Guys, do you like proactive girls in dating?
Do you like when a girl makes first step in dating? What approach do you suggest if I don't have much contact with a guy? Do you think that straight invite for a coffee is fine? Did girls pick you up? How did they do it? I would love some insight.
Probably depends on the guy but I think most men like it. I certainly do. The majority of girls unfortunately just wait to be approached by guys.
Worked for me. Landed a couple great relationships by asking the guy out. Start with something friendly and no pressure, like lunch.
In order of the questions you asked: yes, be direct so there is no mistaking intent and don’t fear rejection, yes. Have in the past yes. It almost always involved being at a bar and starting a conversation and then either inviting me to the next location (another bar, food, or home) or giving me their number. It was fairly rare because women still expect men to do the first approach and take the initiative most of the time but some women are confident in that way which is nice.
At the worst, it is flattering and a breath of fresh air. So yes, most guys will at least appreciate it.
Definitely love when a girl makes the first move, but that approach definitely opens you up to rejection. If you’re bold and confident you can sometimes get a guy who is a little out of your league. Guys don’t have defense mechanisms against assertive girls, so keep that in mind. You might attract something more short lived, without realizing it.
No defense mechanisms? Can’t say no?
Say no to free p*ssy? What world do you live in?
100% go for it. If he wasn’t interested or thinking about it before you ask he will be after.
Being proactive is always better than being passive. Imagine you can only interview with companies that invite you as opposed to applying to companies that you actually want to work for.
Depends, are you ugly/fat? If yes, then no.
Yes we like it.
Nice try ... dude!