Friends sullen attitude

Amazon duxhu83
Jul 25, 2018 15 Comments

I'd be really curious to hear input from women on this.

I have a friend of mine that seems in general more sullen attitude around me. She used to be rather bubbly and ask me all types of questions and be very engaging in conversation. Should oftentimes would tease me and I would do the same to her. We would talk and exchange ideas for an hour or so and I would describe the conversations as good. There was a while there she would even ask me about my workout routine and what I'll be working out tonight. She would sometimes send me random texts about funny things or weird things that she has seen or done. I'm beginning to think that I was too stupid to realize that may be she wanted more than friendship and since I've never taken it beyond friendship now it seems like I've lost a friend :-(

Anyone ever encounter this?

Any thoughts on how I can get my friend back to the way she was before? She used to be so energetic and so engaging in conversation :-(

Do you think I should be upfront with her and ask her if everything is okay? I would be curious to hear what women have to say about that.

At least so far she has not refused to hang out with me. We see each other almost everyday. So maybe there's hope that I can get my friend back to her old ways.

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TOP 15 Comments
  • Lending Club &$!?|<:/-@
    Move on. She lost interest on you or seeing someone else.
    Jul 25, 2018 4
    • Amazon duxhu83
      OP
      Umm she lost interest in being my friend?
      Jul 25, 2018
    • Lending Club &$!?|<:/-@
      Yes, she lost interest on you as a friend. It happens as people change.
      Jul 25, 2018
    • Amazon duxhu83
      OP
      Yeah I guess so. I really thought we had a decent friendship.
      Jul 25, 2018
    • Lending Club &$!?|<:/-@
      Sorry, whom am I to give advice. Give two more shots and see something happens.
      Jul 25, 2018
  • McKinsey lardball
    Just straight up asking her if she’s been feeling ok lately would be the best solution instead of having a bunch of strangers speculate :)
    Jul 25, 2018 1
    • Aon Hewitt rundmc
      Yes I agree with this, ask her. If she's your friend then you should.
      Jul 25, 2018
  • Dell / Eng
    cmpxch

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    How have you *not* asked if everything is ok if you're such good friends ??
    Jul 25, 2018 1
    • Amazon duxhu83
      OP
      That's very true. She comes off as very private. I don't want her to feel like I'm trying to invade her privacy. I guess maybe I shouldn't worry about that and if she didn't want to tell me something she'll just dance around it.
      Jul 25, 2018
  • Amazon dotard
    TC
    Jul 25, 2018 2
    • Amazon duxhu83
      OP
      Yeah she totally would always ask me for my net worth in a teasing way. But then eventually she just stopped :-(
      Jul 25, 2018
    • New / Product
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      Smash that Private Message button
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      This is the real tragedy of the story
      Jul 25, 2018
  • Microsoft nUft81
    Casually send her memes.
    Jul 25, 2018 0
  • eBay / Other imeanit
    Well, do you romantically like her or not? If not, she must have sensed that and has now withdrawn because it's the healthiest thing to do. For her. I would do the same if i were her, it's easier to move on to someone else who would reciprocate her feelings. You did not lose a friend, you just lost her full attention. She's saving that for someone else.
    Jul 26, 2018 1
    • Amazon duxhu83
      OP
      Always viewed her as a friend...until now this is making me wonder about that. Maybe she wanted more and I was too dumb to see that? Oh man and in the process now I lost a friend it seems. I guess I must like her as I want her attention and I miss our banter :-(
      Jul 26, 2018