RelationshipsOct 13, 2019
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How can I find a bf

Been single for a while now, for going through life changes and figuring out what I want. It’s fine for me to be by myself bc I’ve had serious relationships and know what it demands to love someone. I’m happy with my job but get a little lonely since don’t have many friends in the Bay Area. It’s Sunday night, and I’m up for listening to some advice. What should I do? How can I build a meaningful social circle and eventually find a SO? Any actions I could take within the company, as in activity and interest groups to make friends? Don’t like dating apps btw. 29, 180k

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Lyft ttttjdndh Oct 13, 2019

🍿

Capital One trilliman Oct 13, 2019

Sorry, I don't date women with more TC than me

Google lldap OP Oct 13, 2019

Sad, why?

New
8=|) Oct 13, 2019

Inferiority complex from men. Which is stupid. Be pampered for once, men.

Samsung @googlenow Oct 13, 2019

New to bay area as well but I've been pretty lucky getting #s. Try to goto coffeeshops and knock down 2 birds with 1 stone by leetcoding and meet people.

Google lldap OP Oct 13, 2019

I really do hope to find nice cafes not packed with leetcoders😂

Samsung @googlenow Oct 13, 2019

Is it possible in SV?

Roku cruella Oct 13, 2019

Don’t ask suck questions here. All u will get are creeps hitting on u. Or. Sexist people making sexist comments or asking sexist questions

Google lldap OP Oct 13, 2019

I’m just bold enough tonight to test my luck😂 and learn how all you guys think?

Roku cruella Oct 13, 2019

Waste of your time. But good luck

Apple jhetfield Oct 13, 2019

Shaadi.com

Amazon Yo Yo ! Oct 13, 2019

Depends on your expectations on him

Google lldap OP Oct 13, 2019

I like American guys with grace and ease, and intelligence.

Amazon Yo Yo ! Oct 13, 2019

Racist

Facebook ⭕w⭕ Oct 13, 2019

What makes you interesting?

Google lldap OP Oct 13, 2019

Makes me interesting? I have a diverse experience and an open mind.

Amazon Yo Yo ! Oct 13, 2019

“Open mind” for American guys 😂

Microsoft 2muchrain Oct 13, 2019

I’m a girl too. Blind sucks for girls who wanna try to date. Or tech companies in general

Samsung @googlenow Oct 13, 2019

Try uber pool

Microsoft 2muchrain Oct 13, 2019

No cheap dates

Cisco unit-test Oct 13, 2019

Let’s hangout! I am also in sf (am a single woman) we can meet guys together or just hangout. It’s hard to make friends here

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meonthew3 Oct 13, 2019

Treat your personal life like a product. Ask you what you want and why. Then write it all down, put in the fire, and warm your feet while enjoying a good book. A SO is someone that brings out the best in you while you bring out their best. That best is purely subjective, so literally no one on earth can tell you where to meet that person, but if you know what will bring out your best, you can figure it out. For example, does a guy demonstrating patient love for the helpless, but not someone that risks their life, do that for you? Then help out at a puppy shelter in your spare time, not a pub near the fire station. If you want someone to keep thinking about work with when you get home, then just stay at work. It's absolutely something every one can find, it's just so personal that you have to discover your own angle and go for it. To be honest, going for it in the face of fear and failure is the most difficult part. That's why I half-joke that it's a product.

Google lldap OP Oct 13, 2019

Thank you for this sincere reply. I totally agree and have been doing so. Was writing a poem yesterday and having a nice walk along the trail. Life is good and fair to me and I’m already happy.