Without IM’ing girls from the company directory...
Let’s take a step back...how successful do you think you are on a scale from 1 to Justin Bieber?
What's about Trump? Where is he on your scale?
Don't. Most women ambitious enough will turn everything into a competition. If they win, they look down on you. If you win, they get angry. Choose someone outside your field. Teachers and nurses are great.
I’m an ambitious woman (tc 400k), but the way I see it, my partner and I are a team competing against the rest of the world. If he wins, I win too, and vice versa. Together we’re better than either of us could be on our own.
And what's your partners TC? Curious
You got it reversed son. You don’t get girls like you. Girls chose guys better than them. Besides, on the prestige and success scale, you are pretty low. Basically you are screwed.
The way you think about finding a girl is just wrong. You should find a girl that elevate you and keep you a successful man, if you're, and by that you make her a successful wife. It is mutual not one way. finding the best fit girl for you must be natural not systematic.
A woman who judges you based on your employer isn’t someone worth dating. Only guys on Blind obsess over TC and prestige. Unless you want to date another guy, you’re fine.
Dude, not everyone on blind or in tech is a guy. Lots of women here who care about the same things as the men (TC, growth etc). Software engineering isn't a male only field.
Sure, TC is fairly important, but if OP makes good money then where he works shouldn’t matter. If OP has a solid TC but works at GE and women don’t want to date him based on the employer, that’s on them.
Easy, make friends with techies from other teams, orgs, companies and you're bound to find women amongst them who are also single. Worked really well for me and my husband.
Dating app called Hinge or Bumble.
^^^ hinge got me a lot of quality girls!
Enroll to a renowned Masters/PhD/MBA and meet someone there.
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GE? You're gonna have to hit the trailer park to find a girl as successful as you.
LMAO
Sorry OP my colleague is such an embarrassment