Expanding professional network or expanding her heart? 🤔

Oct 27 19 Comments

I can hear the snarky comments in my head as I type this but hear me out.. I have a difficult to spell name but this cute girl at work who I have talked to a couple of times but who works in a completely different department, recently added me on LinkedIn. This was after I had to change my desk and don’t sit in the same office space anymore which means I don’t see her besides maybe at the cafeteria.

I just find it a bit unusual as I myself only add people I know and the invites I get are from people who I interact with fairly regulary or utter random people from the corners of the web. We only have 1-2 mutual connections.

Just wondering if this could be a sign of interest.

PS: I am going to talk to her anyways and drop some signs of interest myself. But would be good to have either a confidence boost or a reality check from you folks as well

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  • Brightcove moosepuck
    Don’t drop signs. Just ask her out and accept whatever her answer is.
    Oct 27 3
    • Straight to the point, that’s a good move. By dropping signs I meant ask her out casually. Although last time I did she was too busy (it was last minute though)
      Oct 27
    • Redfin bGpX65
      for me if someone is too busy but is interested, they will reschedule.
      Oct 27
    • Hulu ?!?!?!?
      But at the same time you don't want to look desperate
      Oct 27
  • Cisco / Eng intj🔥
    Bro.. this is definitely an IoI and you have the three second rule to follow. Make sure you neg and show light kino. Also be sure to peacock and be the alpha.

    #redpill
    Oct 27 5
    • Ok. You lost me. What is the 3 second rule, neg and light kino? Actually I can look up the first one, but whats the other 2?
      Oct 27
    • Cisco / Eng 👨 🐻 🐖
      You need to read PUA blogs
      Oct 27
    • Salesforce rhythmflow
      Read : The Game, Oldest still the hottest in the game.
      Oct 27
    • Lmao don't do any of these things if you want to have a normal human relationship. Just be yourself
      Oct 27
    • Cisco / Eng 👨 🐻 🐖
      No
      Oct 27
  • T-Mobile 🤐it
    Check if she added more from the same office 😁
    Oct 27 0
  • Flagged by the community.

  • Taylor Farms azerty_
    You moved out of the office. She added you to stay in touch possibly for future networking in case she doesn’t see you again.
    She didn’t add you on facebook, after all which could’ve potentially been interpreted in another way.
    Oct 27 1
    • Daimler homoenclid
      Literally nobody in my age group has added me on FB for at least 5 years; it’s insane

      Everybody’s at least 5 years older, and I wind up never opening it either. If someone contacts Menon messenger we move to something encrypted fairly quickly
      Oct 27
  • New / Eng
    PewPew!!

    New Eng

    PRE
    Symantec, Microsoft
    PewPew!!more
    She probably wants to see you expand
    Oct 27 0
  • Way too much overthinking. Just start a light conversation and see how it goes, she will show interest or no interest pretty quick
    Oct 27 0
  • New / Eng
    Psynaptic

    New Eng

    PRE
    Neuralink
    BIO
    Working on Brain Machine Interfaces
    Psynapticmore
    Not a sign of interest unless you're super hot (which makes you intimidating to women) which it doesn't sound like is the case.
    Oct 27 0
  • Yelp JMP2
    And you are posting here instead of sending her a d**k pic? What is wrong with people nowadays?
    Oct 27 0
  • Daimler homoenclid
    One way she might show interest if you’re being dumb about it is to stalk your profile so you consistently get those notifications that people saw your profile. Lul.

    Probably not though, most girls I know have high enough emotional maturity to not stalk you and just ask you out.
    Oct 27 0

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