Dating game is shit

New Dtj72n
Aug 31, 2018 24 Comments

Anyone else in here who finds the concept of dating weird?

No, I am not talking about getting or not getting enough matches. I am talking about this entire dating scene being a 'let me impress you so I can get laid' game. Real life relationships seem like relationships to me in true sense.

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  • Mentor Graphics / Sales
    Tiki-taka

    Mentor Graphics Sales

    BIO
    A Siemens business..
    Tiki-takamore
    Are you ugly?
    Aug 31, 2018 2
    • New Dtj72n
      OP
      If this is what you are asking, you definitely didn't get my point correctly
      Aug 31, 2018
    • Facebook / Eng 5'6"Indian
      So basically, yes. It's ok OP - you're not alone
      Aug 31, 2018
  • Uber / Eng
    meowimacat

    Uber Eng

    BIO
    Im a cat 🐈! Meowww...
    meowimacatmore
    Screw dating just get a cat 🐱. Cats are great companions and very amusing. Meow 🐈
    Aug 31, 2018 7
    • πŸ˜‚
      Sep 1, 2018
    • Juniper ~/var/log
      I love cats !! 🐈
      Nov 14, 2018
    • Uber / Eng
      meowimacat

      Uber Eng

      BIO
      Im a cat! 🐈 Meowww... Fancy feast is my favorite kind of kibbles 🐱
      meowimacatmore
      Meow 🐈
      Nov 14, 2018
    • New TimeOut
      What's with this cat obsession?
      Nov 14, 2018
    • Uber / Eng
      meowimacat

      Uber Eng

      BIO
      Im a cat! 🐈 Meowww... Fancy feast is my favorite kind of kibbles 🐱
      meowimacatmore
      Nothing, I just like them 🐱
      Nov 14, 2018
  • Amazon WACC
    Getting to know someone you find attractive and like and want to spend time with, is great. What sucks is modern dating, whereby we are all looking for the next shiny object.
    Aug 31, 2018 1
    • New Dtj72n
      OP
      Thanks. Finally someone understood my point.
      Aug 31, 2018
  • Google / Eng rPMq81
    Be impressive enough that others try to impress you to get laid.
    Aug 31, 2018 0
  • New / Eng Painkiller
    You can aim lower or try to improve yourself. Remember dating and TC are not very related. A woman decides in 7 seconds if she will have sex with you subconsciously. You may need to start doing lots of activities you do not enjoy. πŸ˜‰
    Aug 31, 2018 0
  • Amazon baked
    I don’t like dating or the games...it’s exhausting...but I like being in a relationship
    Sep 10, 2018 0
  • Facebook / Eng 5'6"Indian
    Watch any wildlife documentary. Most lifeforms on this planet are subject to lame mating rituals.
    Aug 31, 2018 1
    • VMware systemic
      Underrated comment
      Sep 3, 2018
  • Google / Eng
    sergey

    Google Eng

    BIO
    Top Contributor or GTFO
    sergeymore
    What do you propose instead? Coding interviews?
    Aug 31, 2018 0
  • New / Product
    nicebot

    New Product

    BIO
    Need leads to PM roles in SF. Thank you!!
    nicebotmore
    Yeah, I don't like it. Was kinda awesome to meet cute and fall in love as I learned more. Maybe I am biased against it because I suck at dating.
    Aug 31, 2018 2
    • Axtria πŸ’—69
      @nicebot, if this was sarcasm you have made good progress!
      Aug 31, 2018
    • New / Product
      nicebot

      New Product

      BIO
      Need leads to PM roles in SF. Thank you!!
      nicebotmore
      Thanks. It is half true, half sarcasm.
      Aug 31, 2018
  • Microsoft new πŸ’©();
    What I’ve never understood is the β€œdating multiple people” thing that seems to be popular in US. Like actually scheduling forced interactions with multiple candidates like you’re business networking or something. So weird.
    Sep 4, 2018 1
    • Salesforce
      Fi6rfu5rd

      Salesforce

      BIO
      I am blind to something and you are too.
      Fi6rfu5rdmore
      I mean, given monogamous relationship takes a good few years out of your life, what else can one do before committing to one?
      Sep 7, 2018