RelationshipsFeb 7, 2019
BloombergRealMVP

How to flirt better

I’m a dude in my late 20s and I literally suck at flirting. I’m not good with witty puns or comebacks. I ask women ‘nice guy’ questions like what they’re doing next weekend, or if they’ve been hiking in Yellowstone or who their favorite comedian is (lol). Honestly though, women seem to love these questions and almost always respond back with an answer. But it feels one sided as in they don’t seem interested in asking questions about me at all. And after chatting this way for a week or 2, when I finally ask them out, there’s no response. I’ve started to realize that maybe I’m doing this wrong and that dating apps are all about “game”. How do you flirt? Some example scenarios might be helpful. How do you keep her interested?

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Bloomberg RealMVP OP Feb 7, 2019

Oh man. Not this again *sigh*

Roku Mr.Scrooge Feb 7, 2019

Bezos is small. That’s why he is scared !

TI IOlOl0 Feb 7, 2019

Chatting for 2 weeks is too long. Try to get to face to face sooner. Also try to be witty on the opener

Box kindness Feb 7, 2019

Dammit not getting the joke. Could someone explain?

Box kindness Feb 7, 2019

Ha! You're right. Missed that

VMware PJLD43 Feb 7, 2019

If you can understand Hindi this is totally a shitty video. The whole story and the attempt by the guy to convince us that this story is puke-able. However the way he flirts with the girl was truly a lesson for me. Each girl is different. But I found the tone and the emotion he developed to flirt was appropriate. Maybe this will help you. Dig through the part 3 and part 4. https://youtu.be/mFgsnkdCYfk

Vertivco FastPapuan Feb 8, 2019

Helpful, but not helpful enough. Not all your brothers understand Hindi or Urdu or Cantonese.

VMware PJLD43 Feb 8, 2019

That's why it starts with an if condition. It means Skip the answer if you don't

EMC yskV77 Feb 7, 2019

Just be yourself! Maybe it’s the way your asking them out? You could try phrase as more of meeting face to face than going out, that way if there is chemistry there you’ll know. I feel like meeting people in person is easier because you can more easily gauge if you like each other.

eBay OG 💎 Feb 7, 2019

Make fun of girls in a nice way without hurting them.

Bloomberg RealMVP OP Feb 7, 2019

Yeah this almost always gets me blocked

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mdGG61 Feb 7, 2019

Lol you guys are such losers... make fun of yourselves instead. Self deprecating jokes.

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Bloomberg RealMVP OP Feb 7, 2019

Huh wonder what that’s like. Care to point out a few?

Bloomberg RealMVP OP Feb 7, 2019

Exactly. I feel the same. But then chatting is different. You can’t say any of this stuff 5 mins into matching with someone. Gotta learn some teasing

Microsoft UG8Dd3 Feb 7, 2019

There are books and videos to help

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mdGG61 Feb 7, 2019

Op how much would you pay for a service where you upload the conversation you're having and a girl would point out exactly where you fucked up and why? $50/hour?

Bloomberg RealMVP OP Feb 7, 2019

What about a limited trial?

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mdGG61 Feb 7, 2019

Sure but I need to know what the market will bear to measure viability.

Amazon jefe_bezos Feb 7, 2019

Pretend like you are teasing your little sister in a playful way. Don’t neg too hard where they’ll get pissed off, but don’t be a thirsty hoe either.

Airbnb Kgtn Feb 7, 2019

Look up Todd v dating on YouTube