My girlfriend of 2 years is moving away to Virgina for her first job out of school. I work in a shitty company in Florida. Unable to get a job in that area. I'm on student Visa. Can't just quit my job. We both are unable to handle this separation and it's tearing us apart. What would you guys suggest? TC : 50k
It’s over, sorry bro
She can either stay in Florida if she loves you and you have a future. Or you can move on and go your separate ways. Or meet each other half way and visit monthly?
You're tearing me apart!
With or without you.....
Oh hi Mark
She's their girlfriend now
That's fucked up
Tough situation man. One of you needs to make the decision to follow the other, or you both need to make the decision to end it. Life’s too short to not be happy. Be with someone who you can actually be with. My two cents 🤷♂️
Enjoy the breakup sex
103% Of these fail especially when there’s so many single men in Virginia with big big big TC 🍆
Big ? Size doesn't matter lol
Virginia to Florida is only over 2 hours flight away. The success of LDR will depend on: - Setting a timeline (if you two cannot be together by date X, let's be realistic and move on) - Willingness to prioritise traveling to see each other with fairness (not one person making all trips) and within reasonable frequency. You have to minimize chances of building resentment, or things can go south real fast. - The sad reality of travel cost can be offset by prioritising for maintaining the relationship. - Side note: nonstop flights really help. Source: 9 yrs long relationship with 6+ years in LDR. I am an expert traveler with maximum travel optimisation.
Thanks a lot for this!
Also, the first month at the first job after school can be really really tough especially when their SO is away. Pay attention to the signals and make sure you are emotionally supporting her in a timely manner.
Enroll in an online program that meets student visa criteria. Move to VA and keep trying for a job. Tech market there is decent (at least much better than FL)
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If you can’t quit your job... then your only choices are she doesn’t take the job or you break up.
Or get married.