Casual vs serious dating
How long would you date someone you don’t see a future with? Maybe he is too young or doesn’t want to have kids.
If you don't fuck on the first date it's not meant to be
I don't fuck around unless I think there is a potential future. I wouldn't entertain that kind of thing after 26...
Yeah same. If there's no intention to build a future, it's a bye after the first meet. I wish I was 20 again so I had more time (and patience) in my dating life.
2-4 months.
Until I know that person’s values and goals don’t match mine. Time is money. Tik tok.
When do you ask? After how many dates?
Zero second. You can sleep w him. Just don’t date him.
Hi I’m Ben.
Casual dating for me is okay while it is fun. There are moments where you don't give a particular f**k about future and those are good moments too, potentially.
Men can probably wait longer than women since men hit their dating peak later (30-35) vs women (22/27)
Too young or no desire to have kids doesn't imply it's casual dating. Get your definitions right. Maybe you want to say priorities don't align?
What are your definitions? I am curious.
It's not about my definitions. My point is two people may not want to have kids, that doesn't mean they are dating casually. It may be a very serious relationship. Same thing for age, for some people age may not be a blocker. They can be 10 years apart in age, yet be in a very serious relationship. However, the priorities and timelines need to align. For example - one needs kids, the other doesn't. And none of them is flexible about it, then it's a deal breaker. Similarly, if one needs kids at 25, other wants to wait until 30, and none of them is willing to adjust, then it's a deal breaker. But one person can be 25 and other can be 35, age in itself is not a problem. Maybe the one at 25 is comfortable marrying early in life, whatever. You gotta figure out what your deal breakers are.