We all know that contrary to popular opinion, women on the West coast want to have nothing to do with Indian men esp in San Francisco and Seattle cities. How's the experience in say, a place like Austin. Are the women there equally disgusted by Indian men in social dealings. Anyone here from Austin that can share their experiences?
If you actually venture out of your comfort zone of fellow FOBs, lose the accent, the blue jeans with the blue shirt, lift, use deodorant, have something interesting to offer other than tech, you will realize it’s not the women or your ethnicity that was the problem.
I am none of those but I have noticed that people in this nation can't judge someone beyond what they see on TV and stereotypes. Don't pretend like young American women have the ability to judge people beyond what they stereotype them to be
So you’re not a stereotype and yet women can’t look beyond the stereotypes? How many women have you asked out in person?
Look for non hot white chicks.
Makes sense
Also let me make this clear this thread isn't asking for opinion from White people. This is seeking opinions from my Indian brothers in Austin. So stay racist with your curry smell, deodorant and other stereotypes beaten to death but don't come puke them out here.
It’s not racism it’s a culture difference. Many Indian people from India do not adapt to US culture well when they come over which is fine they don’t have to, but that is where the problem lies.
I have adapted well, I have tons of American friends but I have noticed that American people in general hate Indians due to them taking over the smart jobs and for them being hard working
Stop making up generalizations about an entire nation of people. Nobody hates Indians for “taking over the smart jobs”... there are plenty to go around and tech is still predominantly white and male. Ever consider its your defeatist attitude that turns women off?
I can narrate a racist experience I have faced yesterday, and you tell me if I am making things up.
Look in the mirror and take some personal responsibility. I’ve only known you for about 20 seconds and I don’t like you. Ain’t because you’re Indian brother.
Reads like Jordan Peterson. I approve.
So here's an incident that happened yesterday. P is a white Russian friend of mine, he invited me over to his place yesterday to chill. He also invited another friend N who's Iranian and we all ended up playing pool at their clubhouse. Now P had two of his Russian American friends come over as well. One guy and one girl. We all met each other for the first time, both his two Russian American friends and I and N. We ended up playing pool for a half hour, and the Iranian friend N said he wanted to leave. I said I was going to leave as well, and said goodbye nice to meet upon to the Russian guy, he was receptive. I said the same to the girl and she didn't even bother to look up from her phone, like totally ignored me inspire of my friend P telling her that I was his friend for almost one year. Now, when N was leaving she shook his hand but ignored me when I was offering the same courtesy. My friend P noticed this and pointed it out to her, she flat out lied and said she said goodbye to me, such a blatant lie it's unbelievable after being so rude. If it were just her being mistaken she could have apologized, but the fact that she bluffed about it means she was doing it on purpose. I believe it's because she thinks she was okay in being racist towards an Indian guy. That sums up the attitude of people here.
WTF is this thread really?! I have 2 Indian colleagues married to white girls.
So here's an incident that happened yesterday. P is a white Russian friend of mine, he invited me over to his place yesterday to chill. He also invited another friend N who's Iranian and we all ended up playing pool at their clubhouse. Now P had two of his Russian American friends come over as well. One guy and one girl. We all met each other for the first time, both his two Russian American friends and I and N. We ended up playing pool for a half hour, and the Iranian friend N said he wanted to leave. I said I was going to leave as well, and said goodbye nice to meet upon to the Russian guy, he was receptive. I said the same to the girl and she didn't even bother to look up from her phone, like totally ignored me inspire of my friend P telling her that I was his friend for almost one year. Now, when N was leaving she shook his hand but ignored me when I was offering the same courtesy. My friend P noticed this and pointed it out to her, she flat out lied and said she said goodbye to me, such a blatant lie it's unbelievable after being so rude. If it were just her being mistaken she could have apologized, but the fact that she bluffed about it means she was doing it on purpose. I believe it's because she thinks she was okay in being racist towards an Indian guy. That sums up the attitude of people here.
Yep, and I have 5 friends married to white women. But personally, I find Turkish/Iranian women hot.
So here's an incident that happened yesterday. P is a white Russian friend of mine, he invited me over to his place yesterday to chill. He also invited another friend N who's Iranian and we all ended up playing pool at their clubhouse. Now P had two of his Russian American friends come over as well. One guy and one girl. We all met each other for the first time, both his two Russian American friends and I and N. We ended up playing pool for a half hour, and the Iranian friend N said he wanted to leave. I said I was going to leave as well, and said goodbye nice to meet upon to the Russian guy, he was receptive. I said the same to the girl and she didn't even bother to look up from her phone, like totally ignored me inspire of my friend P telling her that I was his friend for almost one year. Now, when N was leaving she shook his hand but ignored me when I was offering the same courtesy. My friend P noticed this and pointed it out to her, she flat out lied and said she said goodbye to me, such a blatant lie it's unbelievable after being so rude. If it were just her being mistaken she could have apologized, but the fact that she bluffed about it means she was doing it on purpose. I believe it's because she thinks she was okay in being racist towards an Indian guy. That sums up the attitude of people here.
These are your beliefs, not their beliefs though.
If you were as engaging in person as you are in this thread it is no surprise she wanted nothing to do with you. So she is a racist, yet engaged with a different brown dude. From a country America has had issues with consistently since the 70s. Gotcha. Come on man, grow up and do some serious self reflection. Did dude talk to her? Was he telling jokes, , comfortable in his also brown skin? Were you engaging and funny? You come across as a bore online and no matter how handsome you may be that is 100% a turn off
If you percieve women only like sex toys you probably can't get much "acceptance". Treat them respectfully as human beings and you'll be surprised how much success you'll have
Doesn't matter, they would rather belive in some stupid stereotypes than talk to you and know you as a person.
So you don't even believe in respecting women and then you are surprised that they don't want to deal with you?
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Man, what's up with all the self-hating Indian dudes? As long as you’re not a creep and you have good hygiene (e.g you shower and you dress well) you should be fine. Oh, and don’t be so damn cheap either
No one is self hating here. Your nation and culture are very racist intrinsically, accept it and move on. It doesn't matter what you are, you are judged a creep based on your ethnicity. And yes most Indian guys are judged as such esp since white people hate them for taking over the smarter jobs. So go preach elsewhere, your hatred is obvious.
The fact that you assumed someone's cheap because he's Indian says it all. Bring out the racist inside of you