RelationshipsOct 27, 2019
SAP🦑 tentacle

Expanding professional network or expanding her heart? 🤔

I can hear the snarky comments in my head as I type this but hear me out.. I have a difficult to spell name but this cute girl at work who I have talked to a couple of times but who works in a completely different department, recently added me on LinkedIn. This was after I had to change my desk and don’t sit in the same office space anymore which means I don’t see her besides maybe at the cafeteria. I just find it a bit unusual as I myself only add people I know and the invites I get are from people who I interact with fairly regulary or utter random people from the corners of the web. We only have 1-2 mutual connections. Just wondering if this could be a sign of interest. PS: I am going to talk to her anyways and drop some signs of interest myself. But would be good to have either a confidence boost or a reality check from you folks as well

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Brightcove moosepuck Oct 27, 2019

Don’t drop signs. Just ask her out and accept whatever her answer is.

SAP 🦑 tentacle OP Oct 27, 2019

Straight to the point, that’s a good move. By dropping signs I meant ask her out casually. Although last time I did she was too busy (it was last minute though)

Redfin bGpX65 Oct 27, 2019

for me if someone is too busy but is interested, they will reschedule.

Cisco intj🔥 Oct 27, 2019

Bro.. this is definitely an IoI and you have the three second rule to follow. Make sure you neg and show light kino. Also be sure to peacock and be the alpha. #redpill

SAP 🦑 tentacle OP Oct 27, 2019

Ok. You lost me. What is the 3 second rule, neg and light kino? Actually I can look up the first one, but whats the other 2?

Cisco 👨 🐻 🐖 Oct 27, 2019

You need to read PUA blogs

Cisco koala 🐨 Oct 27, 2019

Way too much overthinking. Just start a light conversation and see how it goes, she will show interest or no interest pretty quick

T-Mobile 🤐it Oct 27, 2019

Check if she added more from the same office 😁

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PewPew!! Oct 27, 2019

She probably wants to see you expand

Taylor Farms azerty_ Oct 27, 2019

You moved out of the office. She added you to stay in touch possibly for future networking in case she doesn’t see you again. She didn’t add you on facebook, after all which could’ve potentially been interpreted in another way.

Daimler homoenclid Oct 27, 2019

Literally nobody in my age group has added me on FB for at least 5 years; it’s insane Everybody’s at least 5 years older, and I wind up never opening it either. If someone contacts Menon messenger we move to something encrypted fairly quickly

Daimler homoenclid Oct 27, 2019

One way she might show interest if you’re being dumb about it is to stalk your profile so you consistently get those notifications that people saw your profile. Lul. Probably not though, most girls I know have high enough emotional maturity to not stalk you and just ask you out.

Yelp JMP2 Oct 27, 2019

And you are posting here instead of sending her a d**k pic? What is wrong with people nowadays?

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Psynaptic Oct 27, 2019

Not a sign of interest unless you're super hot (which makes you intimidating to women) which it doesn't sound like is the case.