Yes, I know it's terrible to pretend to be someone else but was dying of curiosity. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now and I really like him a lot (and he has told me he really likes me too). However, recently, I've been noticing he was unresponsive to my texts and had the most elaborate excuses for why he responded so late. So, I created a fake online dating profile and reached out to him. He has been extremely responsive to my fake profile and consistently initiates and check-ins on me. It's kind of a super ridiculous and insecure thing to do and I should stop stringing him along with my fake profile. Sigh.
He's not into you. Break up with him. Even if he was into you, break up with him. You're terrible. Maybe this is the reason he's not into you?
So he had sex with you already?
Ah. If he didn't, that's why. If he did, that's why.
If he didn't, he is not interested. If he did, he is not interested in relationships.
Oh women...
Sneaky
Have some fun with it. First set up a date as your fake person. Then make some plans of him as yourself that conflict.
Hands down..he will prioritize fake person over me.
Do you like the guy?
At least you got your answer. dealing with uncertainty this way will make you an insecure and unfun relationship partner down the road. Learn to ask a straight up question and move on you don’t like the answer (or don’t get an answer!) Learn to be confident in your judgement and ability to take care of yourself, walking away when things don’t feel right
Yes, thank you. I needed to hear that. I have asked him how he felt about me and he told me he really liked me and wanted to continue spending time with me. We've not yet established exclusivity..especially since he's been so distant recently. His words and actions weren't aligning so I took this very unethical route to uncover some of that uncertainty.
If you hadn’t established exclusivity, then you can’t expect it. Still, if you’re not feeling like you’re getting enough attention, and he is not walking the walk, there’s no reason to keep dating him. In a way that puts you in the driver seat to say, “I hear that you’re interested in me, but I don’t really feel it. I’m going to MoveOn. It was nice getting to know you. Best of luck. “
Lies and deceit ... Anyway, stop responding from the fake profile, stop responding from real profile. Starve him.
Ya. I'm going to stop responding. It's been two days of chatting. I now know he's just a guy who's just not into me (but will continue to see me because he clearly knows I'm into him) and doesn't deserve to be deceived.
Genius. 🗑 him
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The fact that both of you still have profiles online is concerning. Millennials are so screwed
There's no expectation to delete your online dating profile just because you're dating someone.
There is an expectation to at least change the status/stop using/disabling it though, wtf lol
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Time to move on....