She was the first girl I loved. We dated for two years and broke up over three years ago. Everyday since we broke up in the last 3 years, I have thought about her every single day. I have dated two other girls after we broke up. Each one I dated for about a year and although things were great, I just can’t get over my first ex. I think about her everyday. I feel like everything I do and work for in life is to build towards an opportunity to be with her again, and whenever I sit down and think about how silly that is, I become depressed. Without her, I have nothing else to strive for in life. Whenever people mention happiness, she’s the first person I think of. When people mention marriage, settling down, traveling the world, have kids, etc., she’s always the first person I think of. Every now and then I would stay up at night crying and missing her. I have tried reaching out to her here and there but it’s always either no response or 1 word responses. I broke up with her back in the day because I was stupid, and now it’s the biggest mistake and regret of my life that I can never live past. I don’t know what to do anymore... YOE. 3 TC 250K
Write her a lettter with your blood. That works, at least in bollywood
Or he can just follow her like a creep/psycho and try to hurt her, she will eventually understand that it is love and everything is fair in it
Dude marry a girl u and mom like... u will forget ur pain within a week
My man how’s the TC and yoe important to the conversation here It’s only important in one scenario , if you are telling this to ex-girlfriend of yours
nobody will take the post seriously without that information
Yeah , that is what’s fascinating about that Would the advice change based on TC Let’s say his TC was 500k , what aspect of advice would change and if it was 100k what change then
Move on, practice art of detachment, you are in a stupid stage
Watch Dr. Zhivago. It will cheer you up.
I think you are just remembering the good parts.Next time try remembering the bad ones. Also perhaps the reason why you think she is so special, is because she is ghosting you. The heart wants what it can’t get. Unrequited love is a toxic addiction. Don’t go down that rabbit hole
U need to get back and try to marry her. Express all ur feelings until she realizes your true love.
Heart wants what it wants. Before it became everything about flesh, people used to move mountains for love. Close your eyes and think deep and hard, at the age of 60 sitting on beach watching a sunset whom do you want beside you ? If the answer is she and if she is single then what ever it takes to win her back. Fight for your love if it's worth it. One boy and girl were high school sweet hearts broke off for something trivial. They went on their paths and had family. 7 years back they lost their life partners around similar timelines. At the age of 65 and 61 they started looking for each and got married. They could have a family of their own, children of their own. Their life were full of deep breaths and flashbacks. At least give love a second chance. In today's left swipe world genuine love and genuine people are too hard to find. If you think you found one do what ever it takes to get her. If she is married, move on. You had your chance and you blew it. Now time will heal you. Life won't be 100% but 92% is also not bad.
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Man it’s ok... Time is a healer. Got to move on and don’t think about her. You tried, she isn’t interested, that’s ok. Nothing else you can do.