Why divorce is not an option?
Do you have kids?
To this day I honestly do not understand why people get married and/or have kids
Love is irrational. (Discounting our evolutionary desire to reproduce). If you look at it in a purely logical way it will never make sense.
So do you mean to tell me that Mark Zuckerberg has feelings? There's no way.
If you are not attracted to your wife; are you attracted to someone else? Did you know that before marriage? Trying to help.
On a serious note, are you homosexual?
That might be the case and he discovered it after marriage.
Why exactly are you not attracted to her? Is that the complete reason for being said or it’s just part of it? Why is divorce not an option? In any case Blind might not be the best place to sort your life. Still if you share more, we can try to help!
Make an effort. Try to do things for her. Go out, be a little romantic. You will not develop feelings for her overnight, but once you do, it’ll be better.
Please send us a picture of your lunch
If you live in the US just divorce. Spare her a life of no love and passion.
Marriages should also be about friendship. Do you feel like you and your wife are close friends? If not, work on that. Find hobbies you enjoy together, TV shows to binge and share your theories and predictions about, etc. Travel and be cheesy tourists together. Put together Ikea furniture. Whatever it takes to find a connection where you share, collaborate, and support each other. This will give you both a lot of happiness while you figure out what to do about the attraction piece.
Thank you!
Also, don't refrain from getting professional help. There is marriage counseling and couples therapy. Some are genuinely good. A lot of them are scamsters. When you find a good one, you'll see the difference. Marriage takes a lot of work. Also, be conscious of where you are getting help from. Blind is the wrong place for this for sure.
Is this one of those Indian things?...
Arranged marriages That’s the term you’re looking for
Yes like butter chicken and naan bread