How many of your in-laws is the maximum you would tolerate hosting for two or three weeks
We recently moved to a new house from a condo, and I have been terrified by my wife's plans to have her family visits to be longer and to include a larger crowd.
Her dad would come once a year for 3 weeks and her mom (with other 5 relatives) would come for 2-3 weeks. I feel that is the maximum I can endure.
Now she wants another two beds and use two rooms for guests to be able to host (gasp!) 10 or so people at a time for several weeks. (Maybe even more than 3)
Is it selfish or unreasonable to be absolutely horrified by this idea? How long would you tolerate such an invasion of your space?
Also hosting means taking them out for dinner a few times per week, planning activities with them, driving them around, entertaining them, etc.
BTW I get along with them great, but I do value my space. I am an introvert that can be very social. Having guests for so long is mentally taxing for me. Also we don't have a macmansion with 10 bedrooms. It is ~2500sq ft home. We have no kids