Been dating this guy for a couple of months, things are going well, I’m comfortable around him and communication is good, he’s sweet and caring, I thought finding someone who’s so attentive in the age that people likes to play dating games is very rare. But recently I realized that because we grew up and work in very different areas (he does paperworks in a traditional industry company) our income level and ways of thinking is very different, I often get impatient and annoyed by the big gap in our experiences in life... I know some people don’t care what their partner does that much or even prefer them being in different field but I sometimes felt frustrated by how little he can relate my work (yet always want to give me suggestions on how to cope with it... I mean if he only listens and not try to jump in maybe I won’t be annoyed..) and the different level of our financial situations. I like to go out and try out some fancy restaurants for example but I feel sorry to do so with him. I don’t know if I’m been too judgemental about this or it is a legit dealbreaker. Thoughts? Would love to get some perspectives.
He deserves better.