Girls / Women: who would you want to date?

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Ama B.O

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Jun 16 65 Comments

To all of girls / women out there:
Which one of the following you prefer for dating?

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  • Google Mr. Glass
    There’s a difference between perception and reality. Women want to describe their behavior a certain way, but the actual behavior is different from that. Then there’s excuses and manipulation to make up that difference between the two. Just observe. The truth is hypergamy, simple.
    Jun 16 17
    • Adobe jubileus
      If you didn't, you wouldn't have bothered replying on this thread in the first place. Again reinforcing @Google's point about the gap between public statements and actual behavior
      Jun 16
    • Amazon Dragoonv2
      @Adobe @Google
      Guys, just take a chill pill .. it's not just about TC or confidence ..
      The more you search for a Boolean answer , the farther away from truth you get..
      There are multiple factors, all in different proportions for every different kind of girl.

      Also .. if a girl is so motivated by TC , there are too many options outside of the FAANG community. Stop giving yourself fake brownie points over some minor differences in compensation.
      Just another guys perspective.
      Peace !!
      Jun 16
    • Google Styx
      So consent is meaningless?
      Jun 16
    • New / Eng
      🔥HODL🔥

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      Sogeti
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      I'm a generalist soft eng who loves to work on hard tasks and open-source. I have experience in many domains (low-level, web, data science, security, etc.).
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      @Google Are you going to write an internal memo about that?
      Jun 16
    • New iXEa35
      Nothing to see here but an insecure closet misogynist projecting his obsession for TC. Spend much time on the incel forums Adobe?
      Jun 16
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

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      sex work, quantum computing, and crypto HFT
      tendiesmore
      Lol just LoL at people denying hypergamy. Take the black pill. Personality is less important than looks, though no one wants to admit that.

      https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
      Jun 16
    • Microsoft
      dolt

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      doltmore
      Lol @ the red pilled incels. So woke.
      Jun 16
    • Google Mr. Glass
      More than looks it’s social dominance for men, and beauty for women
      Jun 16
    • Google Mr. Glass
      Remember girls (and guys), you’re a product of evolution and life. The objective function of your entire ancestry has been to optimize sexual reproduction and survival of offspring. This includes everything from your brain to hormones to emotions and thoughts.

      To deny this is to deny your psyche and the ingrained instincts, predispositions, desires and wants within yourself, and for what? For the sake of an ideology that promises SJW utopia if you believe in feel-good myths? You will not be happy if you deny the truth within - you might explain away your actions and believe in a unicorn world full of fairies and rainbows but you’ll be miserable at 35 when your sexual-market-value starts dropping. Now, every person is slightly different and may have different preferences, but exceptions don’t deny the main trend.

      You all know what I mean, and it manifests as deep insecurities in the kind of responses you throw out at it. The first step toward progress is to accept the truth.

      In general men are biased towards action, and social dominance. They struggle to win at that through strength, power, money, risk and prestige. Women maximize their sexual market value at age 25 after which they start to decline. There’s a reason for the reductionist saying: “women don’t care about guys’ struggles, they hang out at the finish line and f🙂k the winner.” That’s a little simplistic but a good start to understanding hypergamy.
      Jun 16
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

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      sex work, quantum computing, and crypto HFT
      tendiesmore
      Mr glass dropping hydrogen grade truth bombs. Also - juggernaut law - even post prime females can still lock down (sub prime) beta buxxers in this hypergamous polygynous environment. It is impossible for a female incel to exist.
      Jun 19
  • Verisk Analytics 🦄unicorn🦄
    Confidence and sense of humor over TC and yoe
    Jun 16 1
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

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      Lol just lol. I guess ghengis khan, Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, and tiger woods all were sexually successful because of they were just sooooooo confident and funny!
      Jun 27
  • Amazon / Eng AMZNMusic
    This reads like someone looking for validation.
    Jun 16 1
  • TD
    _Canadian_

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    Someone who works in a prestigious place like Albertsons.
    Jun 16 2
    • Twitch / Design Sardines
      I've always thought td stood for trump Donald. Pretty glad it didn't
      Jun 16
    • Glassdoor drewm
      Was skimming through all the comments hoping to find an Albertsons reference. Was not disappointed, thanks!
      Jun 16
  • Microsoft compassion
    Confidence doesn't just come from nowhere; it's a skill that can be practiced, even if fucking up initially is so difficult, and it's a skill that takes a certain level of emotional maturity.

    Setting aside physical attractiveness, you just asked people whether they'd rather someone lacked inner substance or emotional maturity.

    The answer is neither.
    Jun 16 8
    • Google Mr. Glass
      Wrong. OP is trying to rank between intelligence and confidence. Either, or. Not between lack of confidence and existence of confidence - that’s an easy question dummy. Think.
      Jun 16
    • New / Mgmt
      Ama B.O

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      Well said Mr. Glass. Thx
      Jun 16
    • Microsoft compassion
      How patronizing.

      I didn't rank between lack of confidence and existence of confidence. I ranked between lack of confidence and lack of intelligence. The answer is that neither reach the minimum bar. It's about reaching minimum thresholds.
      Jun 16
    • Google Mr. Glass
      Use logic and don’t be dumb. 4 cases:
      1. intelligent and confident,
      2. Intelligent and not very confident,
      3. Not very intelligent, but confident,
      4. Not intelligent and not confident either

      What’s your ranking of 1-4? It’s obvious #4 doesn’t cut it. Do you mean to say only #1 qualifies for the bar? On average, for women? Not any of #2 or #3? Think and answer what’s being asked. Not obvious platitudes, eh?
      Jun 16
    • Microsoft compassion
      Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying, and what constitutes "intelligence" depends on the person.

      It's not a high bar.
      Jun 16
    • Google Mr. Glass
      Still didn’t answer the ranking question
      Jun 16
    • Microsoft compassion
      Because the question is wrong. Thinking about it in that lens isn't productive.
      Jun 16
    • Google Mr. Glass
      It’s because the lens exposes chin-ks in the ideological drivel that hides the truth ;)

      It’s a very simple, logical, coherent question. When you rank things pair wise, you truly discover the value of every component w.r.t every other. It’s not subjective mumbo jumbo.

      You yourself said: “I ranked between lack of confidence and lack of intelligence. The answer is that neither reach the minimum bar. It's about reaching minimum thresholds.”

      Ok, construct an example where two guys reach the minimum threshold for intelligence and confidence. One is much more confident than intelligent, and the other vice versa. In this construction, they’re both equal in every other way. Remember they both cross the minimum thresholds. On average, who would women prefer more? It’s a simple data question, not a bogus ideological stand.
      Jun 16
  • Facebook / Eng lkj630
    Why are you asking for the opinions of women and *girls*? Pedophile.
    Jun 26 6
    • Google Mr. Glass
      Calling a woman a girl because she looks young and hot is a compliment, you turd.
      Jun 29
    • Facebook / Eng lkj630
      No it isn't? Do you think is a compliment if as a guy you get called a boy?
      Jun 30
    • Google Mr. Glass
      Go learn about culture, sexes, hypergamy and the origin of culture and our language. Men and women are not exactly identical, nor should the standards of compliment applicable to them.
      Jun 30
    • Facebook / Eng lkj630
      Go learn about infantilism and how it's used in ideals around women 🙄
      Jul 1
    • Google Mr. Glass
      You’re a bigot for calling him a paedophile for complimenting a woman in line with cultural norms. You should be ashamed of yourself.
      Jul 1
    • Facebook / Eng lkj630
      🙄🙄🙄🙄🧐
      Jul 1
  • Microsoft FNfs54
    Imho dating is not about ticking whether someone has the ‘right’ traits but rather if there is chemistry or no
    Jun 16 0
  • Amazon PaisaLaya?
    Which one of them gives better refreshers?
    Jun 16 0
  • Rally Health njGx08
    Treat people like people, build your relationships based on mutual respect, bring joy to the lives of others, and don't spend any more time in this cesspit.

    And for you in particular, "impressive when he talks" sounds like you talk over people a lot, probably at great length. Don't do that. Pay attention to how much of the conversation you are taking up, and try not to take more than your equal share. When you aren't talking, listen, and not just for your next opportunity to speak. People will appreciate that.
    Jun 16 1
    • Microsoft
      dolt

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      doltmore
      No. Take the red pill and take advantage of insecure women. Claim all women are liars and manipulators. Convince other incels to do the same and become woke.
      Jun 16
  • Facebook dXQm00
    Where's the I'm not a girl option?
    Jun 16 0
  • Facebook mrtimapple
    I'm just looking for the longest S C H L O N G
    Jun 16 3
    • Facebook / Product
      yo-yo yo

      Facebook Product

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      yo-yo yomore
      Key question. What matters more, Length or girth?
      Jun 16
    • Capital One
      thickmama1

      Capital One

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      Woman struggling to pass interviews
      thickmama1more
      Girth. 6-6.5” is better than +7” in length.
      Jun 16
    • Unity NcOr36
      Lol
      Jun 21
  • New / Eng QTdN03
    You could shorten this poll to: A very good looking guy vs. An average looking guy.
    Jun 16 3
    • Facebook / Product
      yo-yo yo

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      yo-yo yomore
      Everybody knows the answer to this since you made it blatantly one dimensional. Why would someone pick average over good looking if that’s the only dimension described
      Jun 16
    • New / Eng QTdN03
      That’s the main dimension considered when dating nowadays. The poll didn’t ask, Who would you rather *marry*?
      Jun 16
    • Microsoft shambu
      This is true. All the personality, intelligence etc is just words. Physical appearance is what gets you chicks. If not, it's the money. So, if you're not hot bod, go use your brains to make $$$.
      Jun 23
  • Unity NcOr36
    Doesn’t matter what he looks like, nothing hotter than big brains and being confident but humble.
    Jun 21 2
    • Microsoft shambu
      You don't need to pretend here. This is Blind ffs 😂 we all know you won't swipe right if it isn't a white guy 8+.
      Jun 23
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

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      sex work, quantum computing, and crypto HFT
      tendiesmore
      Absolutely false. IQ has a negative correlation to reproductive success. Big brain = useless. Putting that you are a mensa member in your tinder bio gives +0 matches. Also, lol at being confident yet humble. That's translation for : have good genes, good body, good face.

      Some of the smartest people on the world are on the autism spectrum, which has extremely high rates of virginity along with unemployment.
      Jun 25
  • LinkedIn
    tendies

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    tendiesmore
    The male with the best genes. Do you seriously think confidence is anything more than a meme?
    Jun 16 2
    • Microsoft compassion
      Thanks, tendies, very cool.
      Jun 16
    • LinkedIn
      tendies

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      tendiesmore
      How "confident" do you think those PUAs are? 😂🤣
      Jun 16
  • New / Eng 3ngg
    Those are minor and insignificant factors. You will get futher with above average charisma.
    Jun 16 0
  • Snapchat gqkO66
    The women have probably figured out that book smarts is situational but good looks and good social skills is both heritable and more transferable
    Jun 16 1
    • New mYtn81
      Unfortunately true. Height in there as well
      Jun 16
  • Symantec
    dq.m.pb

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    does it matter?
    dq.m.pbmore
    Too philosophical and this isnt true.
    Truth is to have one in hand and two in the bush. Maybe keep seeing around after that.

    It gets bad in Silicon valley. Women and men both are hesitant to commit.
    Jun 29 0
  • Zillow Group 2>&1
    Me
    Jun 25 0