RelationshipsMay 27, 2018
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Dating app advice

I always get tounge-tied when I have to fill out the profile. Plus I'm interested in nerdy things and someone on Reddit admonished me for it with literally "is that all you are". As weird as it sounds, what do "regular" people do beside what interests them? Is physical attraction a key here? Please help!

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Hgy096f May 27, 2018

Unless you are 5'6 Indian, you are a 'regular' person. There's nothing wrong with being nerdy

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k8 May 27, 2018

What's wrong with 5'6 indian? I see that a lot here, so curious

Microsoft Lotl May 27, 2018

It’s a user name of a troll pretending to be an unlovable 5’6” Indian male. Not meant as a description of a dating candidate.

Amazon Rouhani May 27, 2018

> Is physical attraction a key here

Amazon Rouhani May 27, 2018

Yes

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Luffy, M.D May 27, 2018

If you're interested in nerdy things and imply you're more interested in mainstream stuff, what happens when you actually meet someone and discover she finds nerdy things boring? Better to be honest. As for physical attraction, it's important and you should present yourself well but not dishonestly. If you're a 5 you're going to attract other 5s but that's life and you are better off with a girl with good personality and a lot of common interests who isn't going to cheat on you than a girl who's out of your league and only after you for your job/TC who is probably also sleeping with a hot but broke guy

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me1st May 27, 2018

Actially if he is online male 5s attract female 3s

Expedia gurgle May 27, 2018

Yeah wrong, if you're a male 5 you attract 3 and below.

Amazon RrQe11 May 27, 2018

Being good looking might attract people initially but having a good personality means more in the long run. Having just one hobby and being really passionate about it is fine imo. I crushed hard on a girl that was really into dinosaurs.

Amazon Rouhani May 27, 2018

Im still crushing hard on a girl that likes tech, drones, politics, and Nathan Fielder. *sigh*

Amazon RrQe11 May 27, 2018

Ask her out! Sounds like you share similar interests

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