RelationshipsApr 28, 2019

How to date a desi girl when you’re white?

How to approach desi girls when you’re a white European? Are you girls into dating white guys or is it frown upon? Any hints for ice breakers? :) I always hit a blocker when asking out a desi girl. When on rare occasions I work up my way towards a successfull approach she is already spoken for or her parents won’t approve. Any insight into the social aspect of being a young Desi girl in America? I could have my parents call her parents, but mine don’t speak much English :( TC: ~200k

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Twitter pipdu Apr 28, 2019

Uh, ask her out for coffee?

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Amazon techm Apr 28, 2019

Says the dude who knows it all

LinkedIn ex-fb Apr 28, 2019

@Amazon? Butt hurt?

Microsoft Trumpster2 Apr 28, 2019

Talk to her parents first, show your paycheck, ask for dowry, ask for an astrologer to fix the marriage date, then take her out to coffee

Google catburglar Apr 28, 2019

Can confirm

Bloomberg iVX372 Apr 28, 2019

You're overthinking it. Just get to know her, and ask her out. No girl says yes if asking her on a date is the first thing you ever say to her.

Wayfair rwxL47 Apr 28, 2019

Just show up, that's it. No effort is required here. Also you are not white, just wishing you were.

Microsoft treat OP Apr 28, 2019

:)

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Troll

Microsoft treat OP Apr 28, 2019

No I’m not!

Tesla uhhyhhgh Apr 28, 2019

It’s not about white or brown. It’s about where you and she grew up. If you’re both local - it shouldn’t be any issues.

Zynga Smilee Apr 28, 2019

You gotta find the whitewashed girls... Higher chances of dating a white guy if they are from 2nd/3rd generation families. Ice breakers : talk about food!

Uber 2muchblind Apr 28, 2019

Agreed here. The ones without strong accents are usually a lot more open minded to whites (and in fact want to date whites). I know several Indian American women dating or married to white guys.

Microsoft whattheFu Apr 28, 2019

I’m white european and my gf is Indian American, what would you like to know

Trend Micro ifelifelse Apr 28, 2019

You both belong to same caste?