Office LifeApr 10, 2019

Developer Conflict

Fellow developer is constantly pushing for his idea , debating with anybody else who has a different idea and behaving as if he knows better . How do other developers deal with situations like this. Do you have any tips?

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TrueCar jzh7^@*( Apr 10, 2019

camel punch him. keep eye contact. exert dominance

Bank of America AUCD50 OP Apr 10, 2019

If only I could. Hate that I have to debate with him all the time.

F5 Networks what’s up Apr 10, 2019

No. Just ignore him and do your job well.

Oath xxxcd Apr 10, 2019

Maybe he does know better? Were you listening when he talked? Or did you acted just like him and keep talking?

Bank of America AUCD50 OP Apr 10, 2019

I listened for the last 3 months. I've now started noticing a pattern in his behavior. And this is not just with me. It's with everyone else. He's always defending his ideas, his code , never accepting anyone else's ideas. He could be right in certain cases and we also do consider his opinions. But this has now become a problem where everyone wants to avoid anything that involves him. I don't debate with him unless it's absolutely necessary , so I wouldn't say I'm anything like him.

Oath xxxcd Apr 10, 2019

Sounds like he should get fired with severance. Management can frame it as: you’re too smart for us.

Microsoft jT47lg Apr 10, 2019

The way to fix bad ideas is with more good ideas. If people are accepting his ideas over yours simply because he talks louder, then you’ve got a bigger problem than just him. You’ve got a bad team and bad management.

Bank of America AUCD50 OP Apr 10, 2019

Bad management probably. We need someone to mediate. Not everyone likes to argue and defend/debate for every small thing. So a lot of the times, other developers just give up.