I have a major crush on a guy in my office. How can I inform this person without it passing into workplace harrassment / etc stuff like that. Many people in my office date, and some even got engages so where is the line drawn. I want to ask him out for a drink - although we are on the same team, we donโt report to each other and heโs a level up. Rides TC 91,513 so donโt ask
Depends on how much you love your current job.
You forgot to include cents in your TC.
I feel like youโre less likely to get hit with harassment. You could invite a bunch of people out and talk to him.
Thank you sensible person
I don't think it's harassment unless you continue to pester someone about it. I'm pretty sure just asking someone out should be ok.
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Talk to him at lunch or office event or something. Drop a hint or just directly ask him out for coffe or lunch . Just Curious: Do guys file harrassment cases on women?
How do you know op is a woman?๐ง
Just keep slowly escalating platonic hangouts and gauge his interest. Thatโs what I do.
If you're a female, you have nothing to fear. Just go hit on him. If you're male, be careful. He may not be into males and consider it harassment.
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Reading this in Dave Chappelleโs voice really brings it to life.
Tell him youโd like to ___ his ___
Do what everyone else does- send someone over and have them ask the guy if he likes you.
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