29 M. Just got brutally dumped again. It's so surprising how a person with whom you are making plans for life 2 weeks ago could become such a stranger. This has happened twice in 2 years now. Every time I feel like falling in love I get my heart broken. I feel like I am developing a fear of abandonment. I feel like just grabbing the next person and doing whatever they ask just to never let them go. I know this isn't healthy, but can't help it. Not sure what to do now and how to heal.
Life happens. Life also must keep happening. Don’t stop, won’t stop moving.
Time will heal. The right person will come. TC or GTFO.
Have backup plans from now
Do u mean side chick/chuck?
Don’t become exclusive with a chick until you’re damn sure, prolly 6 months out. Until then, date multiple chicks at the same time. The ones who aren’t a match will weed themselves out, and you won’t be heartbroken because you have 4-5 others waiting. Over time a mutual winner will emerge who you will marry. Glhf
Dated both girls for about 7-8 months.
I agree about dating multiple people. I didn't do it earlier for my principles, but looks like the world is brutal.
What was the reason? Was the reason similar to the time you previously got dumped?
Yeah op what’s the reason?
You need to work on yourself! Perhaps you have lack of confidence and are a "wussy". Need to man up
Dude in 7-8 months if you are making life plans with another person you must either be really good at understanding people or you are just an emotional person unable to understand the other person and end up making bad choices and taking bad decisions. Like others said just back off from long term relationships for now. Take a few years and Grow up. Enjoy life in the meantime. It may be a good thing that these 2 relationships didn’t work out - both for you and your ex.
I have a coworker who is horrible at understanding people and he started dating a girl and within 2 months she chose the wedding date and they moved in together within 3 months. I'm not saying that's OP's case but there are idiots out there who move in too fast when they're in a relationship
Exactly! I’m a female and mentioned this in my post/response to the original question.
Haha scary!
It gets better with time. Sometimes it’s better to be single.
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