Dating Asian boys

Cerner Gali
Aug 10, 2018 51 Comments

Do American girls date Asian boys? What's their opinion about them ?

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  • Cisco loJH48
    Ewww no
    Aug 10, 2018 3
    • Cerner Gali
      OP
      Why ?
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Snapchat CTpk54
      Don’t bother with the troll comment from Cisco, if you go to large American metropolitan areas you see a lot of white women with asian men, especially recently due to K-pop and Asian dramas
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Cisco Go!
      Do you know what type of Asian? Korean? :):)
      Aug 10, 2018
  • Daimler deargodwhy
    Asian men and women are seen as inferior and submissive due to media and poltics. That's why a lot of my fellow Apple pie eaters go for the fortune cookie
    Aug 10, 2018 6
    • Not women. All hot Asian women only fuck with white dudes.
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Snapchat CTpk54
      Paki$tani what are you smoking lol, that’s not remotely true
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Amazon
      Savauge

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      Savaugemore
      Nah, if you’re an ugly white dude, you’re just as ignored... :(
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Daimler deargodwhy
      If you are an ugly Asian dude you're ignored too. I guess it depends more on the person, but also on the race
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Amazon
      Savauge

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      Savaugemore
      Lol you mean it sucks to be ugly... thanks... *goes back to video games*
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Daimler deargodwhy
      😂 💀
      Aug 10, 2018
  • Amazon / Eng goatse.cx
    I see a lot of white men with Asian boys in SF
    Aug 10, 2018 1
  • NAVEX Global HollaBackG
    I think Asian guys are handsome.
    Aug 10, 2018 0
  • Microsoft ghyfd
    It's weird how some non-whites have such desperate self hatred that they have to date whites to feel like they've "made" it. So many posts asking how to date white girls. Why? Not getting it. TC ~200
    Aug 10, 2018 7
    • Airbnb Hoodson
      Beauty standards in most non-white countries hold tall white women as the most attractive
      Aug 11, 2018
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      Dr. Savage

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      Dr. Savagemore
      Some white people sure like to think that... it’s more like ads in the rest of the world are less racist than the ones you’re used to.
      Aug 11, 2018
    • Airbnb Hoodson
      Wait, are you saying that Asian cultures (any of them really) are less racist than American culture? Really?
      Aug 11, 2018
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      Dr. Savage

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      Dr. Savagemore
      Yes I am. America has a race issue (as evident by this thread). Most other countries don’t have enough exposure to other races for racism and stereotyping to be a problem. Not to say stereotypes don’t exist, but you try traveling to other countries and you’re treated differently more so for being exotic as an outsider than for what race you actually represent (like a tiger at the zoo). People often conflate nationalism with racism though.

      Also it sounds like you’re implying that Asian cultures are more racist than American culture yet they idealize how white folks look? I don’t see how that makes sense. A more likely explanation is that you personally just believe white folks are most physically attractive and also morally superior to Asians, which is just your opinion, and only that.
      Aug 11, 2018
    • Airbnb Hoodson
      What you’re saying just doesn’t match up to the reality in any way in Asia. What I am saying is not some sort of abstract theory, I am saying this based on my experiences of talking openly about race and racism with locals when I lived and traveled in various places across Asia. Unlike the US where there is a very strong taboo against racism, people in Asia will often quite openly tell you their views.

      As far as the attractiveness aspect, this is again based on many conversations with locals. For women the beauty standard is heavily related to both height and lightness of skin, and there is some influence from Hollywood as well.
      Aug 11, 2018
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      Dr. Savage

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      Dr. Savagemore
      I think there’s a difference here in how we’re defining racism. It sounds to me you’re referring to stereotypes. Racism is people marching with tiki torches chanting “kill all blacks” and jailing people of Latino descent (there are illegal Canadian immigrants you know). In Asia, that simply doesn’t happen because you couldn’t find enough people to care. Hell, expats seem to do pretty damn well overseas. Take conversations about race with a grain of salt in Asia because it’s like talking to a 7 year old about what puberty is like. It’s literally not a thing there yet so a lot of it is just your projection.

      The Chinese do value lighter skin but it’s a pale white skin that isn’t similar to European colors. They also value height but so do any culture not unique to Asia. When Goku transforms into a super saiyan, his gold hair is based off of Asian values on what gold represents, and not that he becomes white...
      Aug 11, 2018
    • Kronos / Other 76
      Racism is NOT just people marching around with Tiki Torches.
      Aug 13, 2018
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      Dr. Savage

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      Dr. Savagemore
      Original much?
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Amazon / Eng Benny Lava
      That's why white guys lose their girls to black dicks?
      Aug 11, 2018
    • New Hotler
      Once you go black you never go back
      Aug 11, 2018
    • Tumblr WDSO071
      You joke but perceived dick size is a huge part of racism in the US.
      Aug 11, 2018
    • New Hotler
      Evolution is racist amirite
      Aug 11, 2018
  • Daimler deargodwhy
    I am sure as hell American boys date Asian girls. The other way around is less common
    Aug 10, 2018 1
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      Dr. Savage

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      Dr. Savagemore
      Asian guys don’t really want to “date out” either
      Aug 10, 2018
  • Google / Eng rPMq81
    The literal answer would be yes. I am sure there exist some couples where the girl is American and the guy is asian.

    It’s not very common though, especially if you’re fresh off the boat, are skinny, don’t have any sort of fashion sense and have a heavy accent.
    Aug 10, 2018 2
    • Microsoft Bronbron
      I mean I smashed like 20 white chicks fresh out of boat back in high school. Given I am taller than average white male and I am handsome...

      I had a pretty heavy accent at the time and some chick just find that fascinating!
      Aug 10, 2018
    • Google / Eng rPMq81
      If you’re attractive, you’re attractive. Race doesn’t matter.
      Aug 10, 2018
  • Apple Ivy league
    6' and above guys of all races attract chicks
    Aug 10, 2018 2
    • Amazon YFdu24
      This is so true.
      Aug 10, 2018
    • New / Eng wQqb83
      To all the girls. Tall doesn’t mean their 🍆 is directly proportional to height
      Aug 11, 2018
  • Snapchat CTpk54
    I see a lot of white girls with asian guys in LA, it also happens in the Bay Area but less common
    Aug 10, 2018 1
    • Cisco Go!
      Do you know what type of Asian? Korean? :)
      Aug 10, 2018
  • Microsoft ghyfd
    Off topic but "American girl" doesn't mean "white girl". So lame that people assume this still. Also what's up with all this white girl thirst? They age the worst compared to Asians, African Americans, Indians, blah blah etc. Don't get it. Back to original question. Yeah white girls will date you if you're not a normal Asian. If you're hotter than the typical Asian and/or rich and/or half Asian.
    Aug 10, 2018 0
  • Daimler Thisguyfks
    Only if your TC > 🌳 fiddy
    Aug 10, 2018 0
  • Amazon / Eng Benny Lava
    I've dated a couple white girls, these relationship are around but not as common as white guys being brain washed to seeing every single Asian girl as godness.

    I am pretty confident that I can get more dates with white girls than a short obese bald white guy, every single time.
    Aug 11, 2018 0
  • Cisco rkHq23
    Generally no. Latina girls yes, some of them even look white. Latinas are crazy tho
    Aug 10, 2018 1
    • Crazy like what ?
      Aug 11, 2018
  • Microsoft zxql16
    There is a stereotype that they are effeminate.
    Aug 10, 2018 2
    • New / Eng flicd
      That's BS
      Aug 11, 2018
    • Kronos / Other 76
      The stereotype is BS, but it most certainly exists.
      Aug 13, 2018
  • Airbnb Hoodson
    Yes, it happens, but *typically* only Asian-Americans, not Asians that grew up in Asia. Of course there are exceptions.
    Aug 11, 2018 0
  • Zuora LookUp
    Define "American" please. If you are equating "American" as Caucasian then here is some education: American citizens are American. White people in America are not always American (hello European and Australian/NZ friends!).

    To answer your question about do White girls date Asian guys - yes, but not as frequently as Asian girls date White men.

    Written by an American (who also happens to be an Asian dude who has dated white girls).
    Aug 10, 2018 0
  • Cerner / Eng
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    I can think of a few in the area. Don't know why not.
    Aug 11, 2018 0
  • LinkedIn Sexyasian
    Yes
    Aug 10, 2018 0
  • Google HRBP
    🍿
    Aug 10, 2018 0

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