Before him I didn't believe in love (unconditional, real and deep, like the movies) at all. Dated for 2 years and it was magical. I was young and stupid. He was deeply decent and made me believe in unconditional real love. A rich guy came between us and I chose the rich guy to become my husband. It's been 20 years. We have kids. He never dated anyone else. I can truly say there wasn't a week that I didn't think about him. My husband is a decent person and great father. But not as intellectual as that guy. I thought time would make me forget him, but it didn't. Just wanted to vent :(
Wow! 20 years!
Yea. That pain is inside me and I always hoped the time would fix it, but it didn't.
20 years is some latency. Anyway, can the decent guy LeetCode? If yes, then he should have caught up with the rich husband.
He's actually an swe too, but he lived his life the way he liked, not in a rat race like us.
Lol. Your husband is a decent person. You? I'm not so sure. You might be a gold digger with a guilt complex.
I mean was there any reason you went for the rich guy over the other guy, other than the money?
I am trash. I know that :(
Money talks
Nasty choice nasty life. Hey, you live once.
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The best is always the one you didn’t get. If you married him instead, then you can truly say there wasn’t a week that you didn’t think about “the rich guy”. Sorry, but get a life and stop putting yourself into love movies.
No. The reality is I never felt that deep love from (and towards) my husband. Even in the first months and years, that deep love was missing. The difference of the level of intellect between my husband and that person is huge. I never really enjoyed a conversation with my husband (as I said not even during the first months), but with that guy it was always deep and interesting.
Where are you from, OP?
Asian Notebook
Why do people think I'm Asian? Is this story common in Asia?
He meant Asian version of the movie called Notebook
find yourself a boyfriend to distract you
Difference in TC between the rich guy and the "deeply decent" dude?
This is the real question everyone wants to know OP don’t make another decision you’ll regret