Relationships

Can I propose to my boyfriend?

Box hf76dj
Jan 30

I am a woman and I have been dated my bf for 2 years. I am fairly confident he would want to get married, but I kind of want to propose to him. However it looks like it is usually the guy who proposes. Has anyone experienced his girlfriend proposing to him or has proposed to his boyfriend? Thanks for your advice! TC: 420k

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  • Facebook / Eng435
    Proposing is stupid, just talk to him if he wants to get married and have an adult conversation instead of these childish machinations.
    Jan 304
    • Microsoft / Eng
      MP3

      MicrosoftEng

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      Troll living under the I-5 overpass
      MP3more
      You deserve Blind: Most Common Sense Ever award.
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft gonfishin
      Agreed, just bring it up and talk about marriage and kids and life and houses and babies ❤️

      Maybe plant the hint with his friends?
      Jan 30
    • Bloomberg / Eng
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      BloombergEng

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      *** DELETEmore
      Don’t forget to ask him what he’d do with a 420k TC
      Jan 30
    • New Rob1729
      but this is out of charts for blind
      Jan 30
  • Oracle / Legal
    not_larry

    OracleLegal

    BIO
    Not CTO
    not_larrymore
    What’s his TC?
    Jan 3011
    • Expedia / Eng3:8
      LOL fail.... @New
      Jan 30
    • Google Eating
      Fail
      Jan 30
    • Square diBaj7
      Y’all getting Ken M’d hard
      Jan 30
    • Amazon / Eng:!
      Fail, hard
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft HURi57
      His TC is the total compensation that he gets paid.
      Jan 30
    • Salesforce Heimer
      @New this is why you should use your brain
      Jan 30
    • New MKXJ58
      🤦🏼‍♂️ lol
      Jan 30
    • Berkeley Lab look look
      Ask Elon for “his” TC
      Jan 30
    • Amazon q52fs
      New - MKXJ58, time to change names. This one has been 🔥
      Jan 31
    • Google Eating
      Omg fail x 2. MKX. Stop digging your own grave and just own up to being roasted :)
      Jan 31
  • Microsoft ShouldI🧐
    Tc 420?
    I’ll marry you
    Jan 305
    • Microsoft
      m🥛lk

      Microsoft

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      d a n k m e m e s
      m🥛lkmore
      I would settle for mistress/boytoy/whatever
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft gonfishin
      I’m an attractive white male. I’m also available for side action activities.
      Jan 30
    • LinkedIn tendies
      Playin the race card huh
      Jan 30
    • Berkeley Lab look look
      Elon Funding Confirmed
      Jan 30
    • New / Consultanttnor88
      🦝🦝🦝
      Feb 7
  • Wayfair dabadooee
    All these smarts and talent yet people still think marriage is a good idea. Strip out the romanticism, you’re just agreeing to bring the government into your relationship. A divorce lawyer rejoices after every proposal.
    Jan 302
    • Bank of America Ruy-Lopez
      Perfect 👍👏👏👏
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft / Eng
      MP3

      MicrosoftEng

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      Troll living under the I-5 overpass
      MP3more
      Well said!
      Jan 30
  • Google / MgmtLovedoo
    Just be like any other girl and pressure him to propose to you or you will let your friends/parents find someone else
    Jan 302
    • Amazon dROL65
      😂
      Jan 30
    • And that’s how folks , I met your mother .. lol
      Jan 30
  • Box hf76dj
    OP
    Thanks for your advice everyone! I think I am going to do it. I will let you know how it goes :)
    Jan 302
    • Cognizant APIPM
      Yay. All the best
      Jan 30
    • Microsoft naaam
      If he says no, we're always there. With that kind of TC, pick any one of us and we'll agree to marry 😐
      Jan 30
  • Microsoft Hyad70
    Troll
    Jan 300
  • Adobe j1ra
    You have been dated 2 years. Now please do the needful
    Jan 301
    • Cognizant APIPM
      And revert back today only
      Jan 30
  • Northrop Grumman / EngHowCouldYu
    Is your name Breanne of Tarth?
    Jan 300
  • Microsoft underoos
    Go ahead and get it out of the way. My gf proposed to me too. But we'd already spoken about the marriage so it was merely a formality for us
    Jan 300
  • Dropbox drl/handle
    420k TC? Am I at the wrong storage company?
    Jan 311
  • Apple humbles
    I should add , please don’t embarrass your bf. guys are babies at heart 😀
    Jan 300
  • Google / Engbach
    I don't understand what the big deal is around proposals. Do you think he has some proposal fantasy, that he's been dreaming about this day for years or something. Why would he care?
    Jan 301
  • Apple humbles
    Hello OP: yes off course you can propose to your bf. as a guy + based on my experience, I would only propose if there were more than 80-85% of chances that he would accept:)
    I think you seem to be confident so go for it and do post back !!
    Jan 301
    • Microsoft O(n+1)
      revert* back
      Jan 30
  • Amazon 1700zulu
    2 years is about the sweet spot to know if it’s going somewhere or not. You’ve dated long enough to know that you have chemistry, get along and have goals in common. You don’t need to kneel down and give him an engagement watch or anything, but you can be pretty forward about it with something like: “You know, X, you make me really happy and I would like to spend the rest of my life with you.” See how he reacts. Hopefully he’s as satisfied with you as you are with him. Good luck!
    Feb 10
  • Intuit / Designcanary
    Why do you think he hasn’t he proposed yet?
    Jan 300
  • Berkeley Lab look look
    TC:420K I guess you are a fan of Elon
    Jan 300
  • RackWare Dreamlight
    Hey op, how'd it go?
    Feb 52
    • Box kb27hks
      I think I am set on doing it, but I want to wait until we are on a nice vacation, so probably sometimes in June! Will let you know :)
      Feb 5
    • Apple bla$&
      Hello ! 15 Feb is coming up !
      Feb 5
  • StubHub Sabrina👻
    Make him work for it girl !
    Jan 311
    • Dropbox / Eng100k🔗🐼
      It sounds like OP wears the pants in this relationship.
      Jan 31
  • Facebook HolidayCat
    I would just have a “so what do you think about our future?” kind of conversation and go from there, rather than surprising them and putting them on the spot immediately. True for both genders.
    Jan 301
    • Oracle / Legal
      not_larry

      OracleLegal

      BIO
      Not CTO
      not_larrymore
      Where’s the fun in that?
      Jan 30
  • Juniper busy bee
    Lucky guy
    Jan 301
  • Oath jamoora
    Proposing? Is it even exists?
    Jan 301
    • Akamai Technologies / EngTrn
      No raa 🤣
      Jan 30
  • Google
    jfmxxfs

    Google

    PRE
    Tesla Motors
    jfmxxfsmore
    Some people are just lucky, aren’t they? (Why ain’t I one of them?)
    Feb 50
  • Microsoft ffs.gtfo
    This is rad. Go for it
    Jan 310
  • Amazon b@ndit
    You can. Looks like that's what you want to do so why bed to ask random folks. Just go do your thing
    Jan 310
  • Microsoft yuiopu
    Do tell us the results please ..
    Jan 310
  • New / Project
    Panneus

    NewProject

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    U.S. Department of the Treasury
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    Looking to get into FAANG
    Panneusmore
    I think it’d be endearing, and you should go for it! Screw culture and social norms. Only question is would you propose with a ring? That’s the one thing I wouldn’t be sure about, maybe with just champagne??
    Jan 300
  • Western Digital rhrR87
    I think is your life, you can do whatever u like, isn't?
    Jan 300

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