Hey peeps - I’m a single woman in my 30s that’s really shy but would love to date in the big city. The trouble is I’m somewhat intimidated to put myself out there since I’m more of a girl that a “has a great personality” and am looking for something more serious as opposed to dating just for fun. The other thing is that I’m opposed to the online dating thing mainly because my experience has been pretty negative. Do you guys have any advice as to where to possibly look or put myself out there to find just really nice guys? I’ve tried a couple meetup groups for random social events and exercise-y type meetups (ie running and rock climbing) but haven’t really found any good matches. The thought of speed dating has also crossed my mind. Has anyone done this before and would be willing to share their experience? Thanks!
What makes you feel opposed for online dating? The last two ex’s and my current girl friend were all through online dating and each of them had great personality and super fun and sweet people. But yes it’s like going through a haystack and need to put in effort to find that one. I think I found mine, I hope you too will. Just give it a try. I personally liked Coffee Meets Bagel and it’s great app for something serious.