#MeTooFeb 12, 2018
CiscoFEGc44

False Accussations

Share your story. Quick story: a female journalist threaten to write a false #metoo story in order to get me fired. I was smart enough to realize during our conversation that she was alluding to this false accussation; I managed to get a recording in order to protect myself. It's rough out there men. I say this through experience. I don't want to undermine the #metoo movement but I think its doing more harm than good for the real victims.

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Microsoft lyVf73 Feb 12, 2018

@FEGc44 how can you be so confident that this movement does more harm than good? Based on your experience? By ignoring all the other stories?

Cisco FEGc44 OP Feb 12, 2018

I think the movement is doing more harm based on what I'm seeing in news/social media, my experience and people I know. Also we should never dismiss others stories.

Capital One JnDM815 Feb 12, 2018

Seing all the comments about ruining the reputation of a person because someone shared a meetoo story without due process is reason enough to believe that it does more harm than good

GoPro NWIJ66 Feb 12, 2018

What did you do...?

Cisco FEGc44 OP Feb 12, 2018

Had a fling with her. Then broke it off with her. Found out she was self harming herself. Told her I was calling the paramedics. She took that as me threatening her job because she's a journalist and her job would find out and fire her.

Microsoft Skedaddle Feb 14, 2018

So you threatened her with something that could potentially get her to lose her job and she threatened you right back?

Salesforce tRlm53 Feb 12, 2018

What was she accusing you of?

Cisco FEGc44 OP Feb 12, 2018

Sexual assault after I broke off a fling with her.

HERE cast iron Feb 12, 2018

The movement is triggering huge amounts of positive conversations, outing of abusers and getting a lot of men to honestly reevaluate their impact on women. No one deserves to have false allegations placed against them.

Google jghyrh Feb 12, 2018

So you turned on your phone's camera secretly while she was threatening, so you have the threat recorded?

Cisco FEGc44 OP Feb 12, 2018

Yeah. First she was telling me how she was going to get me fired, so I started recording. After awhile she dropped the false #metoo story on me.

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2aclass Feb 12, 2018

A woman on my team went to hr and said she thought I might be hitting on her. When asked she admitted that I'd never said anything inappropriate, had never commented on her looks, and had never so much as touched her! She just "thought" maybe I was... stupid! Then after a ton of BS and stress she told HR she was confused and wanted to remain on my team cuz she had just gotten the wrong impression, however the damage was done.

Cisco FEGc44 OP Feb 12, 2018

Wow! Did she stay on your team afterwards? I would follow up with HR and make sure doesn't get back on your team. Don't need anymore confusions like that.

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EAzC08 Feb 12, 2018

Interesting

Capital One JnDM815 Feb 12, 2018

And people still ask me why I went #MGTOW. Feels so good

HERE cast iron Feb 12, 2018

Each to their own

Cadence Fchp21 Feb 12, 2018

Uber passenger got mad when I told her "no" and threatened to report me "if you don't come in and get me off, I'll just call Uber and tell them you forced yourself on me" till I pointed out the dashcam. I sent that video in three times - by email, by US mail on USB, and in person to the green light center on a DVD - just in case she ever tried filing such a report.

Microsoft J0lyr0ger Feb 12, 2018

When men lose there mind they get angry loud and sometimes violent. Usually regret it and apologize... when woman get mad.... they want to destroy your life.. hell hath no fury.

HERE cast iron Feb 12, 2018

Rolls eyes

Microsoft J0lyr0ger Feb 12, 2018

Its mostly true, though some men act like woman in this matter and vice versa but as a rule of averages this does apply. Its funny our society was built on distinguished roles of males and females designed based on strengths and weaknesses. If you keep removing pillars in the name of “progressive liberalism” eventually society will “progress” into anarchy. Sigh