I met a girl from Harvard sitting next to me on a plane once and for the life of me I can’t get her out of my head after I matched with her on Tinder a few days later. She ghosted me mid conversation (pretty sure she deleted the app) but I keep thinking about her. Here’s why I shouldn’t rationally do that: - we have nothing in common (she’s 99% a Republican that watched Glee for Christ sakes) - haven’t/can’t even creepily stalk her on social media (she doesn’t even use hers??) - she’s attractive but not much more than me But for some fucking reason I keep thinking about her - I think it’s because she works in a field that I think is really cool (drug discovery). What the fuck do I do to reason my way out of this?
You sound needy
I am
well at least you have identified it
Then @aleph00 is right...
Take more plane trips. Leave the poor girl alone. If it seems like she is avoiding you, she definitely is. Move TF on.
Hard to say “avoiding” really more than just “disappearing”.
Realize that you aren’t entitled to anyone’s time and get over yourself. The fact that she clearly isn’t interested and you still tried to cyber stalk her makes me think she dodged a bullet.
You’re right and I don’t blame her tbh.
You met her IRL first and then later matched on Tinder?? Why didn’t you just get her info on plane and meet up based on that?
I’m a wuss duh. How am I supposed to know if she’s single?
It’s not like that. If it’s a good convo and you’re connecting, you just ask/suggest it. If she’s down to meet then great, if she’s like I have a bf or rejects/later ghosts then you’re done and move on
I don’t think she deleted the app. If you see a red exclamation mark next to your message, that means she blocked you.
Was it "why do you keep bugging me?" ?
Seek therapy and get some sane treatment
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Get over it. There are 2B women out there.
I think that’s an underestimate but nonetheless I would be able to easily if this was a rational decision lol