How to become the Chad?

Google notachad
May 3 95 Comments

I read Chad gets all the women. How to become Chad?

I go to gym and am in good shape, but still have trouble adopting that Chad mentality. Also been trying to dress better.

350k, 5’8”, 160 pounds 13% body fat, 5in, white

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  • Google dasaniH2O
    5'8" is the root cause of your problems, mate.
    May 318
    • Google Mr. GIass
      Exaggerating by 2 inches is fine. A lot of people are notoriously bad about estimating height. So if you're exactly 5'8" without shoes, saying you're 5'10" is fine.

      I'm 5'9" without shoes. I used to say I was 5'11" on dating sites. No woman questioned me on my height. The trick is to date women shorter than your height without shoes, because if things go well you have to assume the shoes will come off. So in my case, women below 5'9" was my target audience and I had no issues whatsoever.

      But exaggerating by any more than 2 inches isn't a good idea imo.
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Hey mr glass you are a legend, always love to see your posts, thanks for the response! You are true Chad!
      May 3
    • Nvidia xaBl4j
      I like guys that are 5’8’’. Don’t like super tall guys.
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      But do you like them as providers or do you think of them as chads?
      May 3
    • Amazon etsT03
      @xaBl4j how tall are you?
      May 3
    • ON Semiconductor OoooOOOoooO
      I barely imagine a woman on a date with a ruler and 1st thing she does - measure how tall you are. An estimate is usually goes against her height. But sometimes women wear heels ...
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Well tough part is I want a tall woman so my kids can be chads and Staceys
      May 3
    • Nvidia xaBl4j
      I’m 5’5”
      May 4
    • Nvidia xaBl4j
      I like guys between 5’5” and 5’8”. I just don’t find guys taller than that attractive. I guess I’m unusual.
      May 4
    • Amazon etsT03
      Interesting. Is it because of your reach * I like girls who are 5’4 to 5’11. I am 5’10
      May 4
  • Micro Focus brotein
    Honestly while Blind has smart engineers who offer great career advice, most guys here are betas. Real Chads don’t hang out on Blind discussing TC’s and leetcode. What you need to do is find guys in real life who are alpha and hang out with them. Understand their mentality and their methods. Money, cars, clothes, where you work, and being jacked don’t make you alpha. It’s a mindset. So find Chad’s in real life and befriend them is what I’m saying.
    May 38
    • Google notachad
      OP
      My friends are all beta males too :( they don’t understand my goal. Don’t know how to find alphas to hang with, they probably wouldn’t accept me right now because I am too much of a dork. So have to improve first a bit I think. Like if they are all taking about getting laid what do I say. This is like scene in 40 year old virgin.
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Lol yeah Micro Focus is where all the chads are
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Fwiw I think CrossFit attracts a lot of chads. See if you have one in your area 😉
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Ok but I don’t want to blow out my joints and ruin my body in pursuit of chadness. There has to be something safe that can meet the chads. Like I am sure rugby has chads too but it doesn’t work either
      May 3
    • Micro Focus brotein
      pzd - found the beta.

      notachad - if the idea of a herniated disc or fucked up rotator cuffs doesn’t sound appealing then don’t do crossfit. I recommend a powerlifting gym instead, at least there you’ll get legit advice on your lifting technique. CrossFit instructors are useless.
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      You can get hurt doing exercise with bad form anywhere. CrossFit is no exception. It is a good cult to participate.
      May 3
    • Paychex ReKz02
      ARE YOU IN PAIN BRO!!?? ARE YOU HURTING YET BRAH!!?? YEAH CROSSFIT!!!!! (High fives everyone)
      Srsly, everyone I meet that's done CrossFit humblebrags about when they got injured
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Noobs. I have done CrossFit for two years before switching to powerlifting. Every single trainer prioritized safety and good form over sweating.
      May 3
  • Amazon cogelites
    Wtf all that and you’re white? I thought you’d be indian

    I thought all the white dudes at google were chads wtf
    May 34
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Yeah not a Chad :( am 28 and still a virgin.
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Just pay for it, bro. What are you doing with all that TC? 28 and virgin doesn't sound fun or healthy.
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Nah don’t have that mentality. Would rather die trying to become the Chad then be a beta bux
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Ok remain virgin but please don't go out on a shooting spree
      May 3
  • Salesforce tensorchic
    Wtf is this Chad?
    May 52
    • Oracle pzd
      The guy who stole your girlfriend
      May 5
    • Salesforce tensorchic
      Gfs are not property.
      May 5
  • Chadness is innate
    May 30
  • Facebook / Engplus_ultra
    You need to cut more. 160lbs @ 13% bf is not that good
    May 37
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Yeah I guess so. Cutting is hard with work and being able to focus and all. Also don’t want to lose too much muscle mass and strength, those are so hard to get as a natty :( any tips bro / did you manage to get that Greek god physique?
      May 3
    • Facebook / Engplus_ultra
      Just focus on building strength and controlling your diet. 160lbs @ 5'8 means you should be able to squat at least 2x body weight and bench 1x body weight. If you can't do that yet, it's a good goal to work towards. Best of luck on your path to fitness!
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Wtf are you talking about? 13% body fat is almost athlete level. OP don't cut more. Focus on building muscle instead.

      Come back when you squat 2x bw. You can't be cutting and gaining on squat at the same time.
      May 3
    • Google parm
      is it reeaaaally 13% though
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Yeah my bros I got a scan when it came to google. Not fucking around here it’s supposed to be quite accurate.
      May 3
    • Google parm
      Ok yeah don't cut any more then. Even fb took back what they said, later saying to focus on strength and bulking up.

      That being said I actually don't really get the American hype about having such grotesquely large bodies. The cost is actually immense...to pursue BB beyond where you are already, is to begin to have no life outside of work and fitness on weekdays.

      Personally I believe it's about balance, and having an athletic physique is enough. It doesn't need to be Hollywood level. Don't you want to read books? Make/meet friends? Don't just buy generic "nice" clothes...actually build a sense of fashion and identity?
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      The problem is, Chad already does all that AND he is ripped 😂
      May 3
  • Google notachad
    OP
    I am willing to put in work. I ground leetcode with the best, I have the work ethic. I just need path to level up to Chad :(
    May 34
    • Amazon mUwn3e
      That's why you will always be a virgin
      May 3
    • GoDaddy gd7ejdn
      Wrong LC. You should be LeetChadding, not leetcoding
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Well that is what I am asking. What is the leetchadding? What are the easys here. I can bang those out no problem, I just need to know what they are.
      May 3
    • Glassdoor ufddfu
      You either have it or you don't 😁
      May 3
  • Barclays PLC FAANGHNTER
    Refer me to Google and I will tell you all Chad Secrets.
    May 32
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Can you give me sample one Chad secret? So I know deal is legit.
      May 3
    • Barclays PLC FAANGHNTER
      Be attractive , don't be unattractive.
      May 3
  • Pandora scrolllock
    So you go out and get laid a bunch. Then what? Is there another step, or are you scratching an itch indefinitely?
    May 36
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Goal is to find high quality woman and get married and have kids. But I want young smart high achieving woman. But this woman has options, so she chooses Chad. I am of course qualified to be beta bux, but this does not interest me.
      May 3
    • Pandora scrolllock
      Ok. But “young” and “smart, high-achieving” don’t really go together. Consider dating such women, one in college and one your age. It means very different things.

      Why do you want to be with such a woman? What would you do with her? Could other women do the same?

      Why do you want kids?
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Why don’t they? I want 22 year old Ivy grad that is 5’8”. Then I can have smart tall kids with fertile woman
      May 3
    • Pandora scrolllock
      That’s the wrong approach then. You should be going for 24-25 year old state college graduates. The 2-3 years past graduation will give “burn in” to their personality, so they are more stable, familiar with career demands, have gotten their promiscuity solved, and being slightly older they will be more desperate for a match. The true chads will overlook them, yet will be highly fit/attractive. This works for your advantage as they are then undervalued. You’ll be able to get the life you want at club store prices.
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Well that sounds a bit like the beta approach, but realistically yes that is good idea. But I want to try to be Chad, to attract those women that do not have promiscuity solved, that want that alpha male
      May 3
    • Believe me...smart high achieving women don’t go for Chads or men who think in terms of alpha/beta.

      They’re used to being hit on by Chads all their life. They were in past relationships with Chads, which didn’t work out (often because Chad was abusive).
      May 6
  • Intel babubhatt
    Stop saying things like “Chad” or “beta”
    Guaranteed to help you with women
    May 33
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Well I have no interaction with women right now so I doubt it. But once I become fully Chad, then yes I can forget about this mindset. Kind of how I forgot about leetcode once I got to google
      May 3
    • Intel babubhatt
      Women don’t want someone who considers themselves a Chad

      Or someone who calls people betas
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Well once I am the Chad believe me I won’t be talking about chads and betas. I will be flexing my shirtless body on the beach while an admiring flock of women fawns over me. But until then there doesn’t seem to be any harm, given that there aren’t any women in the picture anyway
      May 3
  • Envestnet jahfineh
    This is so sad
    May 41
  • New Suits
    Maybe just stop trying to be Chad or anyone else and be you! Girls don't think like Chad or non-Chad, they like the little things a guy goes, which can range from caring about the small things and making her feel special. So yeah, stop being Chad and please be you.
    May 50
  • Amazon cogelites
    Ok dude, how many tinder matches do you get? Even I get like 1-2 per week
    May 35
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Not on online dating. Don’t feel it is worth it right now, don’t want to invest lots of time for low quality outcomes. Need to become Chad first, then get the high quality women.
      May 3
    • Amazon cogelites
      So you think you’re not s chad with zero evidence? Typical googler.
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Lol don’t have to be on dating apps to know Chad status. When you are the 6’2” 230 pound ripped Chad women can’t hold back from jumping on you wherever you go
      May 3
    • Amazon cogelites
      You’re just crazy
      May 4
    • Google / EngslqY14
      ,0
      Yesterday
  • Salesforce allegrego
    Don’t forget a fresh haircut. Go to an “urban” place and get a sick fade
    May 32
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Finally some serious advice thanks bro!
      May 3
    • Salesforce allegrego
      Read some more below about your lift stats. Ever try optimizing your shoulder span to waist ratio? You seem like ok in strength but could improve in mass in the right places. 5x5 is a good foundation. However it’s not geared towards aesthetics. Look into increasing the breadth of your shoulders and lats in a size oriented way rather than pure strength if you haven’t before.
      May 3
  • Oracle / Engiblv
    What is chad equivalent for women?
    May 55
    • Oracle / Engiblv
      So how to become stacy?
      May 5
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Ibvl start new thread for that please, want my bros here to be focused on becoming Chad
      May 5
    • Amazon cogelites
      All women are queens so it’s ok
      May 6
    • Oracle pzd
      Woman sees a thread about Chad and tries to hijack it - that's sooo Stacy 😂
      May 6
  • Microsoft U_U
    I can teach you, just because I like you. DM me, and get ready for some work.
    May 41
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Can you post your Chad credentials here please.
      May 4
  • Amazon / EngDeepObsess
    Learn to get the right mixture of Cocky and Funny, learn to listen to women and tease them and get away with it. Also be more flexible, become good friends with more girls. Women want fun, security and freedom all at the same time. So you need to work on your tone/body language and give them enough space. Look back on your past encounters and pick a few improvements in those areas. Good luck
    May 30
  • Oracle pzd
    160lbs at 5'8" is definitely not a Chad. You are skinny. Go bulk up 💪🏋️
    May 34
    • Google notachad
      OP
      Bro I need some conisistency in advice. Fb is telling me to cut, Oracle telling me to bulk, wtf do I do
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      Ok are you muscular at 160lbs? Then I withdraw my comment. Being in good shape is not the same as being mascular.
      May 3
    • Google notachad
      OP
      I can do 5x5 workout with 225 dead, 255 squat, 135 bench. Dexa has me at 13%. So I dunno I think I look pretty decent.
      May 3
    • Oracle pzd
      I don't doubt that you are in good shape.
      May 3
  • New / OthergMhA50
    A good skincare regimen is also important.
    May 60
  • CrowdStrike hQxj31
    Read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
    May 121
    • Google notachad
      OP
      My man! Finally we got a red pilled homie in here!
      May 12
  • Oracle pzd
    Steal his underwear
    May 30
  • Lockheed Martin 😯iP
    Do you talk to them
    May 30

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