today only
      Jan 30
  • Northrop Grumman / Eng HowCouldYu
    Is your name Breanne of Tarth?
    Jan 30 0
  • Dropbox drl/handle
    420k TC? Am I at the wrong storage company?
    Jan 31 1
  • Microsoft underoos
    Go ahead and get it out of the way. My gf proposed to me too. But we'd already spoken about the marriage so it was merely a formality for us
    Jan 30 0
  • Apple humbles
    I should add , please don’t embarrass your bf. guys are babies at heart 😀
    Jan 30 0
  • Google / Eng bach
    I don't understand what the big deal is around proposals. Do you think he has some proposal fantasy, that he's been dreaming about this day for years or something. Why would he care?
    Jan 30 1
  • Apple humbles
    Hello OP: yes off course you can propose to your bf. as a guy + based on my experience, I would only propose if there were more than 80-85% of chances that he would accept:)
    I think you seem to be confident so go for it and do post back !!
    Jan 30 1
    • Microsoft O(n+1)
      revert* back
      Jan 30
  • Amazon 1700zulu
    2 years is about the sweet spot to know if it’s going somewhere or not. You’ve dated long enough to know that you have chemistry, get along and have goals in common. You don’t need to kneel down and give him an engagement watch or anything, but you can be pretty forward about it with something like: “You know, X, you make me really happy and I would like to spend the rest of my life with you.” See how he reacts. Hopefully he’s as satisfied with you as you are with him. Good luck!
    Feb 1 0
  • Intuit / Design canary
    Why do you think he hasn’t he proposed yet?
    Jan 30 0
  • Berkeley Lab look look
    TC:420K I guess you are a fan of Elon
    Jan 30 0
  • RackWare Dreamlight
    Hey op, how'd it go?
    Feb 5 2
    • Box kb27hks
      I think I am set on doing it, but I want to wait until we are on a nice vacation, so probably sometimes in June! Will let you know :)
      Feb 5
    • Apple bla$&
      Hello ! 15 Feb is coming up !
      Feb 5
  • StubHub Sabrina👻
    Make him work for it girl !
    Jan 31 1
    • Dropbox / Eng 100k🔗🐼
      It sounds like OP wears the pants in this relationship.
      Jan 31
  • Facebook HolidayCat
    I would just have a “so what do you think about our future?” kind of conversation and go from there, rather than surprising them and putting them on the spot immediately. True for both genders.
    Jan 30 1
    • Oracle / Legal
      not_larry

      Oracle Legal

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      not_larrymore
      Where’s the fun in that?
      Jan 30