Date in South Bay

Oath bay_
Jan 10 78 Comments

A girl is visiting me from east coast. I live in San Jose. We will be together from 10 am - 3 pm. What do you think we should
1. Go for lunch? Any nice upscale restaurant?
2. Any other things do do while she is here.

PS- both are Indians. She is actually American born Indian and me on work visa. So I am not aware of what people generally like here.

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  • Google / Eng Bluths
    Take her for drinks close to where you live. That way, it’s easier to take her home if you hit it off.
    Jan 10 6
    • Facebook public2
      At 10am?
      Jan 10
    • Oath bay_
      OP
      I really wanna marry her. Have fucked tons of chicks here so not bothered about it.
      Jan 10
    • Groupon AHC69
      ^lol ok Jimmy
      Jan 10
    • Google / Eng Bluths
      Two hands don’t count as “tons”.
      Jan 10
    • Google MuyGoogley
      Has fucked tons of chicks in the bay area, but needs advice on date activities in the bay area...
      Jan 10
    • New / Eng 😆 smiley
      Terrible. Even if the girl sleeps with you, she’s going to realize you’re a boring person.

      If a girl travels to the Bay Area, she’s going to want to explore the Bay Area and not just go for drinks.
      Jan 10
  • BlackBerry
    GrumpYVet

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    Ask her what she would like to do
    Jan 10 9
    • Oath bay_
      OP
      She told me to plan and she will judge!
      Jan 10
    • BlackBerry
      GrumpYVet

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      What is this? A fucking contest?
      Jan 10
    • Robert Half whteva
      @blackberry what phone do you use?
      Jan 10
    • Google / Eng SexyVirgin
      Who knows. Maybe she does want a FUCKING contest ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
      Jan 10
    • New JthG36
      Don't do this, at least not for a first date. Be a man and come up with something fun to do. There's so much shit to do in the bay area; the fact you're having trouble coming up with something is a bad sign.
      Jan 10
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    • Pinterest Mlon Eusk
      She probably would like to do the needful
      Jan 10
    • New stuY17
      Not a single straight woman in history ever wanted a passive pus-sy. She already has one and doesn't need a second one. You should plan an exciting day. A day where she won't have time to think about anything else besides what she is doing with you.

      At 10 go to breakfast at a cool place and tell her that you have so much ridiculous shit planed that she may not make it out alive. Build up suspense. This is when you should be funny and outgoing AF.

      Go ice skating in SF. Hopefully you are better and show her how great of a support you are, literally. Can feel up the pudge situation at that time. That's like noonish by that time.

      Take her to SFMOMA after that or fisherman's wharf (yeah). Go to 7D and make funny noises with the sea lions. Walk around.

      It will be 3ish by then
      Jan 10
    • Google / Eng SexyVirgin
      ^ Nice. This guy must have a PhD in dating.
      Jan 10
  • OneMarket ri0ts
    Take her San Jose, get married in the clerk's office. Then head to Kinko's to apply for a green card.

    Finally, consumate in the back of your minivan rental.
    Jan 10 1
    • Oath bay_
      OP
      I wish it was that simple!
      Jan 10
  • Rubrik blindedog
    Indian buffet?
    Jan 10 1
    • Flagged by the community.

  • Facebook public2
    This is super weird but pretending it's normal 5 hours requires an activity; do something to break the ice and create a shared experience. You can get lunch after.
    Jan 10 8
    • Oath bay_
      OP
      Finding an activity on Sunday is tough!
      Jan 10
    • Cisco Infensus
      No it's not.

      - go rock climbing gym for intro lesson
      - museum
      - plan a walk in nice park
      - punch her in the face
      Jan 10
    • Amazon btsfan
      Def recommend the last one. It will create long lasting memory
      Jan 10
    • Facebook public2
      Better yet create two itineraries and let her pick one. There are parks, galleries, karting, bowling, picnic'ing, row/paddle boats, sailing, house of air, escape rooms, napa, golfing, hiking, biking, zoos, cooking classes and about 800 other things you could do. This is a world class city.
      Jan 10
    • Amazon btsfan
      World class city for the homeless
      Jan 10
    • Facebook public2
      World class for everyone and exception for the rich.
      Jan 10
    • New stuY17
      DO NOT let her pick anything, you're not a lolly pop stand or a tampon counter. You are a man, you're a leader. Make a decision and take her along for a ride.
      Jan 10
    • Facebook public2
      This guy does not so well with women lol
      Jan 10
  • Amazon btsfan
    Def fuck
    Jan 10 2
    • Oath bay_
      OP
      I don’t mind to wait for fucking after marriage!
      Jan 10
    • Amazon btsfan
      Sure but shes def fucking around before her marriage so your lost
      Jan 10
  • New JthG36
    Computer History Museum. Duh.
    Jan 10 1
  • Indeed / Eng trumpD
    A good dining restaurant not too upscale (that might be setting the wrong expectations). Main thing ask her what/where likes. Mostly she is going to say she's fine with anything but at least ask
    Jan 10 3
    • Oath bay_
      OP
      She told she loves staying at luxury hotels. What do you think about Ritz Carlton?
      Jan 10
    • Intel OaAI62
      Don't bother. LOL
      Luxury hotels says it all.. a miserable life!
      That's my first and last advice for you!
      Jan 10
    • Broadcom Ltd. / Eng broacher
      Yikes - that TC better look good if u want to knot this girl
      Jan 11
  • Box / Eng Tumi
    Be four hours late to meet her.
    Jan 10 1
    • Oracle xPNo42
      I bet this is the girl. She id'd you
      Jan 10
  • Facebook / Eng obov5566
    Solve Leetcode together
    Jan 10 0
  • Google DontAskMe!
    Go distribute blankets to homeless in San Jose/SF! She'll be all yours! :x
    Jan 10 0
  • Western Digital / Eng Tkcy34
    Take her on a road trip. Gives you plenty of time for conversation & talk about real stuff. Plus be a gentleman touring her the CA area; If you wanna marry her.
    Jan 10 1
    • BlackBerry
      GrumpYVet

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      Don’t forget the drinks once she gets comfortable
      Jan 10
  • Apple sjshevfgss
    Dude.. u can get a green card much cheaply using eb5..don’t get into this
    Jan 10 0
  • Microsoft helperfunc
    Rent a convertible, drive to Alice's restaurant, Woodside CA.
    Jan 10 1
    • New / Eng 😆 smiley
      😑 don’t take your date to this restaurant. It’s for bike dudes only. No girl I know actually likes it here.
      Jan 11
  • Robert Half whteva
    get a room
    Jan 10 1
    • Robert Half whteva
      or make food. have a drink. netflix and chill. remember she may be tired from travel. do this and next visit she ll get a room for you.
      Jan 10
  • Google ecarver
    Take her to Santana Row for a brunch. Park in the Valley Fair Mall. Getting in an out of that Mall should take about 4 hours. Great time to have a chat with her in the car. If you are really want to see if you are made for reach other, nothing like being stuck in a car for a few hours with no way to escape.
    Jan 11 0
  • New / Eng 😆 smiley
    You should take her wine tasting in the Los Gatos mountain. Go to San Francisco and explore the city.

    Don’t sit idling at a bar.
    Jan 10 0
  • Uber / Eng
    meowimacat

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    Go to a cat Cafe and hang out with cool cats! 🐈
    Jan 10 0
  • Docker / R&D
    SQL_Inject

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    Santana Row, Downtown Los Gatos, Downtown Campbell, etc
    Jan 10 0
  • Vertivco / Eng
    FastPapuan

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    FastPapuanmore
    You people of stock from Eurasia. I do not know how you can be accepted for employment, earn huge salaries, and not know what to do. Stop bragging that you have a girl because of your genetics. Fork you and your disenfranchisement.
    Jan 10 5
    • Intel chisposo
      Are you drunk?
      Jan 10
    • RackWare Dreamlight
      Incel spotted.
      Jan 10
    • Intel chisposo
      I think you hit the nail on the head. Definitely sounds like an Incel.
      Jan 10
    • Google / Eng SexyVirgin
      Jan 10
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  • Apple / Eng claimer
    Dude , act smart , outgoing and upbeat
    Got with her to a bowling alley or Aloha skating rink if she skates (it is ok if you try and fall, you will earn points for trying), few drinks and a dinner (make sure you make a reservation first) and the night is to go pub-hopping if you both are in the mood ( just don’t wear bright colors in SJ , Indians get mistaken for Latinos and colors belong to gangs)
    Jan 10 3
    • New / Eng 😆 smiley
      That’s ridiculous wrt comment about colors and gangs
      Jan 10
    • Amazon / Eng 工口
      Indians never get mistaken for Latinos you dumbass.
      Jan 11
    • Intel chisposo
      What a weird comment about Indians and Latinos 😂😂😂
      Jan 12
  • Broadcom Ltd. / Eng broacher
    If u want to stay in san jose - escape room, Egyptian museum in downtown san jose , east hills hike( drive up sierra rd in berryessa to get a expansive view of the valley), electric go-karting at K1 sports, rent a tesla on turo and drive up skyline blvd, catch a soccer game at Avaya stadium, wine tasting in testarossa winery los gatos, rent bicycles and pick a scenic trail.
    Jan 11 1
    • Vertivco / Eng
      FastPapuan

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      Isn't that where that girl got tortured recently?
      Jan 11
  • Indeed / Other
    TC1Billi

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    TC1Billimore
    Dude New York to San Jose your fucked. Man Jose is boring asf.
    Jan 10 1
    • Amazon / Eng 工口
      You are boring as fuck, who said he need to stay in San Jose?
      Jan 11
  • Rosetta Stone DRUQ06
    Activities with physical arousal or fear/adrenaline transfer to romantic feelings. Rock climbing, ice skating, scary or action movie, hiking, roller coaster, etc. to get both of your blood up. Followed by relaxing lunch to discuss and bond over experience.
    Jan 10 1
    • Walmart.com fiVn5$!Br
      You must be fluent in the language of Love!
      Jan 10
  • Salesforce lozere
    Lunch definitely at some place quiet enough to have a conversation.
    Depending on what she likes you can plan the rest of the hours.
    Maybe a walk in nature where you both get to talk and get to know one another?
    Good luck, I hope this goes well for you 🙂
    Jan 10 0
  • Google / Eng yogi bear
    escape the room, you are welcome
    Jan 10 0
  • Intuit Dzlj86
    Make her sing YaHoooooo~o
    Jan 10 0
  • Intel Pointless4
    Maybe a nice walk/hike at lands end or Mission Peak?
    Jan 10 0
  • VMware genius1
    go to sf. drive takes 40 to 1 hr ish each way. spend some time in golden gate park. and then rest of it in a brewery
    Jan 10 0
  • Salesforce lozere
    Monterey and Santa Cruz are also good options
    Jan 11 0
  • Uber aNft74
    Santana Row
    Jan 10 0
  • Groupon AHC69
    Get some ice cream
    Jan 10 0

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