Dating Indian girls

Microsoft Jajajaja
Nov 3, 2017 80 Comments

I'll be honest - I've a thing for Indian girls. New to the city. My team at Microsoft and most people around me are married. :/

Any advice on what I can do proactively to meet more Indian girls?

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  • Microsoft jimmym
    Pls do the needful
    Nov 3, 2017 6
    • New bvDh41
      You finding one also depends on which year did you pass out.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Microsoft Jajajaja
      OP
      Passed out in 2017. Great suggestions. Thanks for the same
      Nov 4, 2017
    • New / Other 🌠®️
      BTW, many indian girls here, especially those who drink at universities never or barely drank in India. It is common to find polarizing people:
      Teetotaler girls - you obviously can't find them in bars.
      Binge drinkers - drinking 10 - 12 rounds and then puking, because they want to enjoy the new found freedom.

      Btw this isn't very different from undergrads in their 21 when they can legally drink, but you won't expect that when you are 25. Expect it 😀
      Nov 4, 2017
    • PwC iuFN46
      You mean KINDLY do the needful.
      Nov 5, 2017
    • Amazon / Other Amazon.com
      Kindly do the needful for the same.
      Nov 5, 2017
  • Microsoft RogerFed
    Even Indian guys can't find Indian girls these days. What makes you think you'll get lucky? It's a highly exclusive club yo!
    Nov 4, 2017 4
    • HealthNow / Eng binarycafe
      Indian guys can't get the ladies because of the way their culture has taught them to view and treat women.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • New / Other 🌠®️
      Ouch! That escalated quickly.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Salesforce I ❤️bjs
      Where’s the lie
      Nov 5, 2017
    • eBay Hondodge
      U have great chance if ur a US citizen.
      Nov 5, 2017
  • Cisco oVhv84
    I think you'd find girls in elementary and middle schools. As for women, it should be possible to find them where other grown ups hang out.
    Nov 4, 2017 3
    • Spring Mobile uCFM65
      This comment took a sharp and relieving turn.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • HealthNow / Eng binarycafe
      it strikes me as extremely odd that people like to call 25, 30, 40 and 50 year olds "girls"

      they stopped being girls long ago. they've got tits and periods now. They're women.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Amazon / Eng
      Hooliganss

      Amazon Eng

      BIO
      Engineer at AWS
      Hooliganssmore
      It’s no different to when women call men boys.
      Nov 4, 2017
  • OmniTier Storage
    whoCares!!

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    whoCares!!more
    I am not sure why but I have a feeling that you are an Indian guy and asking question just for the sake of it.
    Nov 4, 2017 3
    • eBay djxndkc
      Yeah his English seems Indian :) disclaimer- I'm an Indian
      Nov 4, 2017
    • ^I agree. North American would have used “transplant to the city” rather than ”new to city”
      Nov 6, 2017
    • GE UstI03
      Disagree... I'm NA and say "new to XYZ"
      Apr 20, 2018
  • Vonage 1988stuff
    I'm an Indian girl, raised in the US. But I get freaked out about the Indian girl fetishes :). Maybe just chill and say hi to girls more - it's not that hard to meet people!
    Nov 4, 2017 2
  • Microsoft Weeed
    Why would you subject yourself to that? They come with a lot of baggage my dude
    Nov 4, 2017 2
    • New / Other 🌠®️
      All women come with baggage, if you want to be pedantic. He isn't asking to get married. He is just looking to have fun 😀
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Amazon Zuck4Prez
      Such as
      Nov 4, 2017
  • HPE WCmF21
    If you are white, at least 5ft 10 and have a slight British accent you should be able to sweep a bevy of them. If you more the rural/small city type I'd recommend looking elsewhere or you not exactly going to find a good looking one.
    Nov 4, 2017 2
    • Amazon UJVs78
      Indian girls don't care for accent. British accent is more an American fantasy.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Akamai Technologies / Product Geekychick
      Haha if you are British and at least 5’ 10” ... you’d have luck with me too ;)
      Nov 5, 2017
  • New / Other 🌠®️
    There are events like Holi and Diwali. Goto local college (uw if Seattle) events and join the dance. You will have lots to choose from, they will be young and fun to move with. Consider taking an Indian guy with you to get a groove for these things - to know what is okay and what is not. After a few times, you will have enough confidence that you aren't doing anything socially awkward. Holi is typically the best. Easy to break the ice (especially for introvert engineers).

    If you can't find a college nearby lookup in sulekha.com for events.

    Good luck ! Some cute Indian girl is waiting for you . Lol
    Nov 3, 2017 0
  • Vonage 1988stuff
    TL;DR- yes
    I was engaged to a white guy before, but yes, we did separate because of culture issues. You don't realize it until you start planning a family or marriage and how to raise your kids that those issues arise. I am not against dating a "white guy", but I would prefer someone from India or a middle eastern culture. I guess it really all depends on how cultured and educated the guy is about the world, so it's a case by case thing.
    Nov 4, 2017 8
    • Amazon UJVs78
      ^^ ☺️☺️
      Nov 5, 2017
    • LinkedIn Microsoft
      I'd love to meet up but I know I'm not ready for it yet, unlike the eager boys above me lol.
      Nov 5, 2017
    • Splunk La Mierda
      Middle eastern culture equivalent to Indian culture? I think NOT.
      Nov 5, 2017
    • Facebook day9
      I’m Indian and dating an American girl now. What issues should I watch out for ?
      Nov 5, 2017
    • Vonage 1988stuff
      @day9 - as I said - watch for cultural issues come holiday times, planning vacations (I like to go to India, he didn't) and if it gets serious, religion and how you will raise your kids. I worry sometimes that if I marry someone who is not india, my kids will slowly lose their roots.
      Nov 6, 2017
  • Microsoft bindila
    What race are you
    Nov 3, 2017 0
  • Microsoft Facts
    Get dilmil app. You're welcome
    Nov 4, 2017 6
    • New / Other 🌠®️
      Not sure why avoided? Can you explain ?
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Amazon Zuck4Prez
      I’m Indian-American and I have nothing in common with those people. I don’t know how a white fit would.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • New / Other 🌠®️
      It wasn't like he was getting married. Looked more like having fun.😀 I don't see a big deal with this criteria.
      Nov 4, 2017
    • Microsoft Facts
      "those people"? Bigly Sad!
      Nov 4, 2017
    • New / Other 🌠®️
      I also have Indian American relative I know of, who has this super duper superiority complex. I am not kidding. I am not surprised when he said 'those people' to lump everyone together. I still hold that not everyone has this stereotyping thought process.
      Nov 4, 2017
  • Chase / Design
    Zi

    Chase Design

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    Zimore
    Why would anyone actively pursue an entire demographic of women with facial hair?
    Nov 5, 2017 1
    • Facebook Drizzle
      Here comes the republican
      Nov 6, 2017
  • New / Other
    MachoMan

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    MachoManmore
    dated a few indian chics, unfortunately they had too many misconceptions and taboos about sex
    Nov 6, 2017 6
    • New / Other
      MachoMan

      New Other

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      Security guy
      MachoManmore
      basically anything other than missionary was out of question .. no oral (give or take) ... i think culturally indian women are not sexually adventurous and have trouble opening up
      Nov 6, 2017
    • Salesforce I ❤️bjs
      Wow totally not the experiences I had! Maybe your head game was weak. 😂
      Nov 6, 2017
    • Amazon / Eng
      Dickwad

      Amazon Eng

      BIO
      Brb bio.
      Dickwadmore
      Eat ass bro. Opens doors.
      Nov 7, 2017
    • New / Other
      MachoMan

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      MachoManmore
      i found them to have weird bollywoodish expectations.... i saw a few bollywood movies and almost died of misery
      Nov 7, 2017
    • Salesforce / Eng
      kernelgrrl

      Salesforce Eng

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      kernelgrrlmore
      @dickwad knows. Preach on sister
      Nov 7, 2017
  • Salesforce I ❤️bjs
    Totally understand this OP. I dated an Indian chick one. Kinda average looking and she was average in bed also. But the thing about her was her smell/taste. I guess it’s true you are what you eat. Amazing. Would recommend the experience.
    Nov 5, 2017 3
    • Microsoft RandyMarsh
      Sounds disgusting
      Nov 5, 2017
    • Amazon UJVs78
      Butter chicken?
      Nov 5, 2017
    • Salesforce I ❤️bjs
      Sweet tandoori
      Nov 5, 2017
  • Salesforce / Eng
    kernelgrrl

    Salesforce Eng

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    kernelgrrlmore
    I’ve dated a few Indian girls (ok just one). Here are the rules
    1) be attractive
    2) don’t be unattractive
    3) treat them like human beings but really it’s all about not being a creeper
    Nov 5, 2017 0
  • PayPal 666.
    Indian girls dig chicken tikka fragrance, use that perfume and you would get lots of look
    Nov 5, 2017 1
    • Amazon UJVs78
      Troll. Chicken Tikka isn't even the most popular dish in India.
      Nov 5, 2017
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    • Microsoft SandyBeach
      Weak. Go back to 4chan troll
      Dec 10, 2017
  • Amazon OOO0OO
    Join Amazon
    Nov 4, 2017 1
  • you can find Indian girls on bharatmatrimony.com . Its a match making site. Good luck! .
    Nov 4, 2017 0
  • New UTzr53
    Just cover yourself in tumeric. They’ll come to you.
    Nov 9, 2017 0