Dating apps seem a bit too straightforward and end up in a hookup or not great experience. How do you meet ladies to interact with in a natural environment and if you like someone, you can ask them out?
I mean gyms, dancing clubs, language courses, tennis or whatever? Where do you girls hang out so that it’s not creepy to chat and learn about each other?
- IBM g-eazyYou're already getting hookups so what's the problem? At the right age girls will get serious. This is the time to have fun.
- Girls get serious mid-late 20s. That's when the tables turn and it becomes a guy's market (Remember men and women are 50:50. Imbalances in "competitiveness" are temporary aberrations).
If you're a guy doing well in the hookup "stage" then you don't need to worry at all. You'll be hot shit when it's serious time. Especially if you make good money, sensible and smart, kind etc. Normal men are rare.Jan 103
- > If you're a guy doing well in the hookup market then you don't need to worry at all. You'll be hot shit when it's serious time. Especially if you make good money, sensible and smart, kind etc. Normal men are rare.
Sorry, no, that's not a given. Not all women will run after players, regardless of her age, how much 'hot shit' he is, or how much 'good money' he makes.Jan 101
- ^ I think you misunderstood. The point is that the player will eventually get serious and settle down, and, if he did well in unfavorable winds he can do very well now that the winds favor him, so to speak.
And yes, it's not just about money. It's super hard to find a guy who looks fuckable, has a decent and respectable career, and a good head on his shoulders. But most importantly, is ready to settle down and happens to be single.
- I get that. But you must also realize that for some women, integrity of the spouse is very important. Such women might compromise (albeit not happily) on one or more of the other partner qualities you mentioned, but would not negotiate on a potential spouse's character.
Such women, believe it or not, may ALSO be smart, well qualified, good looking AND have integrity. Such women are ALSO not found a dime a dozen. Think such women will go for such (purportedly ex-player) men? I think not.
- Male: Spend 4 to 5 years training to be physically and mentally perfect and then settle on that 5/10 SJW.
Female: Go outside.
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- Bank of America blacKnightI will suggest avoid work places atleast.. make yourself great by - looks, smell, physique, style and grooming... go to social places..
which places you meet a person talks a lot about them... my one of the female friend met her husband in charity services where both were participating in social charity services and fell in love as both had common interests... the guy is obviously good because of his intentions..
so if you meet girls in late night clubs (again I am not saying all but mostly) then she might be in open relationship...
better you know yourself first what kind of women you need... a lifetime partner or just a one night or for sex only... based on your requirements and intentions groom and choose your places...
But one advise...never cross your intentions meaning having only sexual relations with women who is really seeing her future with you... or seeing future with women who is only interested in sex or money with you.. in either case you will fuck your self ....
- New / EngFlatlinemoreJust go out man, there’s women everywhere. Go and be social and fun and open to new experiences. Just go and enjoy yourself. Don’t go to meet women, they will smell that a mile away. Go have fun and the women will come.
- Amazon / EngpopozaomoreDating apps make it obvious your intent. You know you’re both looking. If you hit it off, you’ll hook up or start a relationship. That’s up to you and her.
Approaching random folks in public and chatting depends on the city culture you’re in. In Seattle, I don’t think it works at all.
- Oracle 🔴vs🔷Dude, I feel you, I don’t know where to meet guys either. 🤷🏻♀️ Online dating is a crap shoot. All the suitable guys I would date IRL are taken or already married.
I’ve tried on blind too but all I get are Indians and I don’t want to date Indians lol 😂
- IBM filthyasshYou can find a lot of them in Slovakia. Men are so rare that even shitfaces like you can bag a hottie.