I met a girl in person (then a few weeks later matched on Tinder) who happens to work in a field I think is crazy fucking cool (HPC/computational genomics). The problem is I don’t know much about her other than this job that we first talked about and she basically has nothing in her bio or profile pics. How would you continue the convo? Should I ask about work again (which feels super dry)? I’m the worst at conversations on these things without feeling awkward as fuck, help pls!
Just ask to meet up irl
TC, ethnicity, height, and what’s your attractiveness on scale of 1-10? Answer will differ depending on this
$150k, indian born near DC (same for her oddly), 5’8 (she’s like 5’1), 4-6/10 on a very good day. She’s closer to being an 8/10, she’s very cute and an athlete. The problem is she goes to a top school that’s male dominated so my competition is..rough.
That’s tough but not impossible, look up McLovin and do what he did
Ask her about hobbies, where she grew up, what her dreams and goals are in life. Follow up from there. Wait for her to ask about yours. Nothing makes me feel better than someone taking an interest in my thoughts and feelings.
Sage advice right here. OP, are you listening?
I don’t even know how to broach the topics of “dreams and goals” on tinder chat lmao
You almost got me. But... “convo”....
What does she like to do when not working, what’s on her bucket list, does she like to travel? Does she have any trips planned? Where does she want to go? Why? Fav food? Then take her out! Go play bocce ball, Dave and busters, axe throwing, cooking class, go out to dinner (and you pay). If she doesn’t pay on 3rd date then move on
Just give her your number and set up a date to grab drinks or go on a picnic or something. Girls love picnics. But man the fuck up. You've already met her in person and obviously messed up by not getting her number the first time around. Get the fuck off tinder and meet up with her in real life. Why waste your time shooting the breeze with her on tinder?
Tell her you enjoyed her company on the train, and ask if she wants to meet up.
Do you like bread?
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Lmao #savage