Dating app: seeing a girl who blocked me a few years ago
A few years ago I was on some dating app and I had a good conversation with this girl. We exchanged contact outside of the app and things were going great. Same culture and very similar background, and generally the type I like (little to no makeup, family oriented etc). Then one day I forwarded her my picture with my baby niece. I had a ring on. It was taken before I broke up with my ex. She asked if I was married and I said something like “It would be weird if I am using the dating app when I have a wife.” Something like that. Then she cold blocked me. Perhaps I should have said “no I am absolutely single - that was an old photo of me” back then. I reopend the app today and saw her profile. I wonder if I should even consider explaining to her the whole thing. Just a rant. My behavior interview is gonna suck according to this incident. Tc: 180k
Leaky bucket @koala. Forget what you couldn’t serve ...
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Go for it and update us please. Good luck!
Didn’t u say u wouldn’t come on blind till ur in fang?
Thanks. I will forget about it. Probably only gonna make me look desperate.
I hate to say this but many romantic stories have a crucial component of retrying. If it only hurts your ego, then not a big deal reaching out to her (if you really liked her otherwise).
I like my friend not her, but I just felt the need to explain and clear up the past. Like I have this needle I need to pick out.
Why did you break up with your ex?
Don’t bother. Guys don’t get second chance for any wrong moves on dating apps, even if it’s one small thing in between pretty good conversation. Imagine the acceptable margin of error for launching rockets, online dating is far more strict. You will get other such matches. She is irrelevant in grand scheme of things. And it’s been years.
You're fine. Go for it or not it doesn't matter in the end either way.