HR IssuesNov 24, 2018
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Guy friend said he was bi

Straight guys of blind, how would you react if your good friend told you he was bi? Would you start hanging out with him less? Would you start to second judge his every action as coming on to you? Would you rethink the friendship in anyway?

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Microsoft jrex Nov 24, 2018

I think you first need to grow a pair

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hYw82bsos Nov 24, 2018

People like you are the reason people keep this stuff buried deep down

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bungary OP Nov 24, 2018

I am looking for advice not judgement.

Amazon JefLeppard Nov 24, 2018

Just be normal. If he wants to do butt stuff with you say no thanks and continue to be normal

Google FYR4xC Nov 24, 2018

You're an asshole

Apple asyncAwait Nov 25, 2018

Exactly what his friend was looking for.

Broadcom Ltd. rFkd21 Nov 24, 2018

Same person as he ever was.

Microsoft DOyu71 Nov 24, 2018

What a douche

Intuit PzyY83 Nov 24, 2018

It’s fine dude. Let him live. This isn’t about you.

Amazon JefLeppard Nov 24, 2018

The reason men and women often aren’t best friends I think has less to do with the potential for sexual relationships, and more with the differences of the sexes. A lot of bi and gay guys are just guys. They go for “types,” like you do for women. Chances are pretty good you’re not they’re type.

Microsoft Polize Nov 24, 2018

This reply ^

Airbnb jim.hodlen Nov 24, 2018

what difference does that make?

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bungary OP Nov 24, 2018

Idk he just never said anything all those times we talked about girls.

Microsoft CrashOverr Nov 24, 2018

Mmm he is bi, not gay. And even gay, what should he say?

Trulioo JHOY58 Nov 24, 2018

Who cares?

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🌈:] Nov 24, 2018

I agree with the comment above that it’s not about you. It takes guts to come out as bi or gay or queer. If you’re scared of anything sexual or rape happening to you, his good friend, then I’m afraid that says more about you than him. Him coming out doesn’t change who he has been to you. If he hadn’t been kind to you, then there’s no point of the friendship.

Microsoft TrumpWins Nov 24, 2018

It absolutely does not take guts to come out as bi or gay in 2018

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🌈:] Nov 25, 2018

Especially in the trump times, right?