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Dating app leading to marriage in NY for 30s folks

Google / Eng
ny-gineer

GoogleEng

BIO
simple dude
ny-gineermore
Feb 10

Tired of being on the hunt. What is a good dating app that will lead to marriage?

Any other tips/tricks?

Edit: any single, mature and easygoing ladies near my age, feel free to message me.

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  • McAfee JohnMcPee
    shaadi.com
    Feb 100
  • New / Engleet4job
    I have a hypothesis we millennials have a more difficult time to find a SO compare to previous generationsb because of more available *choices*. We are more connected so people constantly look out for better options.
    Feb 101
  • Google cmonsta
    Met my wife on Bumble. Dating is work. Apps are for creating lots of F2F dates.
    Feb 106
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      When did you meet her?
      Feb 10
    • Google cmonsta
      About 2 years ago
      Feb 10
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      Is she in tech too? Or someone random?
      Feb 10
    • Google cmonsta
      IT but non-tech. My advice is to get good at meeting people. Meet >1-2 people a week for a drink after work. Anyone can learn to have an engaging 15 minutes of conversation with a random person if you try. There's a lot of hungry women out there looking for you to come find them.
      Feb 10
    • Amazon outoforder
      What’s f2f?
      Feb 10
    • Uber smartride
      Fuck2fuck
      Feb 10
  • New / Engsparked
    Guys are outnumbered 2:1 in NYC and at 30+ women are more motivated to find life partners than men; all the odds are in your favor you just need to put in the effort.
    Feb 102
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      What app should I use and where should I go to meet women? Trying to find the best use of my time to achieve a decent outcome.
      Feb 10
    • New / Engsparked
      I would suggest not trying to directly find a mate via app; I would suggest joining groups that appeal to you and meeting others. The best way to find a partner is still through friends and personal relationships; NYC offers every possible type of club or social group. APPs are all geared toward casual hookups and that’s what you’re going to find when you use them. Okc is the only one that has kind of remained geared towards long term relationships but still nothing beats meeting people organically through participating in activities you enjoy
      Feb 10
  • Capital One cap1
    Tinder
    Feb 102
  • Compass / Eng
    FUPayMe

    CompassEng

    PRE
    Google
    FUPayMemore
    Are you male or female? Also just go out and sit at the bar more.
    Feb 102
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      Male. Sitting at the bar seems better suited for hookups than for something long term.
      Feb 10
    • Compass / Eng
      FUPayMe

      CompassEng

      PRE
      Google
      FUPayMemore
      Long term starts with saying hi
      Feb 10
  • Google trolDtrols
    Is this your ploy to fish for dates on blind ?
    Guy looking to get married... What's next ? Girl looking for one night stands ??
    Feb 101
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      Haha. Maybe. Single women in New York, feel free to message me. I'll definitely reply back!
      Feb 10
  • Salesforce MorningLad
    The only app you need is balls.
    Feb 100
  • Microsoft blind1186
    Okcupid
    Feb 100
  • New dluz61
    Phone apps are particularly bad at that, I think, because they're optimized to keep you spending time on the app. They're all about keeping you swiping for FOMO. I would honestly recommend looking for something that doesn't involve swiping. Or find like a social club to join.
    Feb 100
  • New ktFx33
    Okc but generally dating apps are not good for men so meet someone in the real world
    Feb 100
  • Airbnb lalalul
    Met my S.O on Bumble. I was direct in what I want for a guy, honest, sincere and that I didn't want casual hookups. That I was looking for something meaningful and long term. It saved time filtering guys and that's how I matched with my S.O. who was also looking for a LTR
    Feb 101
    • Airbnb Fentry
      That’s what around 80% of girls write no matter what they are really looking for
      Feb 10
  • VMware BobbleHat
    First go to the gym so you stop violating the first rule, which is to be attractive.
    Feb 101
    • General Motors / Eng
      RamenCup

      General MotorsEng

      PRE
      Boeing, Lockheed Martin, General Motors
      BIO
      Full stack developer with 6+ years of experience. I enjoy problem-solving, learning, and knowledge sharing.
      RamenCupmore
      True, be 6 feet and attractive, the universe will do all the work for you.
      Feb 10
  • Credit Karma yogi.bear
    Grindr or gtfo
    Feb 100
  • Amazon Jd8xye
    Match.com
    Feb 100
  • General Motors / Eng
    RamenCup

    General MotorsEng

    PRE
    Boeing, Lockheed Martin, General Motors
    BIO
    Full stack developer with 6+ years of experience. I enjoy problem-solving, learning, and knowledge sharing.
    RamenCupmore
    So sit in coffee shop.
    Feb 101
    • New ussI58
      Lol that does not work. Source:I usually spend half of my day in a coffee shop
      Feb 10
  • Google / Eng
    Qlan

    GoogleEng

    PRE
    Google
    Qlanmore
    Coffee meets bagel
    Feb 100
  • Microsoft / EngFreshPrinc
    Eharmoney
    Feb 100
  • New / Eng
    「GRE/NADE」

    NewEng

    PRE
    Apple
    BIO
    You know I’d do anything for you.
    「GRE/NADE」more
    It’s a numbers game more than anything else. How many serious relationships have you had in the past?
    Feb 102
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      Barely 1-2 if they qualify.

      How many should I have had before pulling the trigger in court?
      Feb 10
    • New / Eng
      「GRE/NADE」

      NewEng

      PRE
      Apple
      BIO
      You know I’d do anything for you.
      「GRE/NADE」more
      Depends on the person, the actual number doesn’t matter so much. I’d try living with that person and see if you’re compatible first. Always try before you buy.
      Feb 10
  • New / Engleet4job
    Lower your standard?
    Feb 101
    • Google / Eng
      ny-gineer

      GoogleEng

      BIO
      simple dude
      ny-gineermore
      OP
      Don't have a high standard. But do want someone compatible. Share apps or meetups where I can meet such women.
      Feb 10
  • Google SJJr61
    Uhm, you want something “organic” and someone compatible ? You’re still at Google? Perhaps try joining the groups/site activities. (Aka offsite, ski trip, summer parties, etc) Worked for me:)

    (This is NOT to say finding someone on your team. I repeat, do NOT date anyone on your team)
    Feb 100
  • Airbnb Fentry
    Are you saying you haven’t gotten into online dating at all? Just try a bunch of them - Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, they’re all the same thing and most people use multiple.

    Just select your pictures, write the bio, send your first messages with the help of a male friend that’s been successful on dating apps. Guys that don’t get good dates from online dating just don’t know what they are doing.
    Feb 100

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