Broke up after a 2 year relationship in school, moved to a new city for work and been single for the last year. I realize that I need to meet more women and explore to hope to find someone. The thing is I have no clue what to do - Spend most of my weekdays at work and the gym, weekends mostly doing some random stuff and sleeping. Workplace is mostly male and few married women. Don’t know many people in the new city and somehow the dating apps don’t work out well for me. What do I do to meet new people? Faced something similar before? How did you get out of this? As a person I am outgoing friendly and funny (even without the dad jokes), look decent, no weird personality quirks.
Try to make some friends to go out with and go out to bars
Start going to yoga. You'll be the only straight guy in there, and it's great for building core strength/ stability. Just don't be a creepy dude trying to immediately talk to every girl in there
Plenty of straight guys do yoga these days. Yoga isn’t the place to meet women. Been doing yoga for 3 years. Your advice is terrible and leads to the corruption of yoga. Anyone on here who joins a yoga class from your advice is going to be weird/creepy as fuck in the class. Blind isn’t sending their best.
Join a group that does something you care about or are interested in and this will take care of itself. Same deal as in college
I tired going to aerobics, but it didn't work... It's harder than I expected. Then I went to salsa classes, but there were more guys than girls. + I sucked and it was embarrassing. Then I joined an ice hockey club. I sucked there as well but the guys were nice and we went for beers after. And the "after beers" really helped. I have a colleague who does improve, if you don't like sports. It helps with the soft skills also.
Hire a dating coach
Find your passion and become good at it. Connect with people with the same passion.
No dad jokes? This is the problem
Stand in NYC or LA, throw rock.
During the weekdays/weekends do some kind of social activity outside of work with a good male:female ratio. This could be salsa class, improv, acapella, hiking meetups, or anything you have an interest in. This will help build your social circle and get you used to being around girls. At night, go out to bars and talk to girls that interest you.
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