Crush remorse at gym

Apple park 🍎
May 14 46 Comments

True story : no trolls please
And I apologize in advance for being skin deep. I am not sure if it is a man thing .. but I feel bad about it .

I meet a cute girl via common friends, I find she goes to the same gym as me. We often meet and at times workout together...
I have always seen her in track pants or yoga pants and she always looked stunning.

Until one day when she wore shorts , she has cellulite legs and I was totally put off by it. It seems like dreams of here are shattered. May be my view of her was skin deep but how do I change my mind ?
I hate myself for being skin deep but can’t get that off my mind.

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TOP 46 Comments
  • Intel babubhatt
    That’s ok. She can do better than you.
    Also buddy like 80% of women have it so this may not be the hill you want to die on
    May 14 6
    • Intel babubhatt
      No sarcasm - she really can do better than someone who posts about her cellulite online
      May 14
    • Salesforce tensorchic
      At least he's self aware. Most think they are deep people beyond superficialities and live in that illusion
      May 14
    • Clover Health sinkinship
      But he's not self-aware to understand there is no sarcasm in that response. This is reality, and being truly self-aware means he should worry more about being alone for life.
      May 14
    • Salesforce tensorchic
      He probably likes this girl. That's why he's feeling bad about not "liking" her. Else he won't care. Lol
      May 14
    • Clover Health sinkinship
      That seems way too complicated. Lol

      But 🤙
      May 14
  • New / Eng vosk4
    Jesus lol
    May 14 0
  • ConocoPhillips Beep Beep
    Blind is the eighth wonder of the world
    May 14 1
  • Flagged by the community.

    • SAP fleu
      ...woah...with that attitude, it's perhaps best that you don't date ANYBODY
      May 14
    • Amazon ChivalryAF
      Oh well of course I’ll never say this to them. I’ll be fake to their face and get laid. Life is awesome this way; thank you high school acting classes.
      May 14
    • Zillow Group cEdy26
      LMAO
      May 14
  • Salesforce JWcS75
    Are you exceptionally fit yourself? If yes, no harm in your attitude. If you have a bunch of extra weight, then yeah, your take here would be a little misplaced.

    I’m very fit, more strong than lean, and I had a girl cut it off with me because I didn’t have very defined abs. She was super fit, so, she had room to talk and pick and choose.

    Being shallow isn’t wrong or immoral. It’s not especially fulfilling, but you don’t have to apologize for it.
    May 14 2
    • Accenture / Data Gachon
      Damn dude. That chick was a shallow waste of time. Powerlifters unite 👊
      May 15
    • Salesforce JWcS75
      Thanks dude! Yeah man she was not the nicest. But, it’s her call y’know. She’s not wrong. But I’d rather squat four plates than have crisply defined abs.
      May 15
  • Accenture / Data Gachon
    Lol, you go to 24 hour fitness?
    May 14 0
  • Square K6iivb
    Lmao superficial af. If your TC is high enough, you could score a trophy Gf with no personality 😃
    May 14 5
    • New / Eng vusn92
      What’s the TC threshold for that?
      May 14
    • Square K6iivb
      Minimum 500k, maybe more. Lol.
      May 14
    • Microsoft BezosBalla
      I have a job offer for 532k with fb in la. How can I leverage this TC to a trophy gf? I’m 6”2 and white btw.
      May 14
    • Procore Sbgu62
      In LA you need either way more money or to be famous and connected.
      May 14
    • Square K6iivb
      @bezosballa your height is good. But if you’re ugly, you will def need some work done to secure a trophy gf with no personality/depth. Then you’ll be good to go!
      May 14
  • Oracle A10warthog
    A dimple here and there, or a lot of cottage cheese? How bad? And I assume she’s a little plump as well, which you already would’ve realized in yoga pants. Also, a really pretty face can cover a multitude of “sins” in my book.
    May 14 0
  • Microsoft arvy68
    r/instagramreality. Hate to break it to you but cellulite is normal, unless you want to date teenagers for the rest of your life.
    May 14 1
    • Amazon ChivalryAF
      Maybe for the women you have dated; yes, but not everyone. Rich and fit girls don’t usually have it or have procedures to get it removed.
      May 14
  • Amazon ridicule
    At least you didn’t see a penis
    May 14 0
  • American Express bugger!
    This is perfectly reasonable. Not that you already started dating her and really liked her personality and then saw cellulite and she went from 10 to 0. She was 10 in your eyes because of looks. Most of us do look for our partners based on physical attraction.
    May 14 0
  • New / Eng vusn92
    I guess her “Apple” isn’t a good fit.
    May 14 0
  • Apple FvFA77
    That's totally fine. Don't be ashamed of this. It's human nature
    May 14 0
  • Samsung zedN22
    I think you should just go home and jerk it. Who needs women
    May 14 0
  • Amazon Am A Bot
    Look at the whole package not just the legs. When I was dating there was a girl who was average looking, a little overweight but had the most stunning voice. No accent, but I could listen to her reading anything just to hear it. SO hot it made me ignore other negatives.

    That brings me to the answer: there are no perfect girls or guys. Pick the flaws you can’t live with and those you can’t live without. The rest matter much less. If cellulite is a problem for you, you’re in for a rough ride in your 40s and beyond.
    May 16 0
  • Apple industry
    Pics or never happened
    May 14 0
  • Amazon / Eng DeepObsess
    Are you trying to salvage something from your past impression of her? Just maintain your friendship and see how it goes.
    May 14 0
  • Apple etubrute
    Well that’s unfortunate. Just how bad is this cellulite on a scale of 1-10.

    As least you’re aware of your shallowness.
    May 14 0
  • Amazon / Eng 420blezos
    Kendrick made cellulite attractive in 2017
    May 16 1
    • Google brokeaftbh
      He tried* that's why all the fatties on IG be like CELLU-LIT 🔥
      May 17
  • VMware SweetPease
    I bet you won’t care once the lights are off
    May 14 1
    • Apple industry
      Eh it’s pretty easy to tell cellulite apart from non cellulite
      May 14