Dating & Making friends as straight East Asian female in Seattle

Amazon lLrS77
Jun 7 33 Comments

How do straight Asian females make friends & date in Seattle?

What would bros do to get a girl in Seattle? What do bros look for in a girl? I keep hearing men complaining about Seattle dating on Blind.

Looking for serious responses from both sides of a relationship. Thanks!

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  • Cisco Infensus
    They date by having a pulse.
    Jun 7 0
  • Salesforce dnifbeus7
    An Asian girl in Seattle should be easy mode for the dating game. You outnumber men by 2:1

    https://jeffreifman.com/2018/08/10/an-update-on-the-distribution-of-men-and-women-dating-in-seattle/
    Jun 7 2
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      Porsche996

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      Does the stat exclude married folks?
      Jun 7
    • Accenture 14741
      How much does the girl's TC matter?
      Jun 7
  • Microsoft XSavage
    If you're an East Asian girl, I just assumed it is super easy for you to get a date.
    Jun 7 2
    • Accenture 14741
      @XSavage Assuming it's East Asian girl, does the girl's TC matter a lot there?
      Jun 7
    • Microsoft XSavage
      There's alot of things that comes into play. *cough overrall attractiveness. But generally it depends on what the guy wants to be honest. If he still has alot of time to look for a wife , maybe in his 20s, then yeah it Probably would. Otherwise if he is just looking for a one night or one date thing then no I guess it wouldn't.
      Jun 8
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    djtmrp20

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    Bros with asian fetish love to secretly film and upload to pornhub. Careful, girl!
    Jun 7 1
    • Lol just searched your id and watched some
      Jun 7
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    Porsche996

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    But aren't they short? I don't know but anything beyond 2-3" feels awkward! Being 6'3 pretty much I have limited pool to choose from and most EE/Cau. are 6ish.
    Jun 7 1
    • Twitter Oomnj
      Exactly - don’t want to date a girl under 6’ barefoot. At the very least 5’10
      Jun 7
  • Microsoft XSavage
    Try dating for Asian men. Or better yet Indian. You just unlocked survival mode.
    Jun 7 1
  • Amazon / Product rururubfh
    What kind of Asian are you ?
    Jun 7 3
    • Amazon lLrS77
      OP
      @rururubfh East Asian! And in response to some other comments: average height for a small Asian haha
      Jun 7
    • Intuit ls cd
      like close-to-Alaska East Asian?
      Jun 7
    • Amazon lLrS77
      OP
      @Is cd I think so: fair yellow skin-toned East Asian
      Jun 7
  • Twitter Oomnj
    Not in Seattle - but in nyc. Asian girls
    Are generally too short ... :(
    Jun 7 0
  • Amazon echo $?
    OP, my suggestion would be to go somewhere you’re likely to meet someone you’d be interested in. I’ve met many interesting people at my daughter’s Chinese school (parents and single people taking classes to learn the language of someone they are dating). Or cooking classes. Or tech talks and stuff.

    If you’re looking to meet other tech women, join AWE (Amazon Women in Engineering) or go to a PyLadies meeting.

    As for dating, it depends on your type. East Asian women are in high demand in the male-heavy tech industry. Or date someone non tech. That’s what I (married guy) did. A non technical partner may not be able to fully understand what you do, but if your soul mate isn’t technical... it’s so worth it.
    Jun 8 3
    • How can a guy join women eng
      Jun 8
    • New tapR56
      its 2019, say you identify as a woman
      Jun 9
    • Go in a women toilet then
      Jun 9
  • Amazon Bill.
    RIP ⚰️ DM inbox
    Jun 7 0
  • Amazon / Eng sha1024
    Rumor has it Asians are received by their would be partner at the airport if they aren't already traveling together. And parents set them up usually.
    Jun 7 0
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    DRmz21

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    You shouldn't be interested in dating a BRO... Don't look for love. Live your life and stop trying to fill in the check boxes.
    Jun 7 5
    • Amazon lLrS77
      OP
      Thank you. What to do if just got dumped?
      Jun 7
    • Microsoft XSavage
      :(. Can totally related. I joined Microsoft because my girlfriend grew up in Washington. But when I got into Microsoft she dumped me.

      Just go live the happiest single life you can with nothing and no one to hold you back or tell you what to do. Eventually you'll find who you are and what you enjoy. In time, you'll find someone else who also shares the same happiness.
      Jun 7
    • Amazon lLrS77
      OP
      @XSavage Thanks a lot. Hope the perfect one for you will come to you at the most surprising but perfect time haha.

      How do most straight males in tech feel if a girl they don't know starts the convo by asking programming questions?
      Jun 7
    • Nutanix / Eng lovedonuts
      Very weird. I definitely don’t recommend it. I try not to talk about work with girls. Talk about hobbies, interests, news, etc. Leetcode talk is strictly prohibited lol
      Jun 8
    • Microsoft XSavage
      It really depends on the context of the situation. Like if you see your coworker working on a leet code problem you can ramdomly ask a programming question. Go like, hey is that the 'rain filling bucket problem'? I did it this way. How are you doing it? Blank blank.

      It really depends on how smooth you are honestly.

      But really. Most people in this area probably didn't grow up in this area. Thus, they re probably interested in a new friend anyway and be receptive to talk to you.

      But mosts guys like to keep their hopes up and believe that the girl is somewhat interested.
      Jun 8
  • New tapR56
    pm'ed you my 🍆
    Jun 8 1
  • Panasonic Avionics Tac0s
    ew. really? 🙄
    Jun 8 0

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