Cold approaching women in Bay Area?

Jun 22 57 Comments

Moved to Cupertino recently and was wondering what people’s experience has been with cold approaching women during the day. Online dating is an absolute cesspool so daygaming is pretty much the only reliable way to meet quality women based on my experience living in NYC

Any good spots to checkout?

TC: 240k

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  • Twitter
    Oomnj

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    It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
    Oomnjmore
    Don’t be a creep
    Jun 22 9
    • Twitter
      Oomnj

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      It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
      Oomnjmore
      There are a few consent apps you can use to track consent. This is what dating apps are good, because you can only chat with each other after both have consented
      Jun 22
    • Twitter
      Oomnj

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      It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
      Oomnjmore
      And yes if a girl is checking you out and you haven’t consented then that’s wrong of her as well
      Jun 22
    • OP
      Spotted the incel
      Jun 22
    • Flowcast lulll
      Spotted the flaming idiot
      Jun 22
    • New / Eng
      BlindMau5.

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      BlindMau5.more
      If you want to increase the suicide rate, listen to oomnj
      Jun 22
  • Microsoft
    Chad TCock

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    Taco Bell, Campbell Soup, Jack in the Box
    Chad TCockmore
    Cold approaching a woman in Cupertino? Cupertino the family suburb? Sounds like you need to go back to doing more research for product market fit before you start execution lol.
    Jun 22 7
    • OP
      I have no aversion to banging milfs
      Jun 22
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      Chad TCock

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      Bro again, this is Cupertino. There are no milfs. You need to drive 8 hrs south to SoCal for milfs.
      Jun 22
    • Cisco meoww
      There are a ton of milfs around the Bay Area what are you smoking?
      Jun 22
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      Chad TCock

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      Looks like you need some prescription eye wear
      Jun 22
    • New dBBO43
      Yeah please don't date in Cupertino. Most of the people at de Anza don't even speak English let alone date some relatively old tech bro. I've been living here for around 20 years and I can tell you it's a family suburb. Go to SF to date.
      Jun 23
  • Facebook zeuss
    Cupertino Whole Foods is the meat market. I usually day game in the herbs and spices isle, but stay out of my territory.
    Jun 22 2
    • OP
      I saw a pretty cute college girl at that Whole Foods, didn’t approach though because I was coming back from a workout
      Jun 22
    • New dBBO43
      Given this is Cupertino, I'd definitely report some relatively old tech bro approaching me.
      Jun 23
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    • OP
      You’re telling me there are no cute girls at De anza college or San Jose? Hell Santa Cruz is 40min drive which isn’t too bad
      Jun 22
    • OP
      Go to locations with higher density of attractive women and build attraction from there.

      I have my own place with no roommates so logistics aren’t a problem
      Jun 22
    • Comcast G0ku
      Lol De Anza college? You’re into 19 year old girls OP? Santa Cruz is too fucking far. At this rate you’ll start hoping for girls in Hollywood
      Jun 22
    • New dBBO43
      I go to De Anza. If you're aiming for these birds, your bar is... Very low. And you know most are like 20 y/o?
      Jun 23
  • Microsoft kebabs
    The ladies, they love the Tech Bros
    Jun 22 4
    • New TC
      lol, would be so good
      Jun 22
    • ICU Medical / Mktg
      user3.0

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      Trying my own thing but doing something for someone else. 🤷🏼‍♂️
      user3.0more
      Cuz 💰💰
      Jun 22
    • New TC
      that’s why all the high tc folks in bay area go out with supermodels
      Jun 22
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      BlindMau5.

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      Good joke
      Jun 22
  • New / Cust. Srv. Yuqv51
    Cold approach is the wrong approach. Best thing you can do is start to go out frequently to things that interest you, be friendly, socialize frequently and you’ll meet someone.
    Jun 22 6
    • New / Cust. Srv. Yuqv51
      Short answer: it’s not a cold approach culture here.

      Find a new hobby. Or just go out frequently, focus on making friends and socializing. Dating is like the most advanced socializing, focus first on something simpler like having acquaintances.
      Jun 22
    • OP
      I have friends here, none of them have attractive female friends though so it’s no use trying to go through social circles
      Jun 22
    • New / Cust. Srv. Yuqv51
      I mean here’s yr problem: you don’t want to grind on a dating app, you don’t want to adopt new interests, you don’t want to make new friends. Like you just want some magic to happen.
      Jun 22
    • Apple / Eng tWBu16
      Let’s be real: plenty of guys have gotten dates, hookups, girlfriends by cold approaching strangers in this area
      Jun 22
    • New dBBO43
      Unless you wanna pick up teenagers at memorial Park I'm not sure where you want to cold meet someone here
      Jun 23
  • Apple / Eng 🐒codemonk
    I’ve seen people putting on ads on walls and utility poles... Be aware.
    Jun 22 5
    • OP
      What does this mean?
      Jun 22
    • Apple / Eng 🐒codemonk
      It meant guys have been desperate. Like this ad on a utility pole I saw: Male, 27, PhD in CS, TC XXXk, good personality, like drawing & sculpture etc.
      Jun 22
    • New TC
      or in trees?
      Jun 22
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      user3.0

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      Trying my own thing but doing something for someone else. 🤷🏼‍♂️
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      Wut lol
      Jun 22
    • New TC
      I’ve heard this story about a shenzen park where people post their matrimonial stuff
      Jun 22
  • Pear Therapeutics prez.trump
    Move back to NYC. I've lost all day game and night game skills I accumulated in LA when I moved here cuz it's a sausage fest everywhere
    Jun 22 0
  • Google putin!
    Lol please do report back how this goes for you
    Jun 22 1
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      BlindMau5.

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      BlindMau5.more
      And this is the last we heard of him
      Jun 22
  • E*Trade / Finance cbEV72
    Cupertino that’s really funny
    Jun 22 0
  • Soothe hahawtf
    Easy to do but be aware you gotta offer more than the competition. Up your TC and bench.
    Jun 22 0
  • Flowcast lulll
    Goto any upscale supermarket bookstore or mall. Dont listen to the incels, most guys around are complete nubs and their tc doesnt help them at all get laid with women. Its a pretty easy market especially for the 9-10s
    Jun 22 3
    • OP
      Good idea. Any bookstores you recommend checking out?
      Jun 22
    • Pear Therapeutics prez.trump
      Cupertino library is good
      Jun 22
    • New dBBO43
      The fuck? It's quite af and most of the tables are booked. There aren't any birds at Cupertino library.
      Jun 23
  • Amazon JXwd66
    Church
    Jun 24 0
  • You’ll probably be fine if you don’t have an arrogant “tech bro” personality. And have some perspective, empathy, genuineness, all that good stuff.

    Too many tech bros think that they can just throw around TC and women will line up for them. It’s stupid. You can see this mentality all over Blind though.
    Jun 23 0
  • Apple wNvl84
    Do some high spending trips and meet up there. E.g. premium cruise or $600/night hotel in Santa Cruz. You may see some decent professionals or good college girls in the public area and you can start a talk easily. People tend to be more relax in those scenarios. Unfortunately I figured this out after I had two kids. Unlike you I was rather poor when I was single.
    Jun 23 0
  • Apple / Eng tWBu16
    Wtf don’t you like about online dating? You’re probably doing it wrong. But yeah day gaming goes pretty well
    Jun 22 0
  • LinkedIn tar-cfz
    YOE...?!
    Jun 22 0